This will undoubtedly stir up all kinds of angry responses, but hear me out before you tear me a new one. I was interested in a particular provider and wanted to know if she offered a particular service as I'm partial to that and I know it can be a touchy subject for some providers. So I read through the website and came across this:

"Many Chicago Escort Agencies are hands-off and untouchable when it comes to answering your pre-book questions, not at [name redacted] Escorts."

So I call, explain about reading their website and I've got a question and do they want my verification info first? And let them know, respectfully, that it could be a touchy question. They say go for it. I ask and they immediately hang up. Called back and it went straight to VM.  

I copied the line above and emailed it to them with the question, gave them verification, etc. Laid it all out. Said I was trying to be respectful. Sent it from a personal email account to show I'm a hobbyist and not LE.  

The response I got was, "Hahahaha. Idiot."  

The question is pretty simple - does the provider offer bbbj? I'm not a prolific hobbyist but have been doing this for a few years. And I really am asking in an effort to save time and, honestly, my money. I have asked this of other agencies - with respect - and typically get a respectful reply.  

And, yes, I know many do not like to be asked such a question. But this is a business and if you're paying for a service you'd like to know if the experience will meet expectations, even if only halfway because there are a lot of other elements involved - personal chemistry, mood, etc.  

But I've never had that kind of response. And it just seems unprofessional.  

Okay, that's it. Hit me over the head, make me your punching bag, tell me they're right. I know I'm inviting some folks' wrath. Hoping someone will give another perspective, too.  

Thanks.

however it is kinda taboo to admit to any specific service via email, phone is a little different but still people are careful.

I would have asked more like, "If I am mainly interested in a BBBJ, am I wasting my time pursuing *insert escort name here*?"  Of course the question should not be asked before screening, I know you all want to know before booking or giving your info but we do need to know you are legit and ok.  another thing though is that unless it is a really open agency, they might not have a clue what she offers because they don't ask that.  As a matter of a fact they can't tell you that you will have relations with the guests and while it is expected, an agency can't make you do a thing.

The best way to find out though is to read reviews, that will tell you if they offer them consistently.  If they don't have enough reviews then you are gambling anyway.

At this point you are most likely SOL with seeing this provider unless she switches agencies or goes indy.  GL to you and take care, Sage

Some very good advice there and it all makes sense. Thank you!

I thought that was one of the big reasons people get the VIP, because services are important to them. You don't necessarily have to ask, you can just look at their review profile and reviews?

Saves the need to ask the forbidden questions.

.... and I agree with Courtney that reading the reviews here (sticking with reviewed ladies, of course) is simpler than having to ask such a question.

That being said, I will say this: calling you an idiot, after you'd sincerely demonstrated your willingness to screen & schedule, was  absolutely unprofessional.

If you'd randomly asked them this on Twitter, I would think differently, but your actions & approach deserved a better response.... or at least, not a mocking insult.  

It does. This provider is new and not yet reviewed. I probably should have just TOFT but I did not. Thank you, Courtney.

Each provider and agency handle their business differently.  If that question had been asked to me I would not have gotten all bent out of shape nor call anyone a name.  That's so tacky.  Now if a laundry list had been presented to me I probably would not have answered.  

Good luck to you moving forward, I hope you found someone wonderful to spend some time with.

Alyssa