I recently visited a well-reviewed lady, and after the session she offered to come over to my place for "no money".  Anyone had an offer like that?  Did you take her up on it?  I didn't pursue it because I thought it would blur some kind of line.  Trying to figure out what an ulterior motive might be, or if she really was just being a cool chick.

Many years ago saw a Vegas provider and we had a very nice time.  Told me if I was traveling she would meet me in whatever city.   A few weeks later I was out west again and let her know.  Told me she would me meet me there w/o a donation.  Told me she was coming only for the fun.  I was a little wary but she was true to her word.   Turns out her husband had recently died and had left all their possessions to another woman he was having an affair with and my new friend was looking for a situation (relationship) with some stability.   I was not in a position to provide that for her.   She really didnt expect a donation.   I felt sorry for what she had experienced and helped her anyway but lost touch soon afterward.

Have never made such an offer to a client, and agree with you that it would blur that line. Keep in mind some providers are in fact here looking for a relationship. Why...no clue.

they might want to be honest about what they do with at least one man on the planet who might love her unconditionally, so she offers to hang with him, showing her unconditional feelings. She might took something about his behavior around her for a strong attraction to her (talk, body language, great sex, looks, attitude, etc.), yet he was looking nothing but service, as he said here.. Ladies of all professions can be hopeless romantics sometimes, can we judge them for that? I think so! Because it takes more than sweet talk, looks, or mind-blowing sex to become close friends and trust each other. Am I wrong?

That's all I'm going to say.

Several years ago.  One was dinner and a movie(she insisted on paying for both, but I paid for dinner) and all we did was go back to her place and talk, kissed her good night and left.  I saw her as a hobbyist a couple of times before she retired and left the state.  The second provider called me and I went to her incall. We talked for a bit, did the wild thing (gratis) and then we went out to a few clubs. I took her back to her hotel, kissed her goodnight and left. Couple of email exchanges and that has been the extent of our "relationship".

I experienced this once before with an older provider when I was very young--I think she just enjoyed having a young look at her with such adoration. Beyond that, sometimes it's as simple as a connection. Maybe you remind her of a lost love, or maybe you are exactly her type, or maybe you just seem like a decent, safe guy who can provide her some good loving without her being expected to "perform." If it makes you uncomfortable, you are right to decline, but if it doesn't, I don't know that it crosses any lines to pursue it.

I had seen this provider for a couple of years,who has since retired, but on two different occasions while I was single she called me to where she was staying,  no strings attached. And both times she was very blunt about it... She called me and said "I need to get fucked!! Will you  come over and fuck me ...no strings ...just fuck me... No cash... just come over and fuck me!!"  It is rare and I have seen her a couple of times since her retirement,  But I do miss our regular sessions and when I think about those two evenings where she called me out of the blue and asked me to come over and fuck her, If always brings a smile to my face!!

I know a retired provider who is very happy with her relationship with a former hobbyist. A mature hobbyist can truly understand and accept a provider's livelihood, and a non-hobbyist will struggle to accept it, and may never understand it.

HAH! It brought a smile to my face and I'm not even you!! Sounds awesome

For me, that would never work and I keep things like they should be. I've had one too many "friends" here think that meant they no longer had to pay to abuse my time. I don't need anyone knowing what I do, nor do I need a type of "Captain Save A Ho." I am quite content doing this 'job' 2 days a week, and posting on TER 7 days a week lol.