Personally, I NEVER allow explicit talk to happen in emails before we have met.
For me, wanting to talk openly before meeting is a hue red flag.
Is she new? Or has she been around a while? A new girl, may not know any better. Or being new could signify that she is indeed a cop.
And if she has been around a while- does she have reviews?
If it was me, I'd stay away. And I'm not telling you what to do- ultimately it's your choice, but for me- I'd stay away. Maybe- if she has some reviews- try contacting them.
I was looking at TER Ads the othr day, and noticed that a lady included all the acronyms at the end of her ad, and part of me wanted to write her and tell her how bad of an idea that is, but- I didn't. You cant tell anyone else how to run their business, and if that is what works for her, more power to her. But I prefer to keep any of that kind of talk to the bedroom. I mean, we have it all on our TER profiles for that very purpose. Our "fantasy" reviews should give the gents more than enouh of an idea of whether or not we offer the services that they are looking for. Some people just don't get it. I for one, have never used that option to "Say what I enjoy in my ""oersonal life"" " because- I would much rather be safe than sorry.
If you watch the BP stings that they do on TV, they ALWAYS get the girl to admit to a sex act during the same conversation of money. And I really think, that if they weren't able to get you to talk about either, then they will probably leave you alone.
But, that is my 02$ for what it is worth.