Hello I am new  here.. I have been spending alot of time on Backpage looking for   a provider and then found TER.

i found a provider i like to meet. She only has 1 review, but it is a good review and i see her on BP as well.  
My help i need is:
How do i go about making 100% sure she isnt a sting? that is my main concern!

When i get there how do i proceed correctly without seeming newbie or making her think i am LE?

What do i bring when i go there..? should i park far away and keep my wallet and personal items hidden in my car and only bring the cash that was asked?

sorry for the newbie questions but i like to start this journey that seems to be fun!

right click on her ad's pictures, click copy image url, then copy and paste that into https://tineye.com/ and make sure you don't get any strange results (links to ads in other cities and names).

maybe you can post the link here and someone can walk you through verifying it?  I think a solid process is to get a confirmation of a provider on here with reviews, as well as either RS2k or P411.  Eros seems to be full of fakes these days...  Backpage even worse...

Or go with a girl with much more reviews if you are afraid it's a sting. Back when I was researching this,  I bookmarked new girls I liked until they got a good review history.

She came out clean on Tineye, pics only found where i found them.  
She has a good review on TER as of September.

I would assume she is safe to see??  
i prefer not to release who i am looking at yet.  
Also how can i be discreet  as i need to be... what are some tell tail signs it is LE when i call? and when can i back out if i am there before LE could trap .. sorry for the questions i love to see her , but being my first i dont want to risk anything

I find it easy to spot the fake backpage ads ...

I have a following on backpage, I don't post contact info nor do I post my picture. If they want to contact me they have to email me then I will send them the info.

If you guys are having a hard time spotting the fakes just email me and I can look into it. I am really pretty good at detecting the fakes.

start out by entering the shallow end of the pool first. By that I mean find a well-reviewed provider. BP is a minefield that is difficult to traverse, especially if you're inexperienced. As for making sure 100% she isn't a sting- nothing in life is 100% sure. And if its a sting, once you walk in the room, regardless of anything said or not said, money exchanged or not, you're busted. Also you should consider that she doesn't have to be part of an le sting for you to find yourself in a world of problems. You could find yourself being scammed/ ripped off, or even worse being physically threatened if a pimp or boyfriend is involved. My $0.02 is to get verified on RS2K and utilize TER's search features for established ladies and also be discerning when reading reviews.

If she is LE, and you show up, you're pretty much fucked (and no, not in the good way). By just showing up, you're demonstrating intent to commit a crime. The only thing you can do to avoid getting busted is to do your homework ahead of time. Nothing is really foolproof, but I'd certainly avoid anything that seems like it's too good to be true, and DEFINITELY avoid anyone who doesn't screen.  

Statistically speaking, she's probably not LE. You're much more likely to get a bait & switch or a scam, but you probably don't want that either. Listen to the guys here, they know their shit.  

You're new as well.

BP  has been a thorn in the side for a while.

There are some legit ladies and some are reviewed,
But who are you to them or this community.

Your best bet is to go to the sites and get verified yourself.  
Like rs2k, p411,
And review a few ladies, get some whitelist recommendations, then you'll have some credibility and so will the ladies you see.

Plus you, the ladies, and this community remain safe.

Good luck.

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Said this before, you remind me of another provider who graces us with her presence on rare occasions. I can't imagine who though, maybe you know....