because you don't want to insult her by suggesting that her time isn't worth what she is asking. On the other hand it may be worth asking, if you use the right approach.

I would just talk to her about it.  Tell her your plan and options and ask her if she would consider a standard multiple hour discount.  This is SOP in the biz.  Good luck.

You have three choices: 1) Ask her for a rate, and accept it; 2) Ask her for a rate, and say "gee, that is a little high, I guess I'll have to go for a regular date"; or 3) suggest a rate from the start, and see what she says. Since she doesn't list her rates, your "inquiry" is your one chance to "negotiate".

ask her

always ask her..if she truly enjoys being with you..you might be surprised at the deal you might get..if not..consider yourself another notch on her lipstick case..

I didn't want to offend my ATF but when I wanted to spend the whole evening with her I asked. She said I charge for 4 hours but you will get 6 if you chose. 6-midnight which was perfect for me. Sometimes they post their extended stay on their web-sites.

Don't be afraid to pose the questions

Especially if you're looking at a "special" session that she may not have a "listed price" for.

And being cheap has nothing to do with what you are asking for.  FWIW I don't pay any gal to go out and eat.  If they want to join me, I always extend the invite.  So if in your case you're looking for 2 hours of BCD time...that's what you should expect to pay for.  And I would assume she has that price listed.

If you want to ask her in advance if she would like to "join you for dinner"...go right ahead.  Just make sure she knows that it will NOT be time that is compensated for.  If she's got nothing going on after you, she will let you know.  But don't be shocked even if she initially says "sure...we can do that", that when you are done she found something "better to do".  Then it's your call to "pay her" for the dinner time...but give me a call instead and you can tell me all about it, and I won't charge you for feeding me!

If you want more "input" on the extended or overnights...PM me.

It never hurts to ask, especially if a rate isn't listed on my site for the service you desire. However, if it IS a listed service with a rate listed, unless you are a VERY REGULAR or long term friend, it is unlikely I would entertain an offer for less. Of course, this is just my feeling on the situation and I do have a full time job outside of the hobby that pays my bills. Other ladies may be more flexible given the state of the economy these days, especially if this is their only source of income.

Just my 2 cents.
Bella

that after reading the comments by Cubbiefan2, all of us guys seeing providers, especially someone like Dayna Darling, should be respectful when dealing with them, whether discussing rates, taking them on dinner dates or whatever.  Yes, as a guy I might mention the vice grip(tight pussy) Dayna has, but I would never dream of disrespecting her.  Not only is she beautiful on the outside, she is beautiful on the inside too and as far as I'm concerned one of the best people I've met in or out of this business.  I think we hobbyists should make sure that treating ATF's, and all providers, with respect should be a major priority.