Since the OP does not have VIP access, she can not verify if those guys claiming to be TER members are telling the truth. There have been incidents where guys try to bypass screening by saying they are such n such on TER.
I totally agree about reporting the RS2K members.4 guys who are RS2K verified and 2 guys who are both members of TER, with lots of reviews under their belt. Should I report the guys who are members of RS2K? By the way, I'm not new to the business, just don't have any reviews on THIS particular board.
Not a VIP member so I can read private messages.
...and blacklist the others with a NCNS label. Easy peasy. If a guy is labeled as a NCNS on a blacklist, ladies can still opt to book him by collecting a deposit or knowing that he may not show. Same for the RS2k guys.
Since the OP does not have VIP access, she can not verify if those guys claiming to be TER members are telling the truth. There have been incidents where guys try to bypass screening by saying they are such n such on TER.
I totally agree about reporting the RS2K members.
I know someone who was able to check them out for me as far as their review history and how long they've been members of TER.
Throwing people on a BL over an NCNS is why the entire BL system is a joke.
They made sense at one point when they were used to notify peeps about dangerous folks on both sides....but now anyone and everyone seems to have found a way on them for breathing.
Well done!
Um, they found themselves on there for NCNS, which is valid. LOL, it was NEVER just for dangerous clients. Erin explained it perfectly and every provider I know appreciates it. It helps us make informed decisions.
On backchannels, don't you post ladies who NCNS? Or on here via pm? Isn't the first thing after a NCNS post about a provider a "name her" post?
I am 99% you are trolling, but in case your not, I hope this puts it in perspective!
They made sense at one point when they were used to notify peeps about dangerous folks on both sides....but now anyone and everyone seems to have found a way on them for breathing.
Well done!
in which the gentlemans info becomes public for what he did to a provider, like you can do a google search with his name and it comes up. Not a great way to get a new job right(new jobs Google Search you after your interview). There also is a perception that so many flaky ladies NCNS the guys that NCNS really is not a big deal, however those of us who are not flaky and ALWAYS show up or call ASAP if there is an issue know that NCNS is a HUGE problem and costs tons of $(hotel, time we can't give other, parking, gas). Not saying the guys do not incur these charges when they get NCNS, they do. However it was not that lady who flaked on you before she was there and ready, so it is simply not ok.
Ok, and this has happened to me more then 10rs ago. Just because girl X NCNS you doesn't mean it is ok, so if you NCNS girl Y she is going to report you. Explaining that because someone else stood you up and you didn't think it was a big deal doesn't mean it is ok to do to anyone else. NCNS is something we have to deal with in the industry, however it doesn't mean we have to let guys take those $$ out of our pockets to accommodate them without any ROI.
Oh and FYI to the guy, most of the blacklists out there are private and I think even NBL changed it because they want people to pay for memberships in order to see their black lists(they were free and public for a little while, but now are pay, lol great way to get people used to using your service and then make money off it after a little while). So you do not have to worry about your info being smeared all over everywhere in a black list post, however we will know via BC...
So just say no to NCNS
So the info on the so called "private" sites are just as corrupt as anything posted on NBL.
As I posted earlier, at one time these lists offered a valuable tool to both sides. However, over the years BOTH sides simply use these sites as fodder in many cases. And as I said, the garbage that is posted on one site tends to get migrated to those other sites.
What many on both sides have done is create connections with others in the game...where any serious info is exchanged. Certainly leaves out the folks who don't know others in the biz...but also eliminates the incredible nonsense of these public and private sites disseminating useless garbage.
As for ruining some john with this...not likely. Most of the crap that shows up is just a user handle, a toss away email address, burner phone number. Easy enough to get new ones. The gals just change their names, phone and email as well. Where some moron posts up real info about someone...easy enough to get that crap taken down as well. Oftentimes it's garbage and some type of retribution on either/both sides.
The really sad part is that with some of the nefarious souls (on both sides) running around doing this crap...even the NBL is overwhelmed with idiotic posts. So trying to determine if there is a real threat...well, when a system has been corrupted why would you/I trust anything it has to offer?
I trust that eventually someone will build a better system to offer some serious protection for those who need it. As of now...just backchannel with those you actually know and trust.
Ok, and this has happened to me more then 10rs ago. Just because girl X NCNS you doesn't mean it is ok, so if you NCNS girl Y she is going to report you. Explaining that because someone else stood you up and you didn't think it was a big deal doesn't mean it is ok to do to anyone else. NCNS is something we have to deal with in the industry, however it doesn't mean we have to let guys take those $$ out of our pockets to accommodate them without any ROI.
Oh and FYI to the guy, most of the blacklists out there are private and I think even NBL changed it because they want people to pay for memberships in order to see their black lists(they were free and public for a little while, but now are pay, lol great way to get people used to using your service and then make money off it after a little while). So you do not have to worry about your info being smeared all over everywhere in a black list post, however we will know via BC...
So just say no to NCNS
And not having reviews on TER seems odd. You don't have to participate to be reviewed. Not criticizing or questioning you, I'm saying that as a client, I might be spooked if I booked then realized you have no TER reviews.
Is your website down? Is your email full? If you're on a prepaid phone, are you out of data or minutes?
There's also the possibility something not-great is being said about you on the reviewers board.
That's too many to chalk up to bad dudes and forget, it would be worth your time to figure out what's going on.
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I have a friend in the business that's been able to vouch for me. She has tons of reviews and in fact, just got a new review for July. I guess you can say they used her as a reference and that's how I've been getting business. Also, I've been seeing quite a lot of TER members who claim they don't leave reviews anymore so it has not been my luck. One I did see, I'm still waiting on my review to post from him.
It happens to the gentlemen as well. But TER does not allow a review as a NCNS. It happens but not publically posted as to who the ladies are. I had a NCNS even after confirming an hour before the appointment, but can only post on the boards about it.