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panos99 1133 reads
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CIM should ALWAYS be offered / On the menu

If you are going to try this (in or out of the hobby) you should always ask the lady if it is something she is ok with rather than just surprizing her, especially if this is not something advertised on her site or written in her reviews. Some ladies will be make a big deal out of it, others will try to handle it with grace and not ruin your session, but ALL will remember it and this will likely effect future sessions.

This is NOT a service I offer and if it happens in a session with me, all future session will require translation for French services, simple as that.  Why ruin the fun for yourself? Just ask ahead of time, or at least be respectful and give me some warning.


Now let's get back to having FUN!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted By: BellaOfChicago
If you are going to try this (in or out of the hobby) you should always ask the lady if it is something she is ok with rather than just surprizing her, especially if this is not something advertised on her site or written in her reviews. Some ladies will be make a big deal out of it, others will try to handle it with grace and not ruin your session, but ALL will remember it and this will likely effect future sessions.

This is NOT a service I offer and if it happens in a session with me, all future session will require translation for French services, simple as that.  Why ruin the fun for yourself? Just ask ahead of time, or at least be respectful and give me some warning.


Now let's get back to having FUN!!!!!!!!!!!

panos991134 reads

CIM should ALWAYS be offered / On the menu

If the "love juice" isn't put in the place where it was aiming, then where does it go?  Case in point, what if you are on your knees, then do you just let the precious protein fall to the floor?  I say waste not, want not;)

XXX-Giselle

Unfortunately not every provider has a website where this info is...but if you have VIP here you can find out providing of course there are enough reviews to go on.  P411 gives a pretty good low down up front.

Udo1086 reads

I always warn the women when I am ready for an eruption so they can decide how the event ends.

Some girls keep going only to spit, some swallow and some just pull away.

It's the provider's choice. Just like some men don't like DATY. I personally love pleasuring a woman and having her show me how aroused she actually is by coating my face with love juice!

All due respect, YOU have very specific preferences that you don't have on your website. TER is an information clearing house and yes, some information isn't true from posted reviews, or providers change offered services.  That's fine. But I think its incumbent on you to spell out your boundaries, not for me to ask what they are.

I try to make sure people know what to expect before contacting me. I shouldn't have to put anything about the way a session is finished on my site, there should be mutual respect during a session, which warrants a question, or at least a warning.

From your reviews, I know you to be a quality provider. I think it is equally easy to say to the person when you are with that is something you don't do. I am sure those involved respect you and would respect your wishes.

Crusher13458 reads

No crap, how hard is it to say "let me know" with a wink when you are heading south.

Perhaps she should have them sign waivers/hold-harmlesses, and provide indemnification.

I've never had to make it so clear in the past, and hesitate in putting something so explicit on my site. The hobby is deeply focused in discretion and  it crosses a certain line. When I first started providing the level of respect between provider and hobbyist was vastly different than it appears to be today.  In all of my years providing I'd never had this happen more than twice. To have it happen as many times in a week is just unacceptable. So it has been clarified, both here and on my site, if it happens again that untranslated service might be pulled from my list of offerings for first time guests until mutual trust has been established. :(

To be safe, just it case I can't remember if cim is allowed, I am always vocal about the pending climax as a fair warning of the impending blast. Sometimes they move sometimes they don't. I am happy either way but happier if they don't.

Then sometimes I'm told before I do and then there is no need for me to give notice because if I'm close I ask for lube and BLS.

Hi Bella,

I asked a woman who I often see If fingering the anal region is Ok!!  She said, only on the outside & I said, ok, I will not go there, outside, or Inside!! I still had a great time!!

What is the link to that funny pic??  I need to send it to my nephew!!

Posted By: BellaOfChicago
If you are going to try this (in or out of the hobby) you should always ask the lady if it is something she is ok with rather than just surprizing her, especially if this is not something advertised on her site or written in her reviews. Some ladies will be make a big deal out of it, others will try to handle it with grace and not ruin your session, but ALL will remember it and this will likely effect future sessions.

This is NOT a service I offer and if it happens in a session with me, all future session will require translation for French services, simple as that.  Why ruin the fun for yourself? Just ask ahead of time, or at least be respectful and give me some warning.


Now let's get back to having FUN!!!!!!!!!!!

but I am with you, no CIM for me.  The taste and texture bring my lack of gag reflex to the surface in a major way which I know no guest would appreciate, as well as health issues and things I have heard about from other ladies.  Sorry gents it is not a part of my menu, though I do enjoy a facial so I think that makes up for it.

Even if it is part of your menu I can see positives to a heads up.  I have heard or seen providers accidentally inhale the come, as well choke on it.  Neither sounds very fun at all!  Both could lead to potential issues that as a gent you might or might not know how to deal with.  

So a tap on the shoulder, or an outburst comment I'm Coming is something that would be appreciated be it that she indulges in CIM or not.

BTW some of the nasty stories I have heard, blood in the semen/brown semen/curdled/stringy/nasty smell.  Sorry guys that is just gross and if you are jacking your ummm Mr Happy(hey you are supposed to keep those pipes clean) you know there is something up with it.  Trying to get some poor girl to swallow it down or even hold it in her mouth is nasty and completely showing lack of consideration for her.  So just don't do it.  Chances are if you make her take it in her mouth you will be discussed about your lack of concern for saftey and the info might well be passed on with references.

Not trying to be a Debbie Downer but safety first makes sure we all avoid the issues that are faced in the Porn industry right now!!  Take care and have a wonderful night and enjoy this beautiful weather(preferably with a hot girl of your choice).

Sage

chris has a line about cim...half the women hate it and are grossed about it..the other half have wonderful relationships..he might have a point..

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