Do you? Should worry about yourself and your service and not everybody else.

We know you are new, trying to drum up business..follow the rules post your services on the Ad Board..
Then these dumb questions can be posted on the ladies board

Confused by the hostile responses

I interpreted her question as an attempt to engage providers AND hobbyists in a convo about BBBJ. I don't think she was trying to intrude on anyone else's business or services as Ed suggested...

I also didn't think it was an AD since she didn't mention anything about herself providing the service as J suggested.

Is it because of the explicit nature of the question that it goes on the Providers Only board @apropo? I feel like I've seen discussions about stuff like this in the past.

This is not a combative post. I am genuinely confused because I didn't see anything wrong with the post.

hmmmmmm

The question is more or less private and varies upon the provider providing the "entertainment".
I would perceive that most providers would feel offended by the question , simply because its like their secret or niche.Some do it ,some dont.Some clients have it as a preference , some dont.All in all its your body ,its your business.So its best to use discretion in regards to if it is something that you are comfortable with providing to the client.
I hope this helps,good luck!

Milli, please don't be discouraged by the somewhat hostile reception. We have to remember that you are new to this community. There are things to be learned and some of the unwritten culture tmo be absorbed.

Place your ads on the ad board, and please continue to participate in the discussions. In time, you'll be a well reviewed regular. I hope you'll attend some Meet&Greets in the future. You missed a great one last night.