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Good question and good that you asked.
Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 538 reads
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As you know, we have a lot of guys who love to pull out that DNS list at any chance lol.

But I would advise not to do this. For your sake too. Also be careful about home ownership and entertaining. All you need is one person to fall in love, or the need to cut off a good client gone bad for them to report you to homeowners association and get your house taken.

Another thing to note. Everyone who knows your address has access to alllll of your real information if you are the homeowner. from what I believe it's registered and public info. Not much control over it.

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I have enhanced myself to perfection and still have run to grow, I love this form of ART!! I have a question to the fellow providers and hobbyist, I will be getting a house in April and want to set it up to play for my regulars and verified fellows but I want to have a camera that loops and record 24/7. I guess the ? is would fellows be okay with being recorded and having it delete each day, it would be just for your safety and mine.

GaGambler1229 reads

I would NEVER, not in a million years ever knowingly allow you to do that to me. Nor would any other john with even half a brain.

BTW I am 100% blackmail proof and already "out" and I still would never allow it, if any of your married clients were to find out you were filming them I wouldn't blame them from forcibly ripping the cameras out of the walls and destroying them.  

If I haven't made myself clear, I think this is a VERY bad idea. You do realize that what you and your clients do is illegal, don't you? Why do you think ANYONE would be okay with being filmed in the commission of a crime? I think you need a LOT more enhancing before you even approach perfection, this puts you in the immediate running for SPOTY 2016 even though we are only two days into the new year.

What I would like to see, whether on film, or in real life, is what kind of a guy chooses to see this girl (???)

Yeah... ummmm noooo

Captain_Obvious768 reads

Even if you don't go through with your dumb idea, guys will go elsewhere now. You ever hear of hackers? Should have stuck to posting threADS.

why ever would you invite guests to the home, private stand alone home?  Now if you are getting a condo, cool, but even a town home if you neighbors are anything like mine they keep an eye on the neighborhood including how many visitors you have.  There was a lady a few years back that did that and the neighbors reported her for suspicious behavior and she was busted.  Many of us remember this well, because the info including her full address were everywhere.

Not only that but you have to realize that you will also open your selves up to those guys who think it is ok to just stop by when they are in the neighborhood.  They don't care if your family is there, they will just drop by sometimes calling and sometimes not(I worked from an apt I lived in for a very short time, the amount of door knockers that would ring my buzzer was not cool).  

Do yourself a favor, when you buy your house use hotels or get a separate in-call apt either by yourself with someone you know screens well and keep it separate from your house.  The occasional very well trusted guest might be ok, but keep in mind if a guest goes bad, falls for you, or chooses to be nosy(they can type in your address on any computer and bring up your full real info in about 30seconds) they can out you or worse which could make you ineligible for many careers if you ever choose to do something else.

And the Video camera thing, just no.  The reasons are too numerous to mention

Thank you, just what I'm looking for, advise on how to make everything better for everyone. Thank you for not shooting me dead with insults. This has helped a lot. Im new to some things and before I make such a great move I wanted to see how to make ithe completely safe.  
I have screenshot this post youemail very smart, thank you again!!!!

You would definitely be risking civil assets forfeiture and the city of Chicago is broke, they'd love to add your home to they're list of assets.

But also considering that Illinois is broke, would not be a bad idea to consider the idea of a few legalized brothels, maybe in areas where there already are established casinos. When are we going to realize that legal prohibition of this activity hasn't worked anymore than it did with liquor all those years ago?

... but not crucifixion-worthy in my book.

Well thank you I think I may be temporary cute for this, I can't give the best sexual experience if it "OFF WITH HER HEAD" heehee

Posted By: Southern Belle
Well thank you I think I may be temporary cute for this, I can't give the best sexual experience if it "OFF WITH HER HEAD" heehee
I would think a severe flogging would be adequate punishment. Probably keep you off your back for a while though haha.

Sick jokes aside - I tip my hat to you for handling the onslaught so graciously.

A further thought on "providing" out of your own home: I know some do it, but I sure wouldn't want to. Among my chief concerns would be clients turning to stalkers and prying neighbors. If I owned the home, in this era of "civil asset forfeiture" I'd be worried that LE would show up at my doorstep one day to seize my home leaving me with little or no recourse, a potentially lifetime mortgage with nothing to show for it, and my livelihood destroyed. See the link below for more on civil asset forfeiture. I should add the caveat that I don't know if any escorts have actually had their homes seized, though I have read of johns having their cars seized.

I have been to two providers home who does this so I know the lady side of "why" just wanted to check on the guys.  I'm speaking on future and how i can make it a better transaction for everyone by doing various ideas, this one may not work and it's okay lol. N even though this mouth is used for the best blow jobs I must say "wow it speaks" lol. Getting everyone on this topic or the next is all that I'm about. I love the respond. Keep up the good jobs everyone!!!!

About a year ago, I stopped seeing someone who does FBSM because last time I was there, after we were done, I noticed a cam up on the wall with the cord running back through a closed doorway. I didn't know if it was for "security", or if some asshole boyfriend was watching it in the other room, or if it was broadcasting to Periscope or what. I didn't say a word about it but I have never gone back and never will.

Apartment complexes, High Rises, Hotels, and etc. can all have cameras too. Also, thanks to Big Brother, there are even cameras posted up on street intersections as well. Nonetheless, in the event that anything happened to either provider or hobbyist (God forbid) it wouldn't take that much to get a glimpse of the suspect on camera, somewhere

As you know, we have a lot of guys who love to pull out that DNS list at any chance lol.

But I would advise not to do this. For your sake too. Also be careful about home ownership and entertaining. All you need is one person to fall in love, or the need to cut off a good client gone bad for them to report you to homeowners association and get your house taken.

Another thing to note. Everyone who knows your address has access to alllll of your real information if you are the homeowner. from what I believe it's registered and public info. Not much control over it.

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Stickythong662 reads

To paraphrase the guy from the beer commercial.

"I don't always participate in illegal activity
But when I do, I prefer not to leave evidence behind"

This is one of the dumber ideas, and that's saying something, that has ever been posted on this site.  

Posted By: Southern Belle
I have enhanced myself to perfection and still have run to grow, I love this form of ART!! I have a question to the fellow providers and hobbyist, I will be getting a house in April and want to set it up to play for my regulars and verified fellows but I want to have a camera that loops and record 24/7. I guess the ? is would fellows be okay with being recorded and having it delete each day, it would be just for your safety and mine.

Have you ever asked an obvious answer question when new at something? May seem dumb to some of the guys replying, but idk the answers from some of the ladies shows us hookers have evolved a little quicker in maturity in giving constructive adult answers here. Lol

Not "you're so dumb, you're so dumb now I'm sucking on my thumb " answers lmfao.

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Captain_Obvious518 reads

You are making fun of her and saying how stupid can she be. We can see through that sisterhood community BS.

GaGambler477 reads

It doesn't just "seem" dumb, it is absolutely one of the DUMBEST ideas ever aired on this board.

If there was an award for stupidity, she just put herself in the running as the stupidest. Oh wait, there is such an award. I think we may just have ourselves a new SPOTY frontrunner.

Now before you say there is "no need to be rude" sometimes there really is a need for harshness. Subtlety doesn't always translate well on internet forums, mild criticism often is read as tacit agreement and some ideas are so dumb and so dangerous if followed through with, they warrant a public flogging, this is one of those cases. I think, or at least I hope, we have responded in a strong enough manner to ensure she puts this idea at the top of the trashpile of stupid ideas.

Sometimes you just have to call it the way it is! Right on GaGambler!

This would be a tad different as it was asked, "should I?"  Let's say I jumped on and said "Everyone should do this." I think if I'm teaching or giving advice vs asking advice, then that is a different story.  

This is phrased seeking the input of the 'community'. (As I like to say it, the loud minority of people just trolling. Takes one to know one right? lol.)  

Again - you guys do as you wish. You're adults too. But you know me, I have to jump in and challenge the boys every so often. I have people counting on me for entertainment. ;)  

I definitely like to speak differently to women then men. I mean they're delicacies. They make this world beautiful. They're the nurturers of society. They love hard, and they hurt hard. I'm totally stereotyping, but I've met a lot of women, and I've met a lot of men, and that is my conclusion thus far lol.  

Also remember. We have our thought processes that are much more complicated than those of men. Feminist or not, we have more shit to filter through naturally built into our heads.  

Most men are direct, so you talk to men differently than women. Ever notice men don't take hints well?  

Our thoughts have to go through all of the options and many different channels before we come to a conclusion. You know the Noodles vs. Boxes theory.

It's an entirely different communication process.  

😘😘

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You're kind, Courtney, and that can never be the wrong decision.  

And I agree, we men are a pretty simple lot, compared to you women. Ever see the image floating around the web that shows a panel with an upper and a lower image? On the top, you see an electronic device, something like an audio tuner. It sports just one switch, on or off.

Below it is the same device, except it has about 50 or ore switches and dials. The top is labeled "man"; the bottom "woman".  

So true.

I seem to vaguely recall, in the deep, dark recesses of what little remains of my long-term memory, coming up with the occasional hare-brained idea when I was Southern Belle's tender age of 21. Unfortunately, in those pre-internet days, I did not have the benefit of a public forum like this where such ideas could be publicly vetted. Indeed, there was really no forum where the wise elders could attack and humiliate me with ardor sufficient to ensure that I truly understood the magnitude of my stupidity. As a result, these many decades later, even in my advanced state of mental and physical decrepitude, I'm STILL coming up with surprisingly numb-skulled ideas on an all too frequent basis. If you don't believe me - ask my wife!!

All of which is to say, I hope Southern Belle appreciates the invaluable service we have provided her with our responses in this thread ;).

Stickythong434 reads

This isn't a new hires training class at the phone company. This is the kind of thing, if it goes wrong, could impact peoples lives for years in the future. Think about that. Arrest, blackmail, conviction and a total lack of discretion come to mind.

If you note I didn't say she was dumb, just the idea.  
 

Posted By: Courtney.Ova
Have you ever asked an obvious answer question when new at something? May seem dumb to some of the guys replying, but idk the answers from some of the ladies shows us hookers have evolved a little quicker in maturity in giving constructive adult answers here. Lol  
   
 Not "you're so dumb, you're so dumb now I'm sucking on my thumb " answers lmfao.

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Exactly what she wanted...attention

Hopefully it paid some bills, not going to join in on the pile up....especially fellow providers who ALREADY know the game....get real...people make money differently.

I do agree with Sages post....not too much piling with a touch of truth...I can get with that.

Carry on people.

Lisa

It okay promise  


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A provider did a similar thing in central WI.  She was a bit nuts anyway, allowed and encouraged bare back which kept me away.

She would take clients at her home, video tape and shoot stills, copy and give to the client.  All is good, right?

Wrong, she kept the photos/videos in a safe, along with pristine records of who visited her and when. Guys actually had to submit selfies before an appointment.  Crazy thing is many guys did it!  

Neighbors got suspicious of all the visitors to her condo.  She got busted big time, along with at least 10 of her clients.

So for everyone's sake, do not do it.

Uh that was a huge mess. Very weird situation all that was.

...without being insulted?!  That's what this forum is for.  So what it's a bad idea... I told her pretty much the same as Sage last time I saw her.  And I will continue to see her because she is a good provider!

LOL!!!!
This is a riot  
All it really does is brings more attention to the age we live in  
Cameras are everywhere!!!  
Why she exposed her idea on here is a mystery  
One idea; "no pub is BAD pub" (This is a questionable motive here)
How about upload it to the cloud to prevent it from being lost or misused
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