So recently I visited a previous provider whom I've met before . But in this encounter her cooch was not smelling so right . I got a whiff of the odors after all the oral foreplay was given by her and we were ready for some penetration . Being behind her I was catching all the stench . Was so disappointed in that , but kept quiet . Should I tell her about this ?
A provider who is no longer available was a regular for me about 5 years ago. She was fantastic. On about a fifth visit or so there was an odor, but never before. Before I figured out what to do another hobbyist had already posted a review talking about an odor. When I saw her next, there was no odor. My guess is somehow she got the message and could fix the problem. I had wonderful times with her. She went independent and we continued our sessions. She even traveled out of state once with me. So my next guess is if I had been the one telling her about the odor, it might have put a crimp in our situation. That said, she deserves to know and have a chance to correct things. Maybe use an anonymous PM to her, or have a friend text her a message, so that she gets the message without getting a chance to shoot the messenger.
My two cents.
OMG had a client a awhile back who had a stench to him... I offered a shower & he refused, so my OCD mode kicked in & tried to wipe him clean with all of my baby wipes.... Seriously no avail idk wtf it was but I usually have superb gag reflexes but I couldn't handle the stench & friggin was Dry Heaving like I was going to throw up.... Needless to say when he left I was scrubbing my body/in the shower for over an hour plus had to throw my sheets/blankets/pillow casing away........ He recently contact me again to see me & stated that we weren't a good match & he should seek another provider... It's amazing how people can let themselves go... But being a provider it's important the "Moneymaker" is Fresh/Clean/Stenchfree.....
OMG, now I need a shower!
but there are a few things that a woman might not be aware of like BV which mainly you would smell during deeper penetration and not necessarily otherwise. A woman might afterwards notice an odor but maybe she has not had BV before and thinks it is just the nasty after condom odor. In my younger days this happened to me, and honestly I did not know until it was so bad I finally gave in and went to the ER. Simple BV, and guys it is just a bacterial infection that is not easily transferred to the partner, so no worries. However since we have so much activity down there many things can and do upset different balances so it goes. Our kitty is a very delicate flower and putting anything near or in it that has not been freshly washed is a likely culprit. Gentleman, wash your hands please before touching the flower and use mouth wash as well if you plan to lick her. As much as you don't want to be with a stinky provider you also do not want to be the guy who did it to her.
To the gent originator, you could call her and tell her what a great time you had and that you can't wait to see her again and then say that there is something else you wanted to bring to her attention so that it does not cause her future issue. Then mention that there was an odor during sex and you are worried about her health so she might want to get in and get it checked out. After again state that you had a great time and that it didn't effect your time and can't wait for next visit. For me it would not effect my time with a guest on next visit, but that might just be me
I would tell her after the Session was over. If she's a favorite Girl I'm sure she'll understand.
I always Shower before seeing my Girl. I'm very Lucky to have met her. She's always Clean and Showered before I see her. Sometimes we Shower together at her place. With the Summer Season here, we usually Shower together at her place when we meet.
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I would contact her after the session, either via email, phone, text or DM (whatever she allows or you think would be the most comfortable for her) and say something like this:
"Our last time together was fantastic, but I did notice you had a very particular smell. I had an ex girlfriend who had bacterial vaginosis a few years ago and the smell was very similar, so it may be in your best interest to go to your doctor and check that out. Again, I had a wonderful time and am only bringing this up out of concern for your health."
Now, the ex having BV would most likely be a little white lie. But it takes away any sort of "ew, gross!" type of reaction and just states the facts. And from your description, I'm willing to bet that it was, in fact, BV. BV is simply an imbalance of the vaginal bacteria and one of the marked symptoms of BV is a change in odor and/or discharge. While sex disrupt the balance of bacteria in the vagina, it is not an STI and can be remedied very easily.
It's never an easy thing for anyone to hear, but it is always in someone's best interest to hear these sorts of things anyway.
Fuck my feelings, if I have a rank twat I want to know about it...STAT.
Also, guys, this can be a sign of infection (nothing contagious so chill) that occurs when our natural chemistry gets out of whack. It's not a huge deal, but it does need to be treated with prescription medication. So yeah, we wanna know so we can nip that shit in the bud.
I've had that happen as well. Session ended early with no connection made and surely no return on my part. I go to my health club and shower right before the meeting.
No problems with the kitty yet on the providers I've seen. But one of the first I don't believe shaved her legs recently...immediate turn off!
She was on her period. Sorry to inform you that many ladies do the best they can rinsing out then shove a sponge (like the kind used to apply makeup) or some other contraption up there and work.
Periods last from 3-10 days. Most providers aren't taking a week off for mother nature.
I've heard so many funny (and fucked up) stories over cocktails with other providers about the mishaps, the messes, the men going down on them while they pray he doesn't come up with a ronald Mcdonald smile… you get the point.
If you don't plan on seeing her again just be straight up, because if she has the slightest amount of natural decency and shame she will never face you again. She might thank you, she might get checked out but I highly doubt she will ever want to see the guy who informed her her business was rotten on the other side of the door. Mucho embarrassing.
PS For the ladies, if the period thing is a problem get the depo shot. Once every 3 months and no period.