Re: Move on, time waster. Plus 1 million X!!

Time wasters are the worst.

Not to mention, paid for the hotel room.

Some pay more than others, and also pay for parking. (I drive everywhere. That's 50-60 bucks a pop.)

Sure, there's some risk in financial loss in any job, but after a while you start to pinpoint people who will increase the bottom line, and completely ditch the ones who decrease it.

The time management is an issue here as well. How much time did she put into rolling out the red carpet for someone who cancels a first date and cost her money, when she could have been tossing hooks out for new clients.  

Hotel, parking, maybe a special accommodation or outfit - drinks, whatever - could have cost her up to $300. That's front and center ad on Eros - which attracts more clients.  

Anyway, she probably just doesn't want to deal with it, and i shutting you out. You also may be blocked and going straight to her trash folder, so honestly she might not even see your emails - and probably just wants to move on.

I got canceled on today.

I saved $400
But seriously, this cancellation cost another escort $$$  
There were several other ladies that I was considering and would have booked someone.

I do want to mention that some of us get a little sweaty in the palms when someone can't let go of and get past the idea of not seeing them, to the point of obsession. The need to make it right and not letting go is a bad sign, especially if you've never met. I know you personally probably aren't a psycho, but there are we've all had those people who have that tendency to want every mistake ironed out, and have to be seen in a positive light to the point of constant obsessive emails. They end up being a lot of work, or worse, like you never know when you're going to step on a landmine.

Just-having to see the lady seems like a control issue. In this business, (or anywhere,) that's a bad thing.  

You know what kind of a person you are - and that you actually aren't out to cost anyone money, but honestly? When a mistake happens, some people are going to get upset and move on to the best they see fit - and there's nothing you can do about it. You can't make other people's decisions for them. Everybody else doesn't have to know you meant well.

I'd just let it go and find someone else to spoil and make happy. Find someone you like equally and offer a deposit (if they're reputable, of course.) There really is nothing you can do about it.  

Holding the club too tightly is going to mess up your game. Loosen your grip or you're just going to make it worse. Sometimes, you don't get mulligans, and you just have to deal with dropping another ball by the pond, and trying again.

xoxo

C

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