I posted a little more lengthy version of this on the GD Board, but since I am talking about Chicago ladies and this discussion may be of interest, it seems worth sharing here, too.
I have had the pleasure of meeting two ladies who were formerly BDSM Doms, and switched to GFE. They shared certain stellar attributes - a knowledge of anatomy, and specifically how to please, and withhold pleasure, in order to deliver the most intense experience, an ability to weave a fantasy, and an overall creativity and engagement that was much better than the average I have experienced.
Is this because of their history, or just coincidence? I think that some of it results from what they learned in the BDSM world, but am curious to hear if others have had similar experiences. I also am curious as to how common, or difficult, this transition is.
I am not going to name names. One lady is retired, and the other is not. If any lady wishes to out herself about this transition, please feel free to do so. Both of these ladies made an effort to have separate identities for their BDSM and GFE pursuits, so it is not my place to out them.
And if any other ladies who have made this transition want to PM me, that would be just grand. To be clear, I am not into BDSM in any way, though I am okay with a lady who can take charge, as well as be a purring kitty.
There is something so awesome about creating something with a special friend that could not possibly be duplicated on his own. The flick of the tongue almost bringing about an orgasm, so close to the surface it feels.... Then the tongue seeking a nip instead, your mouth, or to taste your neck.... Perhaps asking a guest to surrender to me fully allowing me to tie the hands and maybe even blindfold so that lack of the sense of sight and ability to touch enhancing the experience in a way that is so awesomely sensual that you would never have believed it true till that moment.
Of course that type of experience is not for everyone.... So I usually show a softer side, but the teasing and denial are equally as awesome and can be for just about anyone!!
When I started escorting about 3 years ago I used to just respond, "I don't do that" to BDSM requests. One night I had a 3 hour appointment with a gentleman. I was trying to figure out what to do with him to keep him entertained because he was a client who left it all up to me. I had recently purchased a beginner's fetish kit for 100$ or so at the adult store. I used the contents to tie him to the bed, blindfold him, tickle and whip him a little. He was a great-looking guy and he looked so HOT laying there all helpless and completely at my mercy. I found it to be quite a turn on. Within a week I had a 2H appointment with a client who didn't request a role play until he arrived at my house. He wanted to do a role play where I was the boss's wife. I'd invited him to a dinner with my husband and me but my husband, the boss wasn't able to attend. I seduced him then blackmailed him by filming the seduction. He was then forced to accommodate my every whim. I got back into my little beginner's BDSM bag and had him at my mercy, too. I had so much fun with this role play, I realized that I had the potential to be good at it. I joined the local BDSM club and talked to the Doms, went to classes, watched videos and read a lot. I learned more from the fiction than from the non-fiction. I now have an entire dungeon with 1000's of 4 worth of equipment. I entertain all kinds of fetishes and will be submissive as well. I have discovered about myself exactly what Ziggy was saying about the two ladies. I can and I do bring some Dom games to the GFE sessions, however, I also bring GFE to my domination sessions. Although I can be very strict, I can also offer much more for good behavior than the permission to jack off! I believe that in real life relationships between people who like to play with BDSM there is a lot of give and take sexually. I believe that a BDSM session is greatly enhanced by a having a Dom with a strong sexual appetite. I think it's more natural and more fun for everybody. I still primarily see GFE clients at a ratio of approximately 6:1. I'd like to do more domination and I think I will once I get more pictures and information about my dungeon and equipment.
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