I noticed that some providers like to keep the room as dark as possible.  They'll keep lights off and even shut the blinds.  Why do they do that?  Besides the fact that I'm ugly as hell.

I think but not sure, that being in a dark room and only have your hands to feel around makes it a lot more exciting.

Kinda like being blindfolded and not knowing when the next touch will come from.

It can be every stimulating

and pimps in closets My man....

Some natural light with a mix of darkness suits me best.  But whichever way the guest prefers it always works for me.  
My personal preference however is a mix of some natural light with room darkening shades or black paper to drown out some of the brightness that with candles lit. Great music and great lighting go a long way to setting the right tone and mood!

My current incall however is extremely bright as the windows don't have any room darkening shades or black paper to drown out the brightness like my past incall did.

Happy Thursday to all, Kendall  

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I personally like to have a little sunlight with the lights dim. Plus I like a little "Rat Pak" music in the background.

You know, that is a very real possibility.  Dang.

I've had pimps walk into the room before, but never thought they might be hiding in a closet somewhere during session, but that makes a lot of sense.

Great point.  Thanks.

Comedian Amy Schumer does a bit about turning the lights out during sex
Amy's boyfriend "Why do you turn the lights out Amy you have a beautiful body"
Amy "Awwww that's so cute...I turn the lights out so that I don't have to see you naked"

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I am not sure why you would need total darkness. I personally prefer that it isn't insanely bright for romantic ambiance, but sometimes during the early day appointments you can't really help it, unless you have black out curtains- and I don't. Sometimes in the evening, I do only have candles lit, but I usually leave at least the closet or bathroom light on, because I know then guys are visual creatures. And, I cannot see very well in complete blackness.

BUT- if you have had a pimp "walk in the room" maybe you are just seeing the wrong kind of girls. :-/

candlelight is sexy as hell...while being blindfolded can make other senses stronger...its all up to individual wants and needs.

If you want the lights on just ask handsome I'm happy to turn them all on to better enjoy the action....

Same here. Pitch black.... hell no. Supermarket lghts and a lamp bulb shining right in my fkin eyes whilst giving head? Again, hell no. There is nothing more off putting than bright lights right there... seriously. I am not signing up for a GYNO exam here... it's supposed to be comfortable. When I am able to drive, I love bringing those red or purple bulbs you get at Lowes and replacing the hotel lamps with those, but when I fly they always make me check a bag for that, so 86 on that. I always have real and fake candles to set the mood, either way. Finally, everyone looks flawless in candlelight... ok, almost everyone lol.

London on her occasional outcall.

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With regard to lights, hell I am a beast so I do not blame a provider for dimming the lights, just as long as I can see her assets and not fumble around and more than I normally do.  

One thing I hate, Hate, HATE is having the TV on.  I know some use the noise as cover for the sound of bumping and humping, but give me a break.

I hate Dr. Phil, Lifetime, Oprah, etc so if that crap is on I get frustrated.

ESPN, forget it, my focus is gone.

MSNBC, might cause room damage.

And so on.  

I always offer to bring my traveling sound bar and Ipad.......

Of course I like using dim lights and candle lights. I think I can say that 100% of the providers I have worked with have preferred working with low lights. Not only is it romantic but it's more flattering.  A big majority of clients prefer it as well.  Once in a while someone wants more lights and if someone wants a video I have LED lights in the garage that I can bring in for a professional level of lighting.

That being said, I always take a good look (and smell) of a penis before I do my thing.  I've noticed that not all men take the time to really take a look at me in good light.  

Even though we all need to take responsibility for our own safety in the hobby, I do feel that it is especially the responsibility of the provider to be familiar with the different STDs, what the signs and symptoms are, how to avoid them and how to treat them if someone is exposed.

These statistics might have changes, but a few years ago 1 out of 4 ladies and one out of 8 guys had herpes (simplex one or two I don't know).  It's suspected that more women have a contracted herpes because if you were men are willing to abstain from sex when they know they might be getting a lesion or have a lesion already.

It seems like we are all learning to speak up about what we like.  We might only have one hour to get to know each other. So, in order to have the best possible session we might say, "harder, softer, faster ,slower,", etc.   For the sake of our safety we should also learn to say,  "let me take a look at you before we turn the lights down.

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