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ChicagoBob63 77 Reviews 988 reads
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I don't see a GF experience as someone that is going to talk dirty.  Can see why both providers and guys want something this way.  

Now...on the other hand, if you are looking for a PSE type experience...or "hot" the need to talk and articulate during the session can raise the experience two to three levels

Tonetone31277 reads

I myself love a provider who can walk the walk but also talk the talk. And not all are able to do so.
I think it's either you have it or you don't. Takes a special type of woman. your opinion???

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ChicagoBob63989 reads

I don't see a GF experience as someone that is going to talk dirty.  Can see why both providers and guys want something this way.  

Now...on the other hand, if you are looking for a PSE type experience...or "hot" the need to talk and articulate during the session can raise the experience two to three levels

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Jacque_Jenesais821 reads

The girlfriend who does the things yours won't. They are the ones who strive to keep a very important part of the relationship alive and fresh  

Experimental
Role play,  (I.e. wear wigs for SO's just to change things up, and dress in different styles and characters, hold different bedroom attitudes to make him feel he is getting a taste of different types of girls)
Talk dirty... (I love it when a man whispers dirty, sexy things. In my ear. Even make the shy ones pull my hair lol.)
Spanking
Blindfolds and light ties

Light stuff that a couple would like to 'try' but not as experts.

Really, a great relationship would be even greater if they kept the bedroom activities up.  

Sometimes it's fun to talk dirty, totally screw it up, and have a good laugh. But then comes the day where the barrier breaks and the dirty talk gets serious. Damn.  

So, depending upon your definition of GFE, I would think some ladies want to give you the 'GFE you WISH you had.

Idk. Maybe I'm a little off.  

PSE, yeah. That talk will be dirty. But how much hotter to have the passionate play between two adults who are GF/BF for the night, trying out different roles. Much purer, sweeter, and exciting IMO.  

I provided a link to what I'm talking about.

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LJPT23876 reads

Absolutely!! London Gehl is at the top of that list!!! Bebe Doll also amazing mouth, but prefers her mouth full.😉😉 London will make you explode by listening to her dirty talk!!

Posted By: Tonetone3
I myself love a provider who can walk the walk but also talk the talk. And not all are able to do so.  
 I think it's either you have it or you don't. Takes a special type of woman. your opinion???

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Tobi Telford1018 reads

Anytime I try, it feels contrived and I just wind up sounding like a dolt. I think Dane Cook did a bit about how you'll try to say something sexy in the heat of the moment and then later you think about it and be like "what the fuck was I talking about?" Yeah. That's me.  

Here's a little tip for the guys: don't tell us to say specific things unless awkwardness turns you on. Nothing is more cringeworthy than a guy going "yeahhhhh tell me you luh dat cock" and having to be all "Umm...I love that cock...?"

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GBsmiling736 reads

In time you will be much more comfortable and very well versed at it.
The worst is when someone sounds like the are reading from a script and you can tell
how uncomfortable they are. Just be your natural self this is not Saturday Night Live

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MissErinBlack763 reads

I love talking dirty, but there's a time and a place for everything.  Chemistry plays a huge factor in the successful addition of dirty talking into a session; if I'm talking dirty to you, or you request that I do so, I expect you to interact with me.  It's weird when clients don't reciprocate it.  

Working as a PSO has VASTLY improved my dirty talk skills over the last few years.  I enjoy it a lot. But again, it all depends on the session, and the chemistry I have with the client as to whether or not I'll bring it out.

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RespectfullyYours670 reads

Gotta agree with ya BCG, not worth even faking it if all it produces is a deadpan monotone.

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HangingwithBears912 reads

What's my line? Umm.... cock, dick....umm... And what's this about a "little tip"? (Pun intended)

It's OK to be GFE and pass on the PSE as long as you don't advertise PSE. Or you could watch those "training" videos and learn the PSE lines. (I can see you pulling out a notebook and frantically paging through looking for the right line, lol)

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Jacque_Jenesais878 reads

Do you have anything to drink, oh pirate? Perhaps a Heweliusz? Oooooh! KIEŁBASA! How juicy!

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HangingwithBears721 reads

I actually know what a Polish sausage is, lol.

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Jacque_Jenesais807 reads

And my bf at the time I tried it laughed at me, lol.

My problem at the moment is the fact that I just say what I think. If I like someone's 'perfect cock', which there are a few I've seen face to face, lol… I just say it. Perhaps I should say it a tad more like a porn star?

"uhhh oh… mmmmmmm" *licks lips* *spits on cock* "I just luuv this cock!" LOL.

Which is more believable? The blatant "It is what it is" talk, or the over dramatized, porn star talk?

I still think the whisper in the ear dirty talk is sexiest. :D

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kayjaykay790 reads

"I still think the whisper in the ear dirty talk is sexiest"

Absolutely! I ask for it if I think the lady is cool with it.
And then I ask her to speak up....I don't wear my hearing aid during sex.

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Tobi Telford836 reads

If someone has a nice dick, I'll just tell them straight up, "dude, you have a nice dick." But it's going to sound so obviously contrived if I'm like "ooooh fuck me with that perfect cock, you fucking stallion of my dreams!"  

If I'm going to be expected to recite some porn dialogue, it's just going to annoy me. I would assume that most guys would prefer the genuine moans of pleasure over the forced ramblings of an irritated hooker.  

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And my bf at the time I tried it laughed at me, lol.  
   
 My problem at the moment is the fact that I just say what I think. If I like someone's 'perfect cock', which there are a few I've seen face to face, lol… I just say it. Perhaps I should say it a tad more like a porn star?  
   
 "uhhh oh… mmmmmmm" *licks lips* *spits on cock* "I just luuv this cock!" LOL.  
   
 Which is more believable? The blatant "It is what it is" talk, or the over dramatized, porn star talk?  
   
 I still think the whisper in the ear dirty talk is sexiest. :D

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HangingwithBears641 reads

Could be as contrived as "stallion of my dreams" which if I heard that, I'd be laughing so hard the woody would be gone. If it was CO, she'd be saying what she's thinking at the time... 'you have a limp dick you moron, what am I supposed to do with that?"

Here's a good script: "Fuck me baby, fuck me with that hard fucking cock, that's it, slam me baby". Now this would be keep me nice and hard so CO wouldn't have to say what was on her mind :-)

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lustinthemorning708 reads

I totally agree with BCG.  

I realize that providers are not in awe of my cock, my average body, the way I kiss, my stamina, my tongue etc.   I'm sure they have seen and had better (not that I'm terrible)... but when they fake the whole talk dirty thing, it totally turns me off.  

A sincere "that was nice or that was fun" afterward (if true) is all the verbal stroking I need.

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LKSJTHLBN789 reads

You can always adopt the katie morgan theory of dirty talk and simply describe whatever is taking place at the given moment. If youre being eaten..."yeah eat that pussy", if fucking, "yeah fuck me". This also has the added benefit of if youre partner is really bad at whatever he/she is doing, the description helps clarify things for all involved. Lol

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JosephineBelle612 reads

But if you want me to just talk lots of sexy shit, I usually have no problem. Standard "yeah, I want you to fuck me with your huge cock until I can't walk, baby" is a piece of cake!

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Tickleit862 reads

I think it's easy to tell when it's bullshit. But guys, we've all watched porn, right? Hello? So you probably have an clue if you have a nice cock or not so you should be able to pick up on if the girl bullshitting you or not. Does that sound fucked up? lol..

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NDIB986 reads

Is something I love to do for the lady.    I don't normally ask the lady to do it unless I am sure  she is into it.   I like to do it but like to use erotic creativity.

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WICardinalfan701 reads

Lustinthemorning got it right.

The kind of dirty talk I like to hear and say is more about what my partner is feeling, giving me instruction on what she likes and coaching.

Like, "Keep sucking on my tit" or "I am getting wet, go down on me", or "pound me harder".

That sort of stuff.  I am middle aged and past my prime, so I know my cock ain't as good as it was in my early 30's, let alone anyone else s.

I did have one, established provider tell me I shot more cum in her mouth than just about anyone else.  I responded saying I bet you tell that to all your clients.  She insisted she was telling the truth.  Maybe she was, maybe she was not.....the important thing is it made me feel good at the time and still does........

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chocolatefantasygirl829 reads

Dirty talking is pretty normal for me ,I enjoy it very much....
Being a phone sex operator / cam girl , I'm well experienced with  sweet whispers and talking dirty....

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Tonetone3793 reads

@ Eva you seem so well rounded as a provider professional I'm thinking more more you're a must see just thought I'd let you know cutie pie

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Posted By: Tonetone3
@ Eva you seem so well rounded as a provider professional I'm thinking more more you're a must see just thought I'd let you know cutie pie

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