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Neeva See my TER Reviews 1537 reads
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There are many reasons why most providers charge extra for services and, its usually not because they don't enjoy them. Very rarely is that the case.... most providers I know work like my HVAC guy... everything is charged differently, but they'll do anything you want.. they don't mind.

The main reason why a provider charges what they charge including extras for fetishes is because people will pay.

Personally, I don't really care to charge anything extra for things that I provide like for example... "multiple pops". It may be considered a bad business tactic by some but... I have a pretty good "friend" basis that I really don't care. Also, my advertising costs are pretty much nil... which is another point to consider in the grand scheme of financial construct.

To each their own, I guess...

-Neeva ;)

Posted By: madman274
When an ad says that Fetish is an extra $50  or $100  what does that mean?

Is it a reference to anal,  DATY, fisting,  S&M?   Seems a little vague to me.  

I could ask what she means by "Fetish" but you normally shouldn't discuss sex acts before the first visit.

madman2741469 reads

When an ad says that Fetish is an extra $50  or $100  what does that mean?

Is it a reference to anal,  DATY, fisting,  S&M?   Seems a little vague to me.  

I could ask what she means by "Fetish" but you normally shouldn't discuss sex acts before the first visit.

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beyes5871332 reads

Seeing that they don't sell sex and you are simply paying for their time, trying to pinpoint what is what is very difficult, especially when there are no clues in reviews. So when in doubt, ask and if you don't get a clear answer, expect ymmv / it aint gonna happen.

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Sage of Chicago1050 reads

just ask which fetishes she caters too.  But wait till you are checked first so she knows you are safe or you likely might not get a response.  Take care, Sage

Posted By: madman274
When an ad says that Fetish is an extra $50  or $100  what does that mean?

Is it a reference to anal,  DATY, fisting,  S&M?   Seems a little vague to me.  

I could ask what she means by "Fetish" but you normally shouldn't discuss sex acts before the first visit.

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Axxel1118 reads

Posted By: madman274
When an ad says that Fetish is an extra $50  or $100  what does that mean?

Is it a reference to anal,  DATY, fisting,  S&M?   Seems a little vague to me.  

I could ask what she means by "Fetish" but you normally shouldn't discuss sex acts before the first visit.

I find that girls who advertise extra$$ for fetish more often than not are not really into it.  As a general rule fetish providers charge less than escorts, so if a escort is charging more for fetish requests it may be best to look elsewhere.  I am seeing more and more girls advertising as "fetish friendly" but more often than not I find they are not experienced and it is more of a marketing ploy

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ElleVegas1224 reads

I disagree with you Axxel.  Some fetishes require additional expenses.  Candle wax, Latex, stockings and toys, things that I am sure You would prefer to have brand new instead of previously used? or am I being presumptuous?

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Posted By: ElleVegas
I disagree with you Axxel.  Some fetishes require additional expenses.  Candle wax, Latex, stockings and toys, things that I am sure You would prefer to have brand new instead of previously used? or am I being presumptuous?
If you look at the published rates for dungens many advertise at 200 per hour.  Most escorts seem to start at about 300.  Somehow they are able to buy candles and undercut what escorts are charging by 100 or so, perhaps they buy their candles in volume to get a discount.   Ive never done a fetish session where she bought all new stuff for my session not to be used again, is that what you are saying that you do?  

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ElleVegas1143 reads

I would never want to reuse someone's used sex toy if you have a fetish for toys for boys.  And there is a big difference in this community between DOMS and escorts that will roll play out your fantasy.

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Axxel1078 reads

Posted By: ElleVegas
I would never want to reuse someone's used sex toy if you have a fetish for toys for boys.  And there is a big difference in this community between DOMS and escorts that will roll play out your fantasy.  
If I am seeing someone who advertises as offering fetish play I would expect her to have a collection of toys and paraphernalia to use during the session, not just one toy, a candle, and stockings purchased for the session and then discarded.

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Sage of Chicago1352 reads

while a fetish session with a provider you still get stimulation via all of our means.  The idea you are going to lay or get a BBBJ from a fetishist is unheard of for the pricing Axxxel Mentions

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Sage of Chicago1384 reads

I am one of those girls.  It is not an extra because I am"not really into it, it is extra because it is not something I would normally offer.  Fetish work is wonderful but some of it takes much more out of me even though I adore it.  Sometimes I do throw it in depending on a a ton of factors that are up to me and perhaps being in a certain mood...  So, for me it is mainly getting a clearer understanding on what my guest wants to see if I am able to offer it when he wants it....  As well, I transform the side of me that provides that service.  I am not the only reputable lady that offers fetish at an addition, even BebeDoll our fetish master charges more for some added services...

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Posted By: madman274
When an ad says that Fetish is an extra $50  or $100  what does that mean?

Is it a reference to anal,  DATY, fisting,  S&M?   Seems a little vague to me.  

I could ask what she means by "Fetish" but you normally shouldn't discuss sex acts before the first visit.

I find that girls who advertise extra$$ for fetish more often than not are not really into it.  As a general rule fetish providers charge less than escorts, so if a escort is charging more for fetish requests it may be best to look elsewhere.  I am seeing more and more girls advertising as "fetish friendly" but more often than not I find they are not experienced and it is more of a marketing ploy

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Axxel1394 reads

Posted By: Sage of Chicago
I am one of those girls.  It is not an extra because I am"not really into it, it is extra because it is not something I would normally offer.  Fetish work is wonderful but some of it takes much more out of me even though I adore it.  Sometimes I do throw it in depending on a a ton of factors that are up to me and perhaps being in a certain mood...  So, for me it is mainly getting a clearer understanding on what my guest wants to see if I am able to offer it when he wants it....  As well, I transform the side of me that provides that service.  I am not the only reputable lady that offers fetish at an addition, even BebeDoll our fetish master charges more for some added services...
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Posted By: madman274
When an ad says that Fetish is an extra $50  or $100  what does that mean?

Is it a reference to anal,  DATY, fisting,  S&M?   Seems a little vague to me.  

I could ask what she means by "Fetish" but you normally shouldn't discuss sex acts before the first visit.

I find that girls who advertise extra$$ for fetish more often than not are not really into it.  As a general rule fetish providers charge less than escorts, so if a escort is charging more for fetish requests it may be best to look elsewhere.  I am seeing more and more girls advertising as "fetish friendly" but more often than not I find they are not experienced and it is more of a marketing ploy

      I  said more often than not, and that has been my experience with a number of different girls, I didn't mean to imply that it is always that way.   You have only an hour, if you are getting into fetish, you probably don't really have time to get into all the things you would normally do in a gfe session so their is usually a subtraction of some services with the addition of others.    If a girl wants to charge 50 for greek in a normal session I get it, and nothing I have am saying in this thread is meant to speak against that.   Its becoming a lot more popular to advertise as fetish friendly but not being able to back it up, that is the main point I was trying to make to the OP.  

A very long time ago I had an appt with a girl named Ashley Jade.....I think that was her name.  She was very busty.  We were doing some fetish play and another girl was at the apartment and offered to join us and offered a very reasonable rate well below her normal escort rate.  I declined, but Ashley did invite her in to see some of the handiwork she had done.  You don't ALWAYS ask your normal rate for fetish, or even an additional bump do you?    It was a very very long time ago and Sage I doubt if you remember it.  No offense meant, but I just got a chuckle as to what happened a long time ago and how it vaguely relates to the thread

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QueenBia1236 reads

Pior to play we need to converse to discuss limits, level, or lack of experience, etc...

From what I have noticed is in this industry providers are offer services they are not educated on & post on there ads fetish 50-100 more because they are faking it until they make it!  Meaning they saw another provider post offering fetishes & she can post it to make $, and not be able to provide the service, or attempt to fake it.


To be honest practice makes perfect, and it takes years to MASTER an ART.

Related Link: http://Queenofalltraits.com

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Neeva1538 reads

There are many reasons why most providers charge extra for services and, its usually not because they don't enjoy them. Very rarely is that the case.... most providers I know work like my HVAC guy... everything is charged differently, but they'll do anything you want.. they don't mind.

The main reason why a provider charges what they charge including extras for fetishes is because people will pay.

Personally, I don't really care to charge anything extra for things that I provide like for example... "multiple pops". It may be considered a bad business tactic by some but... I have a pretty good "friend" basis that I really don't care. Also, my advertising costs are pretty much nil... which is another point to consider in the grand scheme of financial construct.

To each their own, I guess...

-Neeva ;)

Posted By: madman274
When an ad says that Fetish is an extra $50  or $100  what does that mean?

Is it a reference to anal,  DATY, fisting,  S&M?   Seems a little vague to me.  

I could ask what she means by "Fetish" but you normally shouldn't discuss sex acts before the first visit.

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Sage of Chicago1036 reads

like greek.  I Love it but don't want everybody back there, and because after the 1st time/couple times it feels strange and uncomfortable.  There are many other fetishes that Zap me, like a multi hour mild dom session or multi hour fantasy session.  I have to go home and have a nap after because I put my all into becoming what my partner needs and it ends up being completely what they needed while satisfying my need to be me.  So...  There are alot of reasons why one might charge for it...  If you want to include the extra's, that is fine, I don't because my normal gifting is on specials usually and are for a normal untaylored session.  Taylored is more pure and simple.  Many other service industries are the same way...

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