Whether it's a link to reset it to something else or the current password itself, the person will still get in and have access.

Seems to me that the REAL problem was being sloppy and letting someone find out your 'secret email' in the first place.   One slip up leads to a bunch of pain.

Let's look at this for a moment.

1. You are either married or have a significant other.

2. You have not exercised extreme caution with regards to your hobbying activity. Emails and passwords should be well thought out and very difficult to hack.

3. You are using a computer that your wife or s.o. has access to and have not fully cleansed it.


Being divorced for thr past 16 years, it is very difficult for me to understand why a man in your position would not exercise extreme measures of security to protect ones alter ego. Besides, you have sooooo much to loose. Your wife or s.o., your house, or at least 50% of it and half of your pension, not to mention possible child support and alimony.  How much more motivation do you need to be more careful. Oh, the possibility of being arrested also.

TER operates in a secure enviroment and makes the same protocol available that most other institutions do to help you recover a password. Heck, I think Chase bank does theirs the same way.

Look into the mirror and ask yourself, "why have I not been more careful with such potential damming information"? As you look back into the mirror, ignore the laughing person that you see. He is laughing at you and not with you.

There is no execuse for stupidity at this level. Either be far more creative in your deceptive ways or give up the hobby and remain loyal to your wife. The ladies don't need phone calls and emails from a pissed off spouse or s.o. and the guys on the board won't give you much moral support. They will be too busy wiping the tears from their eyes from laughing. Lets face it, everyone enjoys a train wreck.

Sorry for being harsh, but in the immortal words of Forest Gump, "stupid is as stupid does".

Funtimes61

seems to me u have to update YOUR security (also your spelling, but thats the teacher in me)
more importantly, so how did u resolve it with your significant other ?

Jesus Christ. Sue the fuckers. You can't write worth a shit. I'd al least get a refund for that Eng. 101 class.

Why all the hate?

Seriously. Yeah he messed up and he's venting, who wouldn't, but guess what... he has a point. TER could look at his complaint professionally, which appears to be that user names and passwords shouldn't be sent via plain text via email, and say hey maybe we'll take a look at updating the reset process. Instead you guys just start calling him names and criticizing. (Gaytard??? Really???) I had to re-read it a couple times and nowhere in that post does he say this is all TER's fault. He actually points the finger at himself for not being more careful about the email account's password in the first place.

This is the sense of community you show when you see a fellow member has made a life-altering mistake? No, this isn't Utopia-land but neither is it the hell you've given this guy. I normally enjoy these boards and rarely post but have to make an exception here. Neither am I afraid to say what I have to say without the need for an alias.

This is not the reaction I'd expect in a profession where we ALL must be as careful as we possibly can. This site may not be for everyone but there's no reason it can't be improved for those of us who choose to use it.

Wow, is that the pot calling the kettle black.  As another poster mentioned, if it is the full password or a link to do a reset, what is the difference (unless you use the same username and password on multiple 'secret' accounts)?  The problem here is that you, or the hypothetical person getting caught, got really sloppy leaving a trail to be found to the email account and used a non-secure password that could be cracked.  Speaking as one who has used his S.O's own laptop to access this site and log into the associated email, I know what I'm speaking about.  Cover your tracks, use a bulletproof email and site password, delete non-essential old emails just in case, and it will be better than anything TER can do to make you feel better about the 'reset/lost password' process.

SMEGMA!!

So why did TER change my password ?

I couldn't log in yesterday either. When I got the password via email, I found that it was different. TER down-cased all the capital letters! Why would they do this? Mixed-case passwords are much more secure. Now I'm wondering if I can change it back to what it was without locking myself out completely.