If a provider tells you in conversation that she's married, are you less likely to see her again? Or, does it matter to you at all?
What percentage of providers are married?? Less than 10%???

makes no difference..if it doesnt bother them..why should it bother me?..

Turnabout is fair play.  We might even understand one another better.  No issue with me.

actually I prefer it.  they're probably a little more stable the way.

If her being married ( or the fact that she has sex with one man more than others) bothers a hobbyist wonder what he really thinks of the 40+ who reviewed her too lol! ?

I would guess that over 90% in the hobby are married so why would it matter if she is.  

I would see a Provider MORE if I knew she were married!  Who doesn't get turned on by a sexy swinger wife? LOL

Don't want to die from lead poisoning

Agree  !!

if the hubby doesn't know she's doing it. Even if he does, it's weird and I'd be wondering when he was going to show up and beat the shit out of me.

Because we've never worried about YOUR SO's doing something to us- oh, we have never been threatened by one of your psycho women....like we need YOUR SOs to be 1500 miles away... Thanks for the laugh guys- you made my night!!!!

Yes, he was an excellent philosopher but was he a philanderer?

And this is where I tell the hobbyist im Single even though Im married.  Its none of the hobbyists buisness. My husband and I are swingers and he Moonlights as male escort. Still not anything that particular hobbyist needs to know.  Just like I really don't care that they have wives.  At that moment all that should matter are the two people about to share an intimateexperience.

Actually a very high majority of companions are either married or in a relationship and/or dating.
Regardless if we tell you or not.  
It's not like we're wanton women who do not have normal lives! LMAO
We all carry on just the same as anyone else does...with families, and partners and sometimes other jobs or careers too.

I would of never expect majority of the providers are in a relationship.... Idk if I could do this if I was steadily dating someone.... I would feel like I would be cheating on him...  That's me..., lol

Agreed - eom

And with a small penis no doubt.

It was shot off in a gun fight.

Yes, if I were married or dating (which I would never do whilst sucking strange d*ck for a living), he would in fact be below average in that dept.

I am the same way, and no man I would want to date would date an active provider. I would think he had a screw loose to do so, if he was not into the swinging/open relationship scene. I don't want to date a man into that type of shit, or I would have my pick of them right here.

So if a provider is married or in a relationship with another man or woman, so be it.  they have a great open relationship. good for them.
All of us others are too damn chickenshit to admit it.

and i'd love to see one of them,but I won't because of the s.o.(I think you have to be bat-shit crazy to have your wife do this and iam never gone take the chance iam going to be the one that he goes "postal"on.period.

I prefer un-married myself, prefer not committing adultery.

What we don't know can't hurt us. Well, yes it could but we'd still rather not know or it may affect our, umm, performance.

I imagine your cop hubby would have a small member and a big car, both of which are exactly what you want, LOL. Here little dickey...

She does have a big mouth!

you'll need pussy-expansion surgery or we'll have a very unhappy marriage

people ask me how did I learn doing this or that, sometimes I say, "Maybe being married three times taught me these things." I haven't been married for many years now and cannot imaging being one, while doing what I do. They say, chefs don't cook at home. Maybe this statement isn't true, but it would relate to me. The dynamics are different, also, I wouldn't want to deal with his jealousy and drama. Husbands and boyfriends can feel very insecure sometimes, competitive, and possessive. Some married ladies would keep a secret about what they do, but that comes with the guilt sooner or later. I think it's very unprofessional to initiate conversation with the client about your personal life (e.g. telling him you're in marriage or relationship with someone), unless he is asking.

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