: Chicago Discussion : Passive men in bed. Who Love being taken...

ZabrinaSarafina See my TER Reviews 1149 reads

posted 12 years ago

1 / 20

Passive men in bed. Who Love being taken...

Do most of you on here consider yourself passive? Not to be confused with submissive, but you like the woman to be in control

From my experience, 99.9% of you prefer or feel more comfortable this way.

I am naturally dominant with masculine energy so I don't mind ...though I always find it humorous. I don't know why... It just goes against the deeply ingrained image of the man being in control and the poor helpless woman. (God bless her weak soul)

What I love about passive men is they unleash the passion in me, allowing the freedom to do whatever I wish ....what I don't like ...is that it can get boring. And old. To be always in charge. In control. *Yawn*

But I don't get along with dominant men, so my options are limited.

I just wish you passive feminine guys would try being more assertive. That's right. You can do it!

Let go of all the insecurity, and just let yourself go...

We have faith in you

Ame

tokin1 4 Reviews 461 reads

posted 12 years ago

2 / 20

Interesting question!

I do not mind taking charge at all once the action has started, but I do have a deep-down desire to be seduced, and have the woman actually make the first move for me.

For instance while we are in the small-talk, sipping wine stage her getting up & unzipping my pants in the middle of me telling a dumb story... HOT!

Not sure if you consider that fully 'Passive' or not

ZabrinaSarafina See my TER Reviews 546 reads

posted 12 years ago

3 / 20

Re: Interesting question!

Us women have a 'deep-down' desire to be seduced too...

Just grab us and fuck us

Then ...we can small talk about our failing marriages.

Posted By: tokin1

I do not mind taking charge at all once the action has started, but I do have a deep-down desire to be seduced, and have the woman actually make the first move for me.

For instance while we are in the small-talk, sipping wine stage her getting up & unzipping my pants in the middle of me telling a dumb story... HOT!

Not sure if you consider that fully 'Passive' or not.

tokin1 4 Reviews 417 reads

posted 12 years ago

4 / 20

Zabrina added to favorites list! EOM

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manofsteel8 29 Reviews 403 reads

posted 12 years ago

5 / 20

absolutely love it! eom

Posted By: ZabrinaSarafina

Do most of you on here consider yourself passive? Not to be confused with submissive, but you like the woman to be in control

From my experience, 99.9% of you prefer or feel more comfortable this way.

I am naturally dominant with masculine energy so I don't mind ...though I always find it humorous. I don't know why... It just goes against the deeply ingrained image of the man being in control and the poor helpless woman. (God bless her weak soul)

What I love about passive men is they unleash the passion in me, allowing the freedom to do whatever I wish ....what I don't like ...is that it can get boring. And old. To be always in charge. In control. *Yawn*

But I don't get along with dominant men, so my options are limited.

I just wish you passive feminine guys would try being more assertive. That's right. You can do it!

Let go of all the insecurity, and just let yourself go...

We have faith in you

Amen

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 422 reads

posted 12 years ago

6 / 20

I'm normally in charge...

...and that's why men come to see me. I have no issues being the assertive one, and actually like it that way for the most part.

I do really enjoy an assertive guy, though. In fact, I need it to feel balanced from time to time. Lucky for me, I have a few regulars with large hands that are fantastic ass-grabbers.

If the vibe is right, I love an assertive partner. If the vibe isn't right, it becomes a matter of knowing how to wield control. No issues there.

billywalters22 8 Reviews 393 reads

posted 12 years ago

7 / 20

It's all relative

Lots of layers to this topic, but one factor is probably the fact that most men know that a good provider is way better at all this than they are, so why not let them take the lead.
Kinda reminds me of dancing with my SO. I consider myself a pretty decent freestyle dancer, but she has danced professionally, teaches dance, and is still really good. Whenever we used to dance, I always ended up mentally throwing up my hands because she was so far ahead of me. Men always lead in dance, and I held my own all things considered, but who was I really kidding.

Definitely words of wisdom from Zabrina tho. Most women want to be ravished with wild abandon by a confident man. In the real world you might hit a dead end if your timing is off (or she just isn't in to you), but in this game the conclusion isn't in question (for the most part), so go for it!

**Another factor is probably that many providers are extremely attractive, sexy, alluring women (Zabrina included...I'm new to the hobby, but I've had my eye on you for sure!). No matter the circumstances, this is bound to put many men a little on their heels. Makes me think of some women I've met who are so beautiful that they actually have trouble meeting decent men because they're too intimidated by the woman's looks.

siudp 26 Reviews 363 reads

posted 12 years ago

8 / 20

Passive men in bed. Who Love being taken...

Zabrina,

One thing to consider: If you spend most of your time making decisions and "running" things, it's really nice to let someone else drive things sometimes.

So to answer your question, I am not passive by nature but it's a lot of fun and relaxing to let a sexy woman be in control for a few hours.

ZabrinaSarafina See my TER Reviews 369 reads

posted 12 years ago

9 / 20

I could use more ass-grabbing in my life

I mean on the reclining end ...oops receiving not reclining :-P

Posted By: MissErinBlack

...and that's why men come to see me. I have no issues being the assertive one, and actually like it that way for the most part.

I do really enjoy an assertive guy, though. In fact, I need it to feel balanced from time to time. Lucky for me, I have a few regulars with large hands that are fantastic ass-grabbers.

If the vibe is right, I love an assertive partner. If the vibe isn't right, it becomes a matter of knowing how to wield control. No issues there.

ZabrinaSarafina See my TER Reviews 367 reads

posted 12 years ago

10 / 20

Peel away all the layers... one by one

Being with a more experienced partner is nice ....but personally what really turns me on is when I'm aware they are on the innocent side but are trying to seduce me. Passive men are just so adorable! I just want to jump them and ravish them. I think after a few meetings, they learn to become a little less shy. You really have to help build their confidence. With alot of flattering compliments, encouragements. They just need guidance. Like a puppydog

Posted By: billywalters22

Lots of layers to this topic, but one factor is probably the fact that most men know that a good provider is way better at all this than they are, so why not let them take the lead.
Kinda reminds me of dancing with my SO. I consider myself a pretty decent freestyle dancer, but she has danced professionally, teaches dance, and is still really good. Whenever we used to dance, I always ended up mentally throwing up my hands because she was so far ahead of me. Men always lead in dance, and I held my own all things considered, but who was I really kidding.

Definitely words of wisdom from Zabrina tho. Most women want to be ravished with wild abandon by a confident man. In the real world you might hit a dead end if your timing is off (or she just isn't in to you), but in this game the conclusion isn't in question (for the most part), so go for it!

**Another factor is probably that many providers are extremely attractive, sexy, alluring women (Zabrina included...I'm new to the hobby, but I've had my eye on you for sure!). No matter the circumstances, this is bound to put many men a little on their heels. Makes me think of some women I've met who are so beautiful that they actually have trouble meeting decent men because they're too intimidated by the woman's looks.

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 383 reads

posted 12 years ago

11 / 20

Re: I could use more ass-grabbing in my life

rougher ass-grabbing is almost therapeutic in nature for me. It feels amazing, kind-of like a massage.

Posted By: ZabrinaSarafina

I mean on the reclining end ...oops receiving not reclining :-P

Posted By: MissErinBlack

...and that's why men come to see me. I have no issues being the assertive one, and actually like it that way for the most part.

I do really enjoy an assertive guy, though. In fact, I need it to feel balanced from time to time. Lucky for me, I have a few regulars with large hands that are fantastic ass-grabbers.

If the vibe is right, I love an assertive partner. If the vibe isn't right, it becomes a matter of knowing how to wield control. No issues there.

HangingwithBears 390 reads

posted 12 years ago

12 / 20

Ass grabber here

I'm an ass man

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 377 reads

posted 12 years ago

13 / 20

Passive/dominant

Personally, I lean more towards the submissive side. I like being ravaged

Posted By: ZabrinaSarafina

Do most of you on here consider yourself passive? Not to be confused with submissive, but you like the woman to be in control

From my experience, 99.9% of you prefer or feel more comfortable this way.

I am naturally dominant with masculine energy so I don't mind ...though I always find it humorous. I don't know why... It just goes against the deeply ingrained image of the man being in control and the poor helpless woman. (God bless her weak soul)

What I love about passive men is they unleash the passion in me, allowing the freedom to do whatever I wish ....what I don't like ...is that it can get boring. And old. To be always in charge. In control. *Yawn*

But I don't get along with dominant men, so my options are limited.

I just wish you passive feminine guys would try being more assertive. That's right. You can do it!

Let go of all the insecurity, and just let yourself go...

We have faith in you

Amen

goodwon 65 Reviews 356 reads

posted 12 years ago

14 / 20

Switch

I like to share power with the girl. I like to be used, especially orally, and in other ways, by the girl. I really enjoy seeing her get off. And then I like to use the girl, too, in various ways. Of course, the erotic fun of it is talking about it before and during to make sure we both want it and are enjoying it. No means no, of course, but usually the answer is yes. Switching between dominant and submissive is akin to the old in and out for me.

ZabrinaSarafina See my TER Reviews 438 reads

posted 12 years ago

15 / 20

We think alike

Posted By: MissErinBlack

rougher ass-grabbing is almost therapeutic in nature for me. It feels amazing, kind-of like a massage.

Posted By: ZabrinaSarafina

I mean on the reclining end ...oops receiving not reclining :-P

Posted By: MissErinBlack

...and that's why men come to see me. I have no issues being the assertive one, and actually like it that way for the most part.

I do really enjoy an assertive guy, though. In fact, I need it to feel balanced from time to time. Lucky for me, I have a few regulars with large hands that are fantastic ass-grabbers.

If the vibe is right, I love an assertive partner. If the vibe isn't right, it becomes a matter of knowing how to wield control. No issues there.

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 403 reads

posted 12 years ago

16 / 20

I'm Def. A FEMDOM!!!!......but....

I do enjoy a handcuffed GAGGING SESSION every once inwhile ...... 😝😝😝😝😝😝

Happy & Hungover in Chitown 💋💋💋!!!!
GC

Zana12345 See my TER Reviews 416 reads

posted 12 years ago

17 / 20

Getting Wet Now!!!!!!!

Oh MY God!!! That is SOOOOO HOT!!! When a man has you bent over and is grabbing you like that!!!!!! Hold on..... Toy vibrating again A LOT!!!! Love this topic!!

Love
Zana

Posted By: MissErinBlack

rougher ass-grabbing is almost therapeutic in nature for me. It feels amazing, kind-of like a massage.

Posted By: ZabrinaSarafina

I mean on the reclining end ...oops receiving not reclining :-P

Posted By: MissErinBlack

...and that's why men come to see me. I have no issues being the assertive one, and actually like it that way for the most part.

I do really enjoy an assertive guy, though. In fact, I need it to feel balanced from time to time. Lucky for me, I have a few regulars with large hands that are fantastic ass-grabbers.

If the vibe is right, I love an assertive partner. If the vibe isn't right, it becomes a matter of knowing how to wield control. No issues there.