Just curious about what a provider's thoughts are regarding clients bringing "toys" to an appointment to be shared with her? I read reviews occasionally that mention the client bringing a toy with them to their appointment. As a provider, do you want to know prior to the appointment if a client would like to bring a toy, or is prior notice not important? Also, should the toy be brand new in an unopened package/box, or is that not necessary? Appreciate the feedback!

In my opinion, mentioning toys falls into the category of "explicit conversation" which is a big no-no in my book.  So I'd prefer you just bring it without telling me beforehand.  

Thanks for the insight Debra!

If you want to bring something specific for me to use on you, by all means please bring it.  If you're wanting to bring a toy to use on me, though? I'd ask beforehand, for one reason alone.  

I had a client attempt to use a toy on me that he admitted to using on porn stars and providers tons of times and he was pretty determined in trying to touch me with it and disappointed when I said no way. It not only ruined our time but he really didn't get why it wasn't appropriate. I was out of there. If you are going to bring a toy, it really should be brand new. But if your the kind of person who is ok with an unknown object being used on your body then this may not apply to you.  

As long as its brand new and unopened then yes, please bring toys. toys are fun I always bring a wide selection of toys with me as well.

But like others have said, if it's not new (in the box, unopened), I'll wanna wash and cover it before use. Also, I detest Jelly! It's the worst, super porous and pretty much impossible to clean. Also if the box just doesn't list what it's made out of, it's coming nowhere near me! It's a pet peeve of mine that items marketed as novelty don't actually have to list what their made out off. *uuuugh*
Silicon, glass and steel are my fav's though.

especially if there are more then just 1.  New toys preferred, they all get washed and covered before use sealed or not just so nothing cray is introduced to you or me.  If the toys are for you that ia also nice too know since some play is headed in a more PSE type direction and no longer parley's in the GFE realm.  

If you are not able to bring a toy sealed in a box... I am happy to take it to the sink, wash it with antibacterial soap, slap a condom (or a rubber glove if the condom is too small ) on that baby and we are ready to go!  

Thank you ladies for the "toy education". You're the best!!

Bring a new toy as a gift! If she doesn't want to use it, oh well. Now you know. The lady most likely will, if it is not something very odd...lol. If you really fancy a particular toy, get it new. We like vibrating things! Don't discuss it with me beforehand as that falls under the no go category.

So funny, I was just talking with a close friend about sex toys and clients. Thinking that less clients are interested in sex toys than those who are interested. It's hard to imagine anyone who doesn't love sex toys!  

You can almost always put a condom on it, too. For the Hitachi, for example. It barely fits, but it's safe.