In the interest of actually having discussion topics I have something.  I am a big lover of anal.  And though i have been playing for decades I am always torn when working with agencies and independents as to how and if to ask.  I know better than to discuss specific services of course but are code words like does she like to travel.  Does she enjoy greek are right on the edge.  Asking if they are PSE means different things to different people and does not always mean anal.  And sometimes I will ask does anybody else have some of the same interests as xxxxx.  Some sites will say things like she is a traveler.  Others say nothing.  I know I can go to reviews to see but just curious where others are on that.  I hate to burn an agency or an independent because I asked an improper question.  Thoughts?

I would think if you asked whether the provider spoke Greek that would convey the message and still be on the safe side.

Not to jump in like this is an ad board or something but I offer it! It isn't something I list on my website directly, in the interest of discretion, but it is something I offer and am personally not opposed to being asked about in the booking process ("is greek a possibility?" is fine!). Everyone's different though, and it isn't a service that has always been offered by me in the past.