I was hobbying the last two weekends and both times my first choice was not available. No big deal but when you call and leave a message how long should you wait for the return call? I figure a half hour or so because I am a spur of the moment guy I dont book a day or two before. There are so many nice Providers her in Chicago land so second or third choices are not always bad but I'm like a kid when I want to see a certain girl and she is not available I am disapointed.

Sometimes I forget the Human aspect of this hobby. Your right it isn't a drive thru like McD's.

waiting a 1/2hr for the one you truly want is not often going to get you the one you truly desire especially on the weekends.  Many ladies thought they do not note it in their ads take weekends off, no different then a normal profession it is considered family time.  Though I am not one of those, I do surely understand the need to have a set few days a week to do all the things anyone might need to do during a week.  Those mundane things that even we have to do.

If she isn't off for the weekend she could just have plans with her family, it is nearing the end of summer and thus there are the end of summer picnics and reunions that no one would ever dream of posting publicly reasoning for not being around.  When with friends or family often times the hobby phone remains at home or in the car.  Weekends are a popular time frame for endeavors like that since generally family and friends are also off work.

Lastly, if she is in a 1-2hr session already she can't pick up the phone till she is done and has escorted her date out.

It would be best for you to find a few ladies who are pretty much always available for last min dates and are also available during weekends.  That way you can rotate between them or at least have another choice when 1 isn't available.

Keep in mind sweety, we are no different then anyone else.  We like to sleep in on weekends and do not always have our hobby phone along side our head, we have families that sometimes make it impossible to talk, as well as having errands to run, the desire to goto the movie theater and see a new flick, dinner/drinks with friends and the likes that mean we can't possibly be available 24/7.  Then figure in that we are only human too, get sick, kids get sick, animals get sick and such...

1/2hr is really almost an unreasonable amount of time, I would hope that if you had a provider you truly desired you would wait at least a few hours for a response, since we do in fact do the same for you.  If your schedule is tight refer to above but do not be to disappointed you didn't get your 1st pick...

Look at it like this, at least your 1st pick is either busy enough or much loved by her family to where weekends are rough for her.  That means likely you made a very good pick.  Not to say someone who is available is not, just trying to give you a new viewpoint so you might not look at it exactly the same way again.

I, myself am not feeling well today and had to turn away a guest but perhaps that is why my mind is reeling and I am over writing.  Too much time on my hands today.  I am going to go drink some hot tea and read a book.

Sage

Hope you feel better soon... I'm under the weather these past couple days too... Bleah

It is just the whole sinusy thing that is still hanging on, the illness itself is gone.  Thank god because there is nothing worse then being sick on a hot summer day(because it ends up being miserable inside and you can't regulate the temp well, UGG).  Take care and I do hope that you feel better soon baby, Sage

though your sentiment goes more in the way of Burger King, "your way, right away".  I wish it were that easy, but to honest it isn't.  The human aspect of the hobby is what makes it so great, but the personal side is what is often forgotten.  Hugs sweetheart, Sage