Just curious if anyone cares to give a "close call" story. This goes for clients as well as providers.
I have taken advice from a lot of people on here and go with well established providers and avoid taking risks but im sure a few of you in the early days of your hobby lifestyle have come close to having a crash and burn experience. The only one I have is I used to go to a spa advertised a lot. It was always a good time and a VERY relaxing massage. 1 day I do a search of chicago arrests and see a person was arrested at the same address of the spa I went to for reasons pertaining to extra services being provided and was considering going there that day. Felt bad for him but was very relieved it wasnt me. I have since cut that activity out completely since it seems the easiest way for someone to get to have an uncomfortable afternoon.
about 15 yrs ago, i met a woman who lived on the east coast and we had mutual friends. she and i started a very innocent friendly e mail corresp and then weekly phone calls. she was my age and we just got along. she, like me, was married. about 12 yrs ago she was having hubby troubles and our phone chats started veering into the steamy. finally i pulled the trigger and offered to fly in for a day of comforting her in her time of stress. she picked me up at the airport. we drive to a hotel where she got a room. we spent six hours banging each other every way possible.
she brought some food from home so we wouldnt "run out of energy". we left so i could get my flight back home.
about two weeks later she calls me and says we have trouble. seems her brains migrated to her tits because she made the hotel reservation from work (oh, did i mention she worked in hubbys business?) He got wind prior to my arrival and had a PI follow her to the airport. pictures of us in the car. he bribed the maid after the fact to check out the room.
she was panicked and i was crazed. Fortunately, i didnlt leave anything incriminating in the room. for what ever stroke of luck i remember throwing out the condom box at the airport and flushed the indiv wrappers down the toilet. so she told the hubby that i was just there to offer a good ear and that nothing untoward happened. then a few days later he started focusing on another of her male friends, who later it turned out started boning her regular. he dropped me from his radar and focused on the other guy. they got soon divorced and she remarried a few years back. we talk occasionally but havent had any relations in about ten years.
nothing is free in this world. i decided to stick to professionals after that
A fascinating story, with key potential moral and practical implications. One question centers on how typical is this kind of "breaking bad" scenario. Free lunches do exist. Is this a cautionary tale or merely a one-off scary story?
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