Except I go at the boys lol! However, over the past year I have tried to let up when someone is getting too upset, because really - Catalina doesn't seem BSC. She actually seems new to these boards, and very zealous. Is the posting new threads all the time good on here? Probably not the best option, but you know, in the grand scheme of things, at least she's excited about her job and meeting new clients. We hear too much nowadays about people who are not at all excited about their jobs OR their Johns lol.
A lot of us over post - look at me with my harpy advice and opinionated, bull headed responses. It's not always about "winning" because many forget these are real people here, and though it's in writing, I do remember feeling pretty humiliated by stuff that happened on the boards throughout my first couple of years.
It's great to tell someone that they would do better doing this or that, poke a little - it helps us learn - but you gotta' kind of back off and let them think. They could get a tad embarrassed - hence the defensiveness. We don't want to keep kicking someone when they're down. That isn't BSC, that's human nature. My new motto is, keep poking, you're going to get attacked. lol!
Let her alone now. 
Posted By: GaGambler
If anyone should know about this it would be me, wouldn't you agree? lol
Maybe she will learn, maybe she won't. The ones that get the most defensive are the ones who take the longest to learn how not to look BSC. We'll see how it goes. Either way is fine with me. If she learns, we have an entertaining new member to laugh "with", if she doesn't ever learn then she will still be entertaining and we will have someone knew to laugh "at" Either way, we win. lol
and Happy Holidays to you too Gemma
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Right now she hasn't crossed over into BSC land, not quite yet at least. If she does, I will be here to laugh AT her. If she is a quicker learner than BSC Taylor for example, I will also be here, but laughing with her and not at her.
I am sure you remember Roxie on the GD board, she started off posting even more than me, and was a bit "over the top" when she first arrived. I gave her a little gentle prodding, just to see how she would respond and at first she too got all defensive, but in no time her and I became very good friends, much to the disappointment of several who hoped to watch us go after each other day in and day out.
The vote is out on Catalina Verde, but I will admit, I don't have high hopes for her. Time will tell of course.
that's why I felt you would "get it". But even with the softie half, psst! Don't break her - she seems like she really likes this- we want the gentlemen who pay her to have a good time.
Funny, I did the same shit - so I am in a way sticking up for me back then. People kill themselves over the internet - so words are still powerful here.
By the way, how have you not gone nuts? Some people say some pretty mean stuff to you on here too lol.
If only I negotiated. (And was a 20 year old spinner lol) We'd have a blast lol!
Posted By: GaGambler
Right now she hasn't crossed over into BSC land, not quite yet at least. If she does, I will be here to laugh AT her. If she is a quicker learner than BSC Taylor for example, I will also be here, but laughing with her and not at her.
I am sure you remember Roxie on the GD board, she started off posting even more than me, and was a bit "over the top" when she first arrived. I gave her a little gentle prodding, just to see how she would respond and at first she too got all defensive, but in no time her and I became very good friends, much to the disappointment of several who hoped to watch us go after each other day in and day out.
The vote is out on Catalina Verde, but I will admit, I don't have high hopes for her. Time will tell of course.
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expect when in certain countries where NOT negotiating doesn't make you "generous' it makes you weak and stupid and not deserving of good service. Don't blame me, I don't make the rules, so when in Rome....
Now about being a 20 year old spinner, yes I do suppose that's my weakness. lol
as for people saying mean things to me, you should read some of the stuff they said to me when I was a moderator. Fortunately I don't lose sleep over what some coward say about me on the internet. First rule of the internet. "The person getting mad is the person losing the battle"
