Ladies & Men
At the risk of seemingly to think too much. I have pondered this question without a clear answer.
WHAT MAKES A GREAT PROVIDER GREAT?
You can say it is her "performance" but that simply restates the question rather than answering it.
GREAT PROVIDERS
A great provider is one who leaves you dizzy at the end. The one that has you rerunning the mental movie of the session over and over in your head. That one that during the session you are saying to yourself "Holy-Shit is this really happening?" These women are gifted performers like Adele, Jennifer Lawrence, Meryl Streep or Beyoncé.
NO SINGLE MOLD
I think that the great providers don't fit any particular mold of age, race, height, build and often they are not the most classically beautiful. There are a lot of stunningly beautiful providers who are just not memorable. Some others who are merely attractive and sometimes less are simply EPIC. I also don't think its in the acronym alphabet soup of activities.
THE QUESTION: What is the ingredient that makes them great? What is the magic attitude, outlook, habit, what they do how they do it. The approach that makes these women special. How do they do it when other cannot? Is it physical?, emotional? psychological? What is it?
NO NAMES / NO ROLL CALL Please
Please resist the urge to NAME your favorite provider or best experience. I'm not looking for a "role call" of names. Rather, I want you to describe what was it about her or her performance that MADE it great, when someone else who went through the same moves just failed to capture that magic?
Am I thinking too much
I call it "Time and Attention" which equates to this:
- Put the phone away during my session
- Engage and converse with me
- Follow my lead, wherever the mood or fantasy leads to
We all have our tast S and preferences on what we expect or desire in a session. And there are a variety of looks, body styles etc. but no matter whom I choose to book with, the "Time and Attention" factor as I like to call it means the world to me
She has to;
Have a great Attitude.
Focus her attention on the Session.
Have Fun during the Session either pretend or real.
Doesn't Rush the Session.
I'm lucky that the providers I see have these attributes
Can she be a chameleon? I think the truly great providers can be a number of different types of women based on their client. I'm under no illusions that ladies I've seen in the past are into what I'm into. However, the great ones make you feel as if your wishes are something they've thought of as well. Is it a client who wants candles, soft music and a massage? Or is the client needing to expunge some animalistic urges on a willing canvass? The great provider is one who can read and react seamlessly to what their client desires.
