I have always wanted to try a dinner date with a provider.  You know, the get to know you "build up" that enhances chemistry as you share a bottle of wine and enjoy a fine meal.  Makes perfect sense as we seek out that connection that enhances the experience.  I also am intrigued by the idea of being naked with a provider, essentially a complete stranger, and then getting to know each other, a bit, over that same great meal! Anyone ever do this sort of "reverse" dinner date?  It seems to me that it might just be a great way to build up chemistry for that NEXT visit .  Thoughts?

   i have taken a provider out for dinner the last 2 new years eve for a nice dinner then back to my place for desert.

Reverse dinner dates sound lovely and kind of remind me of a dating in the dark experience (with inhibitions lowered and all due to the darkness/nudity). I haven't had a dinner date yet because new but I know I will. And I love to cook so my dream dinner date would be cooking for a client I really connect with at my incall and then having chocolate, an array of fruits and cheeses, with a bottle of Champagne to top off our romantic date. Then an extremely sensuous session

2 hours of play after which we went to dinner and then returned to the room for another hour of play.   Time spent at the dinner was OTC (her suggestion).

I've had quite a few dates like this,  either unplanned (a date ends and both of us are so starving from all the physical activity that we need to acquire more energy! ) or planned.  

I offer a discount on time when dinner is involved.  Especially if it's a nice,  juicy steak.    

It was called Breakfast and a show....  LOL, my take on the dinner and show experience that many places offer

It started with a questionnaire to get the breakfast order and then I would make this fresh right before the appt was to start(prior to noon).  Then while they ate across the room I would sit with a table roll of toys and lubes putting on quite a show for them.  Breakfast lasted about 30mins during which time they stayed across the room watching and eating and then it was followed by 30mins or 1hr or play depending on what they had signed up for.  I loved them and they were fun but they were not very popular so I cut them out....

And now the edit.  Sorry gents I thought this was the kinda thing you were talking about, eating with naked skin.  Honestly for dinner or for any other meal I personally like it better 1st.  Usually to eat in front of someone I have to be hungry so eating and sharing nice conversation while all pretty and made up is awesome, just don't eat till you are rolly.  There also tends to be the teasing, touching and things that really make for great build up and make us both feel sexy.  I have also done them after but honestly I have found I am not generally as good a company after.  My make up is smeared, I might be a little damp in places that make me uncomfortable in public, and in general just don't feel like going out with someone.  I think the key is to figure out what works best for you because for each person the answer will be different and unique.   While I feel great after, sometimes I just want a nap after a really hot romp, that doesn't make for a very nice or sexy dinner out....  But again, that is just me.  Ask 100 people and you will get alot of different answers

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"Food coma" after sex is much better than one before. Alyson...you've convinced me that the reverse dinner date is the way to go!

For the most part, I seem to attract men I would absolutely date, and I have enough fun that I don't date otherwise.  I love it.  It builds chemistry, definitely, but I also learn SO MUCH about everything.  I can't think of any other profession where someone would be exposed to such a variety of "the secret way things really work."

So when it's offered, I enjoy it always, but I also just toss it in for fun, before or after, when I think you might know about something cool that I don't.  Yet.    

xo,
Mari

In my experience and I do it frequently is a before and after May cost a little bit more but you are left thoroughly satisfied the end of the night a quickie before an evening of it afterwards it is divine.
To me it's kind of the reason to be in the Hobby is a sure thing twice as often with an awesome woman who knows how to please.
Honestly what more could you ask for in life?

Wicked!

I will say that I impressed myself a week or so ago by taking a lady out to Koren BBQ, getting completely stuffed and being able to have dessert at all afterwards. lol

The one rule that I made sure we adhered to where it came to the Korean food was that if one of us ate something, both of us had to eat it. "Kimchi breath" is only tolerable when both parties have it. If you have ever kissed someone with "kimchi breath" while your mouth was fresh and minty, you'll know what I mean lol

My pillow-talk consulting business is a real asset to the community

Now that's sexy...

Actually, this is a great idea. It's about you and what gives you the best experience and what makes you comfortable. Who says things have to be only one way? Not me. I could never live that way.

I have been asked for dinner date and usually ask the guy if he wants dessert before or after dinner!

Rachel

I enjoy dinner dates because, they do allow you the opportunity to meet a person and get a true feel of who they are. With that stated I do dinner dates all the time. I find that they are more popular with clients I have had for many years versus the new clients.  

New clients have gotten the idea that dinner time is free and therefore, find myself not booking the dinner date with new client. that is fine with me. I charge enough to buy my own dinner. smile

Never thought of it as a "reverse" date...but that's as good of a word as any.
What I like about them is the "nervousness" is all but gone....and both parties can RELAX and do some more flirting over dinner.    

Yes, definitely my favorite type of dinner date.  

It took me forever to realize men aren't big fans of ladies playing it cool- they LOVE to show you something new that you're excited about.  You just naturally get that.

You're either going to make bank or get plucked up in no time.

I have a many dinner dates and I do love them after all the play time... You work up a HUGE appetite and it is always fun. Have a few snacks maybe or a couple of drinks to get to know one another then a nice dinner.  
I have had both and never really had a bad experience either way. They are very nice. I hope you have lots of fun when you decide on it.
Love
Zana
 

Sometimes it's nice to have an appetizer....dinner...then desert !

Oh miss marie you're so sweet! I appreciate it when other providers compliment me and vice versa because we all truly know what premiere service is! Thank you so much darling! Kisses, Lola Luxe

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Both of you are irresistibly sweet...like.trying to pick between a decadent cheesecake and a molten lava cake....makes sense to start with dessert.