Hello all

I received an email from a hobbist asking me if I did "bareback fetish"
I said "hell no"
But he came back and meant a BBBJ
How is this a fetish or not in your book?


I know my answer!
Kisses
Jc
Fyi: if the guy would have a vip with ter he would know the answer to that question

I know fetishes and bbbj is NOT a fetish.  It's a frequent desire.  He probably did mean bareback full service and then did some backtracking when he was made aware of your opinion about it.

What is surprising to me is how little people know of fetishes unless you're actually in the lifestyle.  It's not the first time that I have heard someone suggesting this.  But it can only come from someone who is inexperienced, sexually, or inexperienced in our demimonde.

Just my thought for the evening!

Hugs,
Elisabeth

I believe he was asking for an icky "favor" but tried to change it up when he knew you were not down for such behavior.  Good for you for standing up for yourself.

Kisses Always Girl,

XXX-Giselle

May have just wanted to know if xtra for bbbj

eliminating a service via e-mail can be construded as all else is available or could open such a discussion. You wouldn't speak about such things over the phone why would you e-mail. Be very careful

A man from TER can get his answers by reading and need not ask such a question. Any BB questions I delete as it is not open to discussion.

Even if someone was a longstanding member here on TER and sent me a PM with such a question about BBBJ I would pass it by.

Kisses Haley

He could be a real ahole or just someone that really doesn't know. You did the right thing telling him what you did. Anyone that that even dabbles in BBFS is a damn fool.