What is the art of the BJ?

I prefer a slow sensual experience.   Let me know she is enjoying giving as  much as I am enjoying receiving.   It is part of my enjoyment that she enjoys the activity too.  Is this even available anymore?

The porn super speed performance leaves me wondering if she just wants to get through the activity.    I do understand there are situations where activities evolve to this (both of us really worked up), but to start out that way always gave me pause.

I say gave because as I have gotten older, sensual experiences are more important than wham bam porn activity.

This is my thing! I do visit!

I have a great deal of trouble finishing with a rapid head bobber.  

Same thoughts enter my mind, is she in a hurry to get it over with?

Then I think she must be getting tired if it takes me long.....

Then the vicious cycle begins until I cannot complete.  

I have yet to meet a woman who wants me to lap at her clit like a rabid dog.  It's all about building up to the moment.

Vlada asked what I needed to finish a 2 nd time. I told her a slow, soft BBBJ which she performed to perfection.

When will you be in Chicago area?