Ashley - Nice to see you here. Lookin' forward to your posts - always interesting. IMHO what happened to you on TBD's site was sad and blatant bully-ing. We've never met (yet) but I think you're one classy lady.

First off.. You want to talk about respect.. LOL.. I guess you forgot what you did to me. I only give when I receive it. You don't respect I don't respect you. I don't get more clear than that.

As far as the mod removing your postings.. You say you were in the guidelines? How 'bout all them ads you posted every week? What about all the ISO's you replied to, which on his board is considered advertising, especially when you put a link with every single post.

He refused your money. Well babe, that's his right. He owns the site. He can refuse ANYONE. He has done it before.

I am in the business, as you are, and YES I have received treatment like this before. But if you keep a cool head and don't overreact it blows over. I post all the time now. Was never even banned.

You say your sorry? I personally doubt it. But hey, I am just another escort right?

THE REAL TRUTH FROM SOMEONE WHO WATCHED IT ALL - Part 1

You misbehaved the moment you arrived on the TBD board.  Your very first post hurled obsenities and insults at those who had posted wondering if you were LE - which they were perfectly justified in thinking, since your site is so explicit and exactly the kind LE uses.  After agreeing to see a certain person for a free hour in exchange for an honest review, you still managed to show up late, tried to upsell him (at that time, you very vociferously advertised certain services but did not say they were an extra charge on your site), and then he didn't even get the free hour he was supposed to.  And when the hobbyists cried foul, that even when you knew you were being evaluated you screwed up, you screamed and bitched and moaned and hollered obscenities again.
 
Lack of respect for the men and the board in general:

Eventually you got some good reviews and started getting a lot of business from TBD.  And the ego trip began.  Any time a guy posted a less than worshipful review of you, you immediately attacked the poster and ripped him to shreds, saying either he was a liar, or a jerk, or that he was somehow at fault for a poor experience.  You violated the "ad post" rule ALL THE TIME.  (And no, I am not talking about responding to ISOs, even though you did that ad nauseum - I am talking about ad posts that started threads)  

Lack of respect for other providers:

You attacked other providers saying they copied your ideas, when NOT A SINGLE ONE of your ideas - the Hump Day special, the bartering - was original to you!  Then, you attacked another provider for contributing to the degradation of women because she enjoys being treated in a manner that most of us would term "physical abuse"...this despite the fact that you advertise yourself in the most explicit - and some would say degrading - terms possible, and that the pics on your website show you being manipulated and molested in various different ways by a multitude of men - which some would say is itself degrading.  In other words - on that score, you are the pot calling the kettle black.  Not to mention that that escort is free to choose what her personal parameters are without judgment and attacks from others - just like you are free to advertise your executive club with no protection, even though the rest of us think you are insanely irresponsible to do so.

Your real appeal:

The only reason you had so many defenders on the board is the same reason one other recent, controversial (and now extinct) escort is gone:  the guys love, love, love anyone who'll be explicit.  They don't care if you might be setting yourself up for a bust, they just want women to talk "dirty" about their jobs, on their sites and on the boards, because it's erotic for them in a way that the usual, sanitized, careful sites are not.  Flirt like there's no tomorrow (which you did), and the guys lap it up. Flirt and be explicit, and they'll follow you anywhere, even over a cliff.  But not all the men are so stupid.  Many saw through your flirtatious manner to the swearing, the anger, the merciless attacks.  I almost fell off my chair laughing when you kept posting that you aren't a bitch, but you're being forced to act like one.  Hah!  The only times you have been nice on the board is when you're angling for business, otherwise you're hard as nails.  I love how you always act like you were being put on the defensive, when you were the one who actually started the fights!  Nobody bought that "poor me, everyone is so mean to me" act.  You're a tigress and you know it - and so do the rest of us.

Another escort mentioned that you apparently think you are "Queen of the Escorts".  I think she is right.  Your ego is so far overblown I'm surprised your head doesn't explode.  According to the men, during a session you are amazing.  I don't doubt that.  But as a human being interacting with others in a community, you are bottom of the barrel.  Rude, crude, insulting and mean to anyone who dared so much as breathe wrong.  You want respect?  Show some.  I've had my spats with TBD - some serious stuff - but in our heated exchanges, I simply explained my side of the issue and why I felt I was justified in feeling how I did.  I never insulted him, I never told him what to do, I never delivered ultimatums or threats.  And I'm still there.

You will, of course, ignore my words because after all, I'm only another escort and you have displayed zero respect for your fellow escorts.  In fact, you don't care to listen to anything you don't want to hear, regardless of who says it.  God forbid you should ever be wrong or accept blame for anything! I'm sure I'll either receive an expletive laden response, or a very haughty pseudo-polite response.  Or no response. I may even make a few enemies out of your adoring fans.  But I don't care.  Shanna was careful in her response, and I am not.  I'm not worrying about it hurting my business, because I normally just lurk and don't post.  Although I am well known I shy away from particpating, I prefer to watch (the board, that is).  But the truth needs to be told - you treated people like shit on the TBD board, and it finally caught up to you.  You were, in fact, given a MUCH longer leash than anyone I've seen in the several years I've been on TBD...which I attribute to TBD cutting you slack because you were so "popular".  You really need to take a good long look at yourself in the mirror, and I'm not talking about checking for migrating silicone.  

BTW, to defend himself from some of your fans TBD has published copies of your exchanges that he claims are unaltered.  I don't pretend to know if they are accurate and truthful or not...but they do certainly sound like you.  Arrogant and demanding.

And to bowser:  if you think this is a classy lady, I'd hate to see what you think is white trash.