Moderators commonly have to deal with all sorts of bad people, and I’m no different. A few months ago, I found it necessary to moderate a longtime Chicago provider. She was moderated for being disrespectful to me in PMs, as well as being disruptive in an ad thread for a provider from out of town, who wanted no part of her input.  Five days into a 7 day moderation period, I received a PM from this provider that stated she would tell Admin that a review I had written, of a session I had with her previously, was fake. Without reply to her, I forwarded this PM directly to Admin. As expected, this provider then started her campaign against me. It continues to this day, as she frequently complains about me to Admin, and also to my board partner Funtimes61. I have been stewing about this for a long time, and anyone who knows me…knows that isn’t good for the person sticking it to me. I’m definitely not the type to lay down and take it, as this post will now illustrate.

The most recent incident of this provider causing trouble, was one in which a banned provider, had been told by this “pain in my ass”(referred to as “troublemaker” in future sentences), that she had received word from me about the banned provider causing her trouble on the boards. The fact of the matter is.. I wouldn’t help this troublemaker provider out of any situation at all! Information passed to this troublemaker did not come from me, and that can be confirmed by Admin. Hopefully the banned provider is lurking and reads this post, as she is being played for a fool by the troublemaker. Like I said…Admin can confirm this.

Now I have been accused of all sorts of things since I became a moderator earlier this year, but the most ridiculous things pertain to my being some sort of a favor trader. The kind of guy who trades sex for favors on this very board. Providers have little trouble putting up their ads, and getting their freak on, without any help or say-so from moderators. That’s how the world really works, but some would have you believe otherwise. Don’t be deceived! Due to an injury I sustained a few years ago, and subsequent surgery, I can barely get out of bed in the morning on my GOOD days! On bad days I can’t get up til late in the afternoon. So the accusation of sex for trade is bizarre, ludicrous…and even funny to those who have seen me at my home just trying to get from place to place. I have hobbied exactly TWICE since New Years, and I paid the full rate each time. I just haven’t felt up to the challenge.

This post is slightly embarrassing to write, as you can imagine, but I’m not going to let this troublemaker provider slander me anymore. I am serving notice right here, in this open letter to her, that I will not keep her identity a secret if she persists further. She had better start acting like an adult, and a productive member of this community. She might find out just how much she is disliked if she continues on her bitter quest to slander me. I used to like this troublemaker, as she can be quite charming when she wants to be, but I’ll never fall for her bs again. I will treat her fairly on the board as that is my job. I respect the duty I was appointed to, and I will continue to be fair to everyone. I like this community and have quite a few friends here.  I apologize to those not directly involved for airing all of this, but slander must be dealt with publically.

Have a great weekend

ps...apologies to Oscar Wilde for plagerizing that subject line