A couple of people have asked me if I do this- I don't but I'd like to know how they're usually set up if I did decide to.

Do providers already know other providers?  Or maybe are truly bi and have a non-pro gf who does one-offs occasionally?  Do men pick two providers?  Would I ask criteria and hit up listings myself?  Or should I do this ahead of time to have names ready?  But without actual pending offers, wouldn't that make me a time waster?

Hobbyists and providers- rumors and experiences appreciated.

-Marie

(BTW, yes a few times in college.  Roommate and I would occasionally "treat" the other's bf.  No, not into girls but did enjoy indulging a harmless fantasy.)

We should do a duo together

I have 2 pro friends that I use for my duos. I have 1 Caucasian and 1 Black (I think variety is important) but I know some men choose ladies for you or together you can with your established clients I believe; my Caucasian pro friend she does this!

It really depends on how much of a control freak you are in my opinion. I'm an extreme control freak lol I need to pick the lady. If I'm not attracted to her or don't think we would mesh based off her ads I wouldn't dare do it because that would ruin the session, I'm surprisingly bad at faking things lol so I have girls ready that I know and trust and we have a similar play style so it's complimentary and we don't undercut one another.  

 
*Im also super bi so that's probably why I'm all excited haha

I hope this makes sense.
Kisses,
Miss Lola Luxe

Sort of pitched that idea last night.  We'll see.  

I do like the idea of some differences, my roommate was a brunette with a tiny top and a bit more bottom.  Maybe that keeps it from feeling competitive.     I'd want to approve of the girl I think, but don't necessarily need to be the one to choose.

Do most girls start with friends or at an agency?  I'm having to look up acronyms used in my own reviews, lol, so admittedly I'm going about some of this backwards.  

Definitely let me know, I'm interested in finding a blonde provider to play with for duos and we could be a dream team

 
Yeah I'm just a psycho when it comes to presentation and execution and even in a field like this I find it very important. But yes being more flexible is a lot better haha

Kisses,
Miss Lola Luxe

i usually arrange them..if i feel any of the providers i see will click with another and have good chemistry..a few calls will do the trick..i have never been wrong yet..

I do a lot of threesomes in this lifestyle, and used to do many more on my own time (the scene of civie sex just isn't doing it for me lately).

Yes, a lot of us ladies know each other. Personally... and intimately There are ladies in this lifestyle who I was friends with before we found out about each others secrets, and some that I've met here and hit it off with. I've dated more women than men in my personal life, and those girls that were in my life long enough to share this with have enjoyed it as well (I wouldn't consider them "one-offs" as two have stayed in this lifestyle since dissolving our relationship. Thankfully I've never been asked to do a double with an ex!).

It's not totally uncommon for a girl to see another girl's site, style and location, get talking over the course of time, and meet out at the bar for a drink if schedules match up. I hit happy hours at the bar with my more amenable coworkers at the civie job, so why not here? This lifestyle can be very isolating if you let it be - and there's no reason to let it be if you don't want to. the ladies here are for the most part accomplished, intelligent, and liberated, and therefore make great likeminded friends  

Sexuality being what it is though, it's not just like I crawl into bed with every nice girl. Sometimes there's a spark, and sometimes just great company. When there's a man involved, his preferences obviously matter too! So, while I can tell him which women I mesh well with on the mattress (nothing tops good chemistry), the choice is ultimately his as to who we see. I've met great women that way as well - you men have wonderful taste! I love it, it's like a lesbian blind date, lol.  

~Mme X~

Was an interesting coincidence.  Two providers I had seen and enjoyed suddenly started advertising duos.  Practically salivating, I booked a session with them.  It turned out to be girl A's first duo experience, though girl B was quite experienced.  Both girls were super into it and I had the time of my life.  My experience with duos is quite limited relative to other folks here I'm sure, but I would venture to say that I would not do one unless I had been with each girl individually first, as that's been my experience and it's worked very well.

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I have a few clients request similar things.

I like to meet with ladies in the area to see if we click, get a feel for them, simply have a fun friend to hang with, etc. Then if a client talks about doing duos, I simply say, I know a lot of great ladies in the area. What would you be looking for? (As if it's a buffet lol.)

Then they start spelling out what they like and drool as we close the appointment.

They usually never book... I think they just like the fantasy, but it does help the guy have a great time thinking about two girls together lol.

Of course, when a guy actually follows through, I would definitely reach out to ladies I think will suit him well.

I've had some fun duos when they have happened.


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I should get out a bit more then

I guess I am one of the odd ball guys because I cannot seeing having a great time if I am splitting my time and energy on two...would rather focus on and satisfy completely one lady

That's *exactly* why threesomes work best when the two girls are truly into each other... there's no reason you should worry about satisfying two women, when those two women are also satisfying each other

It's a team effort!

~Mme X~

But just in case you don't get them. I love to do doubles, and I am always willing to meet up with a new lady. It's pretty easy to do... Why don't you check out my stuff and if you think you'd like to work with me send me an email. Even if you don't want to work with me, you can email me and I can introduce you to some of my other partners.

Long time no talk, how the heck are you? I miss the fun times at you know where... Hit me up some time, love to talk tech with you.

Now back to our regularly scheduled topic...

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ut that is my issue....I "get off" making sure my partner is extremely satisfied....

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So most of the time it's just talking about it? I can totally see that.

With a duo, you can satisfy two partners at once. This can be a lot more fun than than satisfying a single partner. The only downside, as far as I am concerned is that the cost is twice as high.

Guess I may start digging a little more

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