Too many people are taking this personally. Was only meant for quick answers, opinions on subjects asked.

I've got a good idea. For the guys being a bit mean here.... 1 of you TOFT I'll mark down a FH.

But the catch.. you really do have to take the full hour and if hey.. you realize I'm not really this big mean wicked witch of the west you have to post it here..

If I really am a big mean meany... by all means.. bash away & I'll go home crying then play my 360 all day  lol



-- Modified on 2/4/2010 10:01:07 AM

Doctor Gonzo has posted within the past two weeks,a thread concerning the proper way to dispute a review. While you are careful to not come out directly and say that your disputing, the tone says to me that you disagree. Disagree all you wish, this is not the forum for that.

Secondly, a rallying cry to unite the providors in a forum designed for and meant for men is certainly a bold step as well. Again, there are other forums on TER for carrying this message. You may want to consider that before you alienate a large portion of your potential client base.

This post will remain until reviewed By Doc and he will either delete it or allow it to continue forward at his discern. I will caution you that you may have some negative comments come your way as a result of this and as I have let this stand, I will also let those comments stand as well.

In the future, it may be better to have this type of discussion on the Providors Board. Many of the men who frequent this board are painfully aware of the protocol for meeting a woman. Should they be late or unsanitary, dispatch them out without haste.

There are many providors here that have been around for a number of years, I assure you that they have encountered these issues on numerous  occassions. You would serve yourself well to meet or correspond with them. There is a reason that they are still around and the guys love them. Just ask the ladies, they will help you.

FT

Whether it's a college professor preparing his/her syllabus, or a provider preparing her webpage, when the rules expand exponentially it's time to take a sabbatical. Things just aren't fun anymore.

First off, I get that guys should be cognizant of your rules. Most are self-explanatory. I do also think your post borders on a threat to expose someone if you disagree with them. Sharing information with providers because you and someone didn't agree on a session or because you got a bad review is as blatant as putting as putting it on a billboard. YMMV goes both ways.

Secondly, hobbyists who trade their information with you under the guise of "quid pro quo" is despicable. Just as using the same to threaten, coerce, or cajole you into certain acts or behaviors.

Let's face it, there will ALWAYS be a number of hobbyists that use various tactics with providers to induce them to give discounts, behaviors, or perform certain acts, etc. It's your job to end the session and ask them to leave. Putting up with BS and tolerating any form of abuse because you need the money makes you just a guilty. There is nothing to put the "kibosh" on other than threats and bad behavior when you see it. Your only recourse is to call the police if someone threatens to harm you or puts his hands on you in a manner meant to cause harm. Sure, you risk exposure, but its better than you or someone in he future becoming a homicide.

Posts like hers will ultimately backfire. If you delete the post, you will be saving her from herself, lol.
This is a classic post on how not to introduce yourself to TER. She has 0 credibility or presence, yet she claims to speak for others and she's only 19 years old?

Cute, but not smart.

Were it my original decision to make, I would have disapproved this post for Chicago, and moved it to the Providers Only board where any of a number of experienced ladies might have been willing to take this young neophyte under their wings.

The post stands for now, it is entirely up to the regular contributors of this board whether to treat the new girl gently, or to turn it into the next trainwreck.

I am not an overly experienced hobbyist or poster for that matter, but I find the reaction to her post much ado about nothing.

First, TER is a great resource for research and there is no excuse for a hobbyist to expect services not described in an ad or in the reviews. You should not go see a veterinarian for your prostate issues, even if you believe you are hung like a horse.

Second, while we are the paying customer, it does not give us leave to treat a lady with disrespect, both in regards to time (tardiness) and personal interaction. As far as hygiene goes, I refer you to the newbie board for good advice.

Finally, I am also a paying customer on TER and i find moderators getting way too aggressive in their jobs. I admit I am entertained by so many of the jokes and comments posted here. I know there must be rules to maintain some decorum, but take it easy folks. This is supposed to be fun!

I do appreciate ALL the feedback good and bad.
I'm not actually new to this, just new to this area of the industry you could say. TER was last of my lists of things to ever be on as discretion was my main focus. I never meant to seem angry in my bulletin or make it seem I was attacking anyone in general if I did so I do apologize. It's not only my reviews but some recent reviews of others I know personally.

Maybe I've been slammed with a continuous line of bad day clients. Maybe I am a mean person and well offer such a horrible service that would put me to shame lol

All I know for sure is, Chicago was never this bad.

Maybe someone here knows the reviewers. Or has had similar problems. Am I the only one being slammed for services I don't ever even advertise? or is this a regular thing. Take the good with the bad? Guys, Do you encounter your own course of problems?




& here a better introduction


My name is Renee Rose.
I stand a wonderful height of 5'2''.
Yes, I'm 95 lbs and a little too skinny.
I'd be be much bigger if I could help it.
I've been a competitive dancer and gymnast since the day I could walk.
I'm 100% Dutch but speak more Polish than anything.
I do what I love & love what I do.
I'm a lover & a fighter, but mostly a lover.
I'm a MILF x2 and I'm not 19 but I'm still a baby.
(( yes that's where the big puffy ni... come from lol))
I have the patience of a god.
& the temper of satan.
I find it a good mix. Although like everyone else in this world I'm still finding balance.

Thanks for the responses!

with somewhat of a chip on your shoulder.  Your making a lot of gross generalizations about Chicago hobbyist and providers alike and I for one don't appreciate your general tone. "Go Blacklisting" WTF. "here's the other thing, if your the one waiting.. blame the client before you", how about you learn time management and how to control your clients.  If they are truly that late cancel them, don't keep the next guy waiting.  That is just poor customer service.  Why are seeing clients that close back to back anyway?  Perhaps you should rethink your introduction to the community and remember many of us have been here quite a while and trust me we already get it.  Coming off as a preachy 19 yo with statements like go blacklisting can not really be how you want to portray yourself to the community.  IMHO I would recommend changing your tone at least til you build a reputation and people get to know you before making such inflammatory post.   Personally from reading your post i would not schedule with you but then again I don't do incalls.

p.s.  you are very cute, lighten up.

Doc

Chexman I absolutely LOVE the response. It's incredibly reassuring to hear someone understood where I was coming from and didn't take personal offense to it.

Thank You.

Please don't take a personal offense to it.

Go blacklisting was not a threat, but merely meant as a screening process. So that these kind of clients don't even get the time of day.

& please understand somedays.. we can't schedule nicely. I've been doing scheduling for along time now. You schedule with PLENTY of time between, your left with half a day of nothing due to the NCNS. You book back to back, odds are every other one isn't going to show. Only about 50% of the calls that schedule actually come through.
Scheduling is my best area

I'm not a regular provider, the bp thing is a rarity but since November it's been HEY RENEES actually a REAL person lmao.


I'm only posting because of my concerns. I want EVERY client to have a great time with me. & I'd like to REALLY enjoy the times I am in Chicago.

IS THIS A SLAM-FEST FOR GUYS WHO ARE PISSED OFF?
No way! The reviews need to be objective. We understand that not everyone has the same taste, and that the ladies cannot always provide the same experience, so we prefer to publish an unlimited number of reviews on each provider. We want this site to be a true indication of the level of service offered.

WHAT IF I DO NOT LIKE A REVIEW THAT I RECEIVED?
We are not out to trash anyone. Reviews are an accumulation of the experiences of our membership. Some have good experiences; some bad. If we removed every bad review, what value would the site hold? However, if you still feel that a particular review is unfair, inaccurate, or fictional, please email us so that we may personally assist you in resolving the matter. This may entail posting a retraction, counter or rebuttal review.

Lastly....
INFO & POLICIES: PROVIDER INFORMATION

Hello, Ladies. Welcome to The Erotic Review. Were it not for your fine services we wouldnt exist, so we would like to take moment to both thank and acknowledge you. By now you probably understand the premise of the site, and a review or two of your services may even already be posted here.


I am so confused that we keep being told this is only for men and we (providers) do not really have a right to voice any opinions.....

sure i will catch flack for quoting ter .....
Happy Partying Chicago....
Tabby

Renee

Before I welcome you to the community let
me express that HFFOC96 couldn't have made
a better statement . He's right you are new here
and many of us have been around since you were
in 4th grade.

I wish to add some MILFY friendly suggestions
to prevent yourself from getting into trouble.
Unless a client is DANGEROUS you don't run to
a blacklist board.

In reference to Chicago who is bad as a client and a provider isn't for you to say or to judge
you have 4 reviews and have alot of learning to
do,and people to meet. You will meet all kinds
of people. People who talk about others where
unwarranted and people who don't. The choice
is yours as to how you develop your own class
and which catagory you choose to fall. And
from the looks of your post I've got my ideas
where you may wind up but I hope now for your
sake.

Lining up clients as if in a check out line
at a store is going to get you arrested.
Trust me someone who works at the hotel will
notice. I hope that you are checking references
and are screening for safety and I hope you
aren't using CL . Please don't post like this
again and maybe you can put a nice introduction
special up to see what our community is really about. There are alot of great guys you can meet
with the right attitude. Good luck and ask
before you act.

Angela

For a pretty face and a spinner.
I just don't hope you turn 20 before I get to Chicago

U jumped to conclusions and you did not read the rules you just jumped in with both feet.
I do like it seems you have brought a whirlwind and woke some of us up! lol u go girl!
Idf u need any help or you have a q email or pm me.

still experience is the best teacher and its to bad it's that way.

Too bad you felt like you had to back off of how you were feeling. I don't blame you for feeling what it seemed to me was a lot of frustration. Writing and expressing yourself is not your best talent likely and before you start a treatise on the hobby, stick to one to three main points, because people will be able to follow you and you are less likely to have to do a complete retraction.  So new your intro works and people here will treat you well, but that is something that is more earned and not a right. Your post was not tongue in cheek, I suspect there was a reason to it all. I'd also tell you that there was venom in there perhaps due to a recent poor encounter. So do yourself a favor, don't try to convince us that there no piss and vinegar in your OP. There was enough to reach to Kansas and back.

P.S. Patience of a god and the temper of Satan are as much oxymoron s you'll find. You will be more remembered as Satan.

I'm incredibly glad for all the various angles of responses here! I was well aware of what would happen when I voiced my opinions. I'm not surprised. I'm just more surprised more people took it too personally.

I personally know there is some fine gentleman on here!

Someone did TAKE ONE FOR THE TEAM today!
(( in the end proving ME wrong on clients ))

all in all.... kind of a George Lopez moment.. waaaaaaTCH ouT!! haha

TOFTT - after all the back and forth today, i had to see what she was really like. I have sent in my review. It will speak for itself, but let's give her a chance. Those who love spinners will be glad they did!

Ir comes with the territory.  But, in the words of PT Barnum, there is no such thing as bad publicity.  

An intelligent hobbyist will look at all of your reviews before making any decision about seeing you.  Even a bad review draws attention to your profile.

Hang in there.  And, as the moderators have said, there is a "provider board" which is a better forum for "airing out grievances."

Sinthia

Hey Doc Holiday!

When did you become an English Professor?

Yummers on your naughties or actually strike that and reverse it.  Ya knowp

KISSES-Gisselle