you didn't get an appointment. You were suppose to leave your FULL NAME, TER SCREEN NAME, CONTACT NUMBER & REFERENCE(S) either through email or voicemail if I didn't pick up.

I am an INDEPENDENT I can not see clients and answer the phone at the SAME time. If you call me at 1pm and I can't check my voicemail until 3pm or 4pm I will not call back that late or the next day unless you state it is okay.

Can you imagine all the calls and emails we get a day half of them probably cops, some refuse to give the required information, some call to just have a conversation or ask you 100 questions and then you have the rude perverts. So we have to filter through all that stuff and it's hard for one person to do alone - but I try and as I have stated before I am not good in the phone department and I NEVER set up appointments through email, but I am damn good at what I do and have the reviews to prove it.

I would still like to see you and make it up to you I will have incalls all week right off of 290 & Harlem except for Thursday - THURSDAY I WILL HAVE INCALLS DOWNTOWN and outcalls available everyday.

... she's worth the effort.  She really is alone in running her site and service, and where she falls short in administration she makes up in being well intentioned, sweet as they come, and knock-down-drag-out gorgeous and talented and attentive.  That said, Dr.J, I can't say that in getting to where I am with her now, I didn't bump against some of the same hurdles as you, and BOY do I understand your frustration!  And like you in that circumstance, I showed great patience and persistence, and tried my damndest to be understanding and forgiving, and yes ultimately reached the exact abandonment point where you're at now.  But for whatever reason I came back, and happily so, so maybe there's benefit in hearing me out.  I've followed your TER postings over time (I remember Ahvani's "#1 priority" response you referred to) and know you're both thoughtful and longer into this stuff than me, so with appropriate humility I advise giving her just a little more time.  We clients quickly come to understand our ladies' pressures of scheduling, screening, and servicing.  But although we know they're there, we tend to put behind a curtain their levels of life experience and demands of private lives.  We just assume they're there with us and move on.  Well, I can say first hand that Ahvani, like most ladies her age and living her life, is not there with me (nor probably you) and is kind of learning as she goes.  I also can say first hand, and to her credit, that to the best of my knowledge she carries on through life amazingly well and with responsibility and style.  What I've come to realize with her is that (i) she maybe is somewhat hyper-careful because of her outside obligations and all she has to protect (and that's not to knock any other of our ladies or say they also don't have outside lives), (ii) she has an unpolished shyness about her we "worldly" types don't always expect, and (iii) she doesn't suffer fools gladly, all of which work in concert to make her somewhat less than the 100%-efficient administrator we clients would like to see.  So that's how I see things with Ahvani.  And I don't offer any of this as an excuse -- just an explanation of personal concerns and limitations that I see in her, and that we clients must either accept or reject.  And I could be all wet, who knows?  And should we as clients care and give appropriate leeway, who knows?  I'll tell you this -- I see a lot worse flaws in many of our highly touted ladies that we nonchalantly overlook merely because they call back and set dates right away.  And maybe that's the only criteria, but I don't think so.  I only can say that I've happily stuck it out with Ahvani, and am now at a point where dates are scheduled and carried out with a minimum of fuss.  Nothing's perfect, mind you -- don't get the wrong idea -- but I'm convinced there's nothing malicious or uppity going on, and that eventually she'll get things right.  And MOST important I would guess to all of us, I assure you that she delivers the goods with happiness, with style, and without attitude.  Have the patience to get past that first date, Dr.J, and I think you'll find the rewards well worth the effort.

If you should read this, Ahvani, please don't be mad that I stuck my 2 cents in.  I've tried hard not to trample on anything private, and believe strongly that you've earned the support.