...and everyone likes things done differently. If you dont like something we are doing, or if you have a preferance as to how you like something done...PLEASE tell us. We aren't going to know otherwise.

I bring this up as I just got another review and my guest commented he didnt like the strength of my french, which most people know is spoken with a very stong accent. Had he commented early on that he prefers(as he states in the review) wet and sloppy and DT I could have had a little more to work with and might have been able to make him happy.

As always mention specials and additional services you might want upfront(when you book) because it is not a given that we have esp and KNOW that you are taking us up on those offerings.

To the gent who wrote the review, thank you for the great review though parts of it weren't stunning it was all pretty true and accurate(compimentary as well). I hope that if you choose to make a return trip that you will remind me of the type of services you desire, that helps to make the time enjoyable for both of us.

CHOW for now, have fun and play hard!!!

Directions given DURING the "event" ,whatever flavor it may be at the time, can also make for a mutually beneficial experience. There are many ways to erotically voice directions and descriptions of what or how one wants the performance to be applied. It at least gaurantees no "why didnt you say so" or "why didnt she" feelings or comments. Maybe its easy for me, but I have no problem when someone tells me to use my tongue a little more, or telling(oops...asking~smile~) the provider to lighten or strengthen the performance. I also think in the "prebook" process some hobbyists arent sure what can and can't be asked explicitly, so that can add to the expectation satsfaction or dissappointment. Just a thought*G*

.... if you truely enjoy what you do then the guy shouldn't have to tell or direct you, especially with French. Most guy's have an idea on how they want it or think it should be done but really don't have a clue because sooooo many girls don't know how. I have heard so many horror stories about women in general who scrap with their teeth, just go up & down or just lack interest. I on the other hand do what comes natural and pretend that if I had one this IS how I would want it to be done and pay close attention to their body language and moans. I take my time and send them into another world, that's why 100% of my clients say I am truly talented and the best they have ever had.

Sage, I'm not knocking your technique or saying anything negative about your skills because I have heard some good things about you. But making "them" bleed, causing marks is a bit extreme. If a man did that to your clit, I really don't think that would feel good at all or be acceptable.

I just think if you pay closer attention to their reactions (face, body movements, moans) you will know if they like it soft, hard, slow, fast or with some heavy suction.

Ahvani

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That's how I usually determine my french accent as well as any other languages.  Since no two clients are alike, it would be quite difficult to use the same style on every one of them.

I usually ask very seductively if they like it a certain way and it works everytime!  Some guys like rough action, some are too sensitive for it.  Whatever the case, body language and communication always works best!  



Tammie

Toes curling, soft verbal ques will usually let you know you are on the right track.

Ciao,  Velvet

Some think it feels great till it is just too much for them, by that time....well.  Soooo, what are we to do?  I dont want to sit there and ask every 2 seconds how they want something done, would rather just go with it.  Most the time it works out great, but then every once in a while I misjudge whats going on and maybe the gent isnt as satisfied as he should have been.  The sad thing is, it could have all been fixed with just a couple of words...  Soooo, unless a gentleman asks/tells me he likes things otherwise I will continue to go along with whatever feels right for me to do at the moment.

If some of you think I am too extream, thats fine.  I can only be me, and acting is not part of what I am here to do.  Adjustments can be made if needed for particular people if desired.  I just want to play dam it!!!  That was what I was pointing out simply.