Anybody here know this Lexxee chick.  Too bad someone didn't talk her out of this before she took the plunge, wrote the following novel (and, no, I couldn't bear to read all of it) and started her melt-down routine

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Since this is her home town I thought mongers should know they have a young and possibly unstable provider to watch out for.  Forewarned is forearmed.
She does have a nice ass though, so if anyone wants the little head to do the thinking by all means see her and write a review.  Unless TER takes her seriously and delists her.
C'mon, Courtney, you're way too smart not to know this was the unspoken conclusion to my OP.  But I do hope this means you'll still be bringing lube to NY, LOL!

Has anyone ever had one of those days where they knew something wasn't sitting right with them, and one day the thing you were frustrated about all came out - along with it came many words that didn't need to be said?

I think people just listen to the insults and skip the meat of a message. While the person writing could have left some assumptions about the guys out, it is kind of a stab back after being insulted. I'm pretty sure 100 percent of people here have done it. Vented, tried to change something, and said some shitty things to their opponents while doing it.

When someone tries to take advantage or ridicule something you put your all into, it stings, right? You're constantly turn the other cheek, and all of a sudden you've had enough of one or two or ten of the people poking fun at you, and you puke all your food and liver bile all over everybody.

Shit happens, maybe clean the mess off of those who don't deserve it and help her iron it out instead of kicking her down even further.

Thanks

I read it. Kind of long, but I get where she's coming from. She's not talking about every guy, (ok, judging TER guys lol but - come on - are you always nice? I'm sure people have judged you based on things you've said too. It can be intimidating. I would have to research because I think you mess more with the trolls, but...)

I think she's really focusing on some people who have burned her. That manipulation crap does happen, and I definitely let the guy know how I feel about it before I see him if he starts that with me. If it happens in session, I welcome him to write a review about his experience.

I wrote what I thought at the bottom. I think some things built up and she is having a moment - but I don't think she's BSC. If that's BSC, I need to be locked up lol.

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Inicky, give her a break. as you mentioned, she is a newbie.  Let it go.  Stop piling on.  Seems to me you are just stirring the pot

Of course we all have "one of those days." But most people are smart enough to do their venting in the proper place and not inflict even more damage on themselves with thoughtless, ill-grounded accusations against an entire community.
She should have been smart enough to take it to the Newbie Board or talk to some girlfriends who are more experienced.  Had she brought it to the Newbie Board she'd have gotten sympathy and advice.  And then she doubled down on dumb by flaming back and sending me two idiotic PMs and putting me on ignore after the second one.  So she can't even read, or be hurt by, what I'm saying here.  She also can't learn from it, either.
Personally, from her pictures I think she's cute and seems to have a great bod.  But there's no way in hell I'd see someone who uses so little common sense and is so prone to volatile outbursts.  As I said above, people in her home town should be aware.  I'm actually sympathetic to her plight but sympathy, sometimes, must be trumped by common sense.

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I do expect people to judge me on what I write and say, and I know not everyone likes it.  I'm fine with that. I guess you're right that I rarely go after women on the boards (Taylor and a rare few others excepted) because in general I like the women who post.
But I'm an equal-opportunity flamer and if someone says something stupid, I'l respond.  Perhaps you'll recall I went after my buddy Gambler for ignoring that there was something between Gay and Heterosexual called Bi.
And, no, it would be hard for me to ever think of you as BSC.  Quirkly? Yes, but in a charming and sexy kind of way.

Over time, hopefully people learn by getting burned over and over again. Some quicker than others. But I'm not going to call a girl unstable or crazy because she felt pain and didn't know where to go to be relieved of the sting.  

I just go by how I feel when I am emotionally hurt. I physically feel it, and I have to get rid of it. Now, I do things like meditate, take it out on my male roommate lol, cry, slam a door, then come back and say sorry lol. I tend to have a strength of being very nurturing because I tend to hurt when others hurt. But that also means I can easily feel the sting against me.

I care about people, and I care about their feelings, and I care about whether or not they enjoyed themselves with me while spending some great money. I sometimes hate leaving, because I feel bad that I have to leave - but I do. When I try my hardest to fulfill a promise that I made, and the person takes advantage of that, but turns it around on me, it's hard not to be upset that I somehow neglected someone else's needs - that it's my fault that they're disappointed. A day comes where I realize I did everything in my power to please a guy, and I couldn't - only because the guy was impossible to please. Then I get upset about it. Now, my way of dealing with it, (though it hasn't always been my way,) is simply not to see the person again. Not because I don't like him, but because It takes too much energy and it hurts to try to please someone who just can't be pleased.

But for me, instead of continually going back to make it up to him like I used to, I simply say "I'm sorry I'm not what you were looking for, and wish you luck in finding the right girl." Some people can't do that. They either need the money, or they have the need to succeed and make it up to they other person, because they care. When they can't, it hurts. To me, it actually physically hurts and I have to do healthy things to get rid of that pain. It's taken me years to figure out how not to be so hard on myself, and take those failures out on everyone around me. I just have to accept that I can't please everyone.

So when I read her post, I felt that she was more of an empathetic personality. Someone who wants to make everyone happy, and when she can't, she finally gets fed up by the expectations. The problem is, it's not everyone else's expectation. It's her own expectation of herself, but thinks it's everyone else's expectation of her. Unfortunately, some people do take advantage of people like that, which attracts manipulators, and controllers. It also trains them to do it more.

She needs to learn how to stay away from people who will suck the energy from her. But she more needs to learn how not to blame herself for other people's feelings.

Anyway, too deep, but that's what I see. Probably because I identify with the empathy. One of the biggest signs is the returning money to clients if she had a good time. It's guilt, not good business. She connected with the client, and feels bad for charging him.

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Lexxeeee

First, of all this rant really was unnecessary if you really wanted out it is clear what must be done on the website. Many do it and really it is not all that hard. As with any job, there is going to be bullshit tasks and attitudes to deal with. I would think that a grown ass woman at your age 40+? who does this for a living would have thicker skin to deal with men. While some of what you state is true, it is something you should have researched prior to partaking in the lifestyle. No one likes a demanding asshole trust me but you can simply end any appointment at anytime. If you want to try the no review highway click the contact us on the bottom of any TER page and let them know you would like to be delisted. It should take no more than 24-72 hours to be removed. Your ranting on the board is not a formal request FYI.  
 
Also, I know you are down right now to have posted such rant but instead of putting all the blame on the guys you need to really analyze yourself. Please realize you are seeing BP dudes, your website has various quotes of being submissive, but do you go over your limits, I did not see nothing as such on your website, you really did a "name your own price" approach to your donations? You may very well be setting yourself up and attracting the dudes that are douchebags with this approach.  
 
Try a different approach on your ad, advertise on a different venue, use only your pics....  
YES, darling you are using a pic of a glorious ass and hips (black latex one) that are not yours! Your website shows many many more that are sexy artistic shots, but not all are you so please dont be a hypocrite. I do not know what you look like so you may be misleading them and it shows in the comments of your reviews. So quit your whining, grow bigger ovaries and figure your shit out.  YOU are the one doing something wrong here, I have yet to meet a douchebag in a couple of years!  
I am also thinking your verification process is off. Need help? Reach out to any of the ladies that post here for tips or like I said research the industry to know the positive and negatives better.
 
 
Sorry ladies, but this shit is typical BSC babble. Embarrassed for her. Come correct and have your shit together to be able to bitch about the men on THEIR review site.

I sure as fuck don't.  Actually, I'd be embarrassed if I spent that much time on this.

1) If she'd taken it to the Newbie Board I'd have left her alone.
2) I wasn't piling on since I was the first one to post about her rant.  Everyone else was piling on, so go whine to them.
3) "give her a break?" How about I give a break to all the guys in Chi who might miss this and go see her? Or do you believe in "ho's before bro's?" You are starting to sound like a WK, a mangina, or both.
4) I guess you don't know me.  If you did you'd know I love to stir the pot.  Just ask my fellow pot-stirrer from Chgo, Dr. Who.
Have a nice day!

Do you realize Lexxee did not post on this thread and may well not have read it?  You are addressing my OP which included a link to her GD Board rant.
This is ironic since you said I should be embarrassed for not googling her pix, when her looks were not the point of my post.  So who's embarrassed now?
All that said, I think the advice you gave her is spot on.  So let's kiss and make up.
Mwah!

Nicky, I googled image ONE on her BP that was ONE too many for me. It was VERY clear from viewing her selfies that the artsy ones are not her! She deactivated the right click on the website, convenient eh?  
But, no nicky I did not google image search all of them, just one. You did not even do one and you were too quick to compliment them hips and ass. So shut it dude.

The thread was open but once I submitted the thread had been closed. It was YOU that pointed us to her rant and said she was from CHITOWN so I can not have my .02 go to waste! Especially since you agree, hahahah!!!  I am an internet savvy chick buddy I can follow a damn John hooker review board just fine.  

I will kiss and makeup but I just hope you know how to kiss my ass!  

**winks and blows kiss**

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But how could I know the exact circumstances leading to your post?  The result was, you didn't look "internet savvy" at all.  But, fine, I'll believe you.
And, if your ass is as hot as the one I mistakenly thought was Lexxee's I will not only kiss it, I'll lick it.  And that's just for starters!
**leers and licks his lips**

who the fuck is Dr. Who? did someone revive this Pig..

He went back channel and called me a "drama queen." Then another one telling me he didn't like being called a mangina.  He didn't complain about being called a WK, though, LOL!
I pointed out that it was kinda mangina-esque to not have the stones to say what he had to say to me on the board.  I'm afraid I then called him some rude names, but I won't repeat them here because I'm really a nice guy.
He could take some lessons on having balls from Heaux. LMAO!

It was sweet, thoughtful and human -- not that I didn't think you were before.  But as I read it and thought about it, then compared it to what our subject wrote this morning, I can't help but feel you are projecting your own experiences and world view on her.  And, in fact, I don't see her that way at all.  Of course, I could be wrong.  Either of us could be.  Or there could be a third reality.
Anyway, I like what you wrote even though I don't completely agree with it and hope to see you in NY some time.  I'm really not as big a shit-heel as I sometimes come across.  But I grew up on the boards around some pretty tough characters and I don't suffer gladly people who come across as fools.  In person, I'm no weakling either and am somewhat dominant.  But at the same time, it's very important to me that the people I'm with -- especially the ladies -- have fun, feel good and laugh a lot.  You can see from my reviews many of the women I've seen (there are even more who I haven't reviewed, either because they asked me not to, were UTR, didn't conform to TER qualifications, or we were out of the country).  But I'd lay odds virtually all of them would say they enjoyed my company.  And that's important to me.

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A:  Time Lord from Gallifrey

I know it's not as mind numbing as watching Maury...but you should give that noodle of yours some exercise.

Are you going to the M&G as an old man?  Who's going to wake you up for that?

I'm sure all of us have something boiling up from time to time. It doesn't have to wait until it grows that big like in this case. The thoughts and feelings must be spoken timely. When we share in a proper way we can, we evolve; it's necessary and natural.

Says the reigning queen of BSC

I thought you had run off with Andreww and Gandy?

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This wins as the cutest post by inicky ever lol.

There are a lot of punks on here who are super sweet in person. Ok, maybe not sweet, but not like their board persona, that's for sure.

It's all good, we can call it make up sex... though we really weren't fighting, but we can say we did!

Well, you nailed it.  Here's a shot of me, Gambler, Dr.Who and Curly, back in the day

another alias asswipe..must be an OMEN..

Does AARP offer this service?

Then it stands to reason you also are another alias asswipe.

Seems everyone here is an alias.

So...still going to that M&G as an old man?  Looks like you and cece make a lovely couple.  At least you two aren't going to be stupid drunk like a few of the OTHFB gals babble on here that they're going to be slap stupid drunk.

What can possibly go wrong with that?  LOL

Hookers...Johns...drugs...booze.  Should be fun  

Wonder when it will post?

Same problem he seems to have with any woman now a days (actually according to LR it's been an issue for over 20 years now....oh well).

Thank heavens for Depends.

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You know me, always there to help a lady and open the door for her.
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Well said, Doc!  This obsession with aliases and accusations against people using aliases makes me scratch my head. As you say, no one here (at least no one that I know of) is posting as their real name, so everyone here is using an alias.  

Now, if someone is using their alias for nefarious purposes such as harassing and terrorizing others, then that's a completely different matter.  

I either post as an alias or as this handle which doesn't have reviews.  Why? I don't want to risk saying something that a BSC hooker doesn't like and risk her trying to find info about me from other hookers and having her engage in threats, blackmail etc. against me

No charge for my editorial services...

Muahahahaha

Which one are you?

you can't mis-spell a phonetic word.  I have this directly from Conan The Grammarian and The Cunning Linguist. You are going to get a severe tongue-lashing, young lady!

LR lol!

U should run for president. I heart u!

Sorry for the delay in responding to all of you. I was working pleasing my client all day.

So I will address a few things cuz I know my lack of response was only making your boner bigger.  

Listen waybelowaveragejoe or should I sAy iccky I mean Inicky. I thought I was only ignoring your abusive PMs. Let me state belowaveragejoe was demanding to know who I was referring too. He wanted names and alias'. Hmmm, for what ammunition to take someone else down??? Who's the drama queen? I did not want to shut you up and ignore your posts at all. So I now can read all that you wrote.  Um, No words to say, no insults because you demonstrated it all through your obsession with me and my topic. Hmmm have we met???? Have you been cut? Or just guilty of doing that to someone else? Let it go babe.

Few more things...
I am not a hooker
I was never mad at my reviews, yes I am new and a MILF so I think they are pretty stellar. I just don't appreciate the underlying threats from guys I tell to not review me. But mostly don't want personal details listed out for all to see. Many girls have the exact thing written on every review. My reviewers actually received much more however I asked for nothing further to be posted. To flow like all the others - so other clients wouldn't feel bad that I am a YMMV provider. Don't know what a BSC is or what everyone is calling me refers to and not gonna waste time looking it up.  

So wait I guess I am a hooker - just so new to this, I don't know what I am. Please explain it all to me. Is the cock supposed to go in the first hole or the second, so new to this.

What I can tell you, I've been doing the same for years but instead of wining and dining and spending that money taking me out on the town, I get cash in hand and a lot I might add. I leave the rate up to the client's experience and get 300-400 for bbbjcim & fbsm I was charging $69 when I first started. Then left it up to the client. Not bragging, just letting you know,
I know exactly what I am doing.  

Lack of reviews - why? Because I  request it for the benefit of my regulars that may go on here. Plus when I asked clients if they would review me they state they don't want to share.  My sexy clients like to keep it special, mysterious, between us. They have confidence and don't need to brag about their banging. What I have is snapshots of text messages moments, hours, days after my encounters raving about the service. I am working on a page that will have those snapshots. I can send you those immediately if you would like.  

I rarely have to run ads. One a month. So your efforts to take me down are useless.

Every single ter reviewer has tried to come back for a second visit most a few days later rest within 2 weeks. I am by McCormick place so I am now seeing that guys who have conventions 1x per year are back too. And here I thought they forgot about me.  

My clients respect my privacy and to tell you the truth half are dizzy when they leave. Get the best nights sleep or continue with a stellar day at work. They remember intense moments of our encounter however can't articulate it in words that would make sense.  
Did you read my reviews. Pretty funny all my reviews said it was a blur. What I don't get is yours read like the Bears Playbook. So much detail, how can you even remember during the heat of passion? More advice you can lend me. Please my iccky make me the best provider ever.  

But listen this doesn't make me feel better letting you know my services are beyond exceptional. I just need my reviewers to know it wasn't them, they followed the rules.  

Here is the rant motivation, I had no idea what to do and couldn't call the police...

Earlier that evening I was with a long time client who started to get violent in my home. I ran out & got my neighbor involved. I was trying to kick him out. He is not stable and my life was threatened.  He was racing home to write a review that I had serious diseases. He wanted to tell folks I had Ebola. I was just trying to prevent this from occurring. Maybe it's in The bank of reviews to be posted but I was able to prevent it.  

Girls, if you want to know the many different names and numbers this abuser uses please PM me. He is dangerous and I am afraid to blacklist because he knows so much about me and where I live.  Yesterday I  had my neighbor check my apt for me. The rant was written in an atmosphere and energy of pure fear and panic. I had to deal with my neighbors try to explain who he was and why I didn't want to call the cops. Not to mention lots of explaining to my building. May be switching to out calls only now.  

A sincere apology to the many gentlemen on this site, I do appreciate you. Even have a special playlist for our sessions on YouTube. I received such kind PMs for so many of you. I am sorry to group you all with this and the few other jerks.

NOW REGARDING MY PHOTOS IF YOU CLICKED ON MY WEBSITE ALBUM 'ASSETS' EVERY SINGLE PHOTO IS ME. You must be referring to the ad that was listed on TER from April 2013 at 4:20 exactly . That is when I first started and didn't realize I had to put actual photos. That all changed. I had videos of me everywhere. The albums eye candy and erotic eye on my site were  just things that get me wet and hopefully you hard. But go ahead with your assumptions not sure what ass photo you were talking about but email me and I will send you everything you need to prove my validity and show you my ass ets.

Now go on with your day, fill it up with hate and disrespect and I will go on with my day pleasing clients beyond their expectations.  

Ciao  
Ps- you should change your alias to Napoleon  
Oh and don't forget to pick up your Viagra  

Unfortunately no due to a member's heart attack.

But hey I have great news for you dr ewe,
  your penis enlarger finally came in. Sorry it took so long, we just never made one so small.

You too have a great day spreading hate and degrading folks.

 
See you at bingo tonight

she also sent me a PM. I didn't read because it was rather long, however, a quick glance showed it had lots of all-caps venting.  So clearly, the poor girl has learned nothing from all the helpful advice she got.  What a shame.  I even helped her get delisted.  Is there no gratitude?
Update: Now she's sent me two PMs this morning. She needs meds.

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TER president? Lol! Everyone would hate me.

I read your post below. I knew something must have gone down that triggered that kind of response.

Feel better, and if you need anything, try to get on the PO board if/when your reviews come back up. That or PM some of us. We all try to share little tricks to help target our ideal clientele.

Then you can legalize our lifestyle and I could have called the police. I wouldn't have been so hateful and alone. But now I know I am not alone at all.  

I will take all your advice to heart. Thanks again and have an awesome day pleasing yourself and others.
Xo

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Every one of us has our own likes/dislikes. If we don't speak up about our preferences and compatibility, wishes and concerns, the right people won't find us.

You’re naïve thinking your alias can save you from losing your job. If any of these hookers really wants you to have problems, you’ll have them. If you value your job and & lifestyle, filter your piehole.

Saying it without saying it. Be who you want to attract, without them even realizing that is what you are doing. Still learning, but it seems to be a great formula and works pretty well. It's been a really long time since I've seen any douchebags. Lol

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why not use it? There are less or more passionate ways to express our thoughts and feelings, everyone is different. Different doesn't mean wrong. There is enough room for everyone in this business.

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that the word Labia is plural, so putting "a" in front of it is like saying "a lips."  Maybe you meant "lisp?" Still, a worthy effort.

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Too bad lady your poor-skilled damage control doesn't bring you more business, you should just quit it lollipop.

You've been using your pointing finger too much lately, haven't you. Is it sore?

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It's all part of her "control" over this tools mind  

The only threat busy_big is capable of carrying out is falling asleep before the 6:00 news is over.

And, yes, everyone knew if was supposed to sound like Lawrence of Arabia.  I mean, Duh.
I'm happy to give you poetic license for the "a labia" part, so please unbunch your tighty whities.  It's all good.

BINGO

nope..YOU are a violation of TER.s rule..who the fuck ever let you on here?.

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Busy_blg's post sure sounds like a threat to me.  So, on behalf of which BSC hooker are you making threats?

That's understandable at your age.  It must also be tough to stay awake that entire hour of thrilling excitement.

Just heard from a few of the old inner circle....and it's not good news for you.

Shit...even cece has distanced herself from it.  

I might need your advise on daily basis, are you available? I'll practice English and you practice patience and I'll bring you some ice for your pointing finger and let me know what else.

it's "advice" not "advise."  If you're going to tweak me for teaching English, you might at least use the language correctly.  Now, for the love of god, please stop embarrassing yourself and go to bed.

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Well, after your rants of the last few weeks, it's,impressive you've maybe learned your,lesson about bashing your clientele so nastily in public. Maybe you've learned. Maybe.  

Says the master leaker of the RO board. Shut the hell up.  

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or he will crush you like a worm and squoosh your guts out on the floor and set them on fire because He loves you even though He has self image problems. Geez, talk about grammar.  Now about that pointing finger, if it does get sore just stick it up your ass fer a spell.