And the main reason is that the issue of trust is paramount in this scene. You could find a Mistress that way..but you would be really hard pressed to find a sub that way (at least using the TER search engine). And in many cases, that type of a review may very well not exist (as those ladies who would have an interest may/may not want this info out there) for a gal who has done, or does offer this type of service (at least in my experiences thus far).
I'm a 70 year old guy with some physical problems and some mild kinks... Looking for a busty provider, blonde or redhead pref, light sub near north, no suburban ladies....this is my first time on the board..and I haven't a clue..
Since your are new to the board, i would like to point out the "Review" section of the website. Of course you will need to join to access, but, once you do, you will find a powerful tool to help you in your search.
Posted By: godofredus666
I'm a 70 year old guy with some physical problems and some mild kinks... Looking for a busty provider, blonde or redhead pref, light sub near north, no suburban ladies....this is my first time on the board..and I haven't a clue..
You're certainly right that everyone should check out the reviews section. But as you no doubt know, there are a lot of ladies reviewed. MANY list S&M being offered when in reality there is no mention of this in any reviews and the reviewers clearly have no idea if that's actually true. Even if he gets a premium membership, there is no way I am aware of to search for a kinky AND submissive provider. Just searching the reviews is going to be a bit like looking for the proverbial needle in a haystack for this gentleman.
Like the OP, I'd personally love some suggestions in this area. I'm fully aware of BebeDoll's reputation, but unfortunately the last time I checked she was a bit out of my league price-wise.
While many of the local ladies do not advertise or promote "kinky" activities, nor will many of the reviews indicate that this is an option as well. But it certainly does not hurt to inquire from a gal if she would indulge your requests.
There are quite a few local gals that are more than interested in fulfilling those types of requests. But as I said earler...it isn't publicized at all.
OK - Bebe Doll replied to me....have you seen her? She is pricey but everybody seems to think she is worth it. Anyhow, I am restricted in my commuting distance to lake front, near north, maybe as far west as Kedzie or so.... Every time I get out to Ohare I get lost or screw up otherways.
The other problem is that I usually have time only on weekday afternoons.
And the third thing is, as I said, I'm 70, and I really can't get it up much...so BBBJ and super HJ are really welcome...full service is sometimes more than I need...
With this in mind, any suggestions would be welcome.
Go into your search parameters....plug in age/height/race/ts (y or n) sex YES, then when you get to the s/m part select heavy.....
GENERALLY speaking you will need to do some reading.....but a great start is if the lady does NOT have a Mistress/Goddess next to her name...READ a few of her reviews.....generally there will be some indication (be it ever so slight) that she might be willing to bottom for you....
HOWEVER please keep in mind....for the ladies who are NOT well versed pro subs....and hell even for the ones who are.....it is a huge trust issue....VERY few ladies are going to allow anything too outrageous on an initial meeting.
BeBe would be perfect for you, and her prices are reflective of her professionalism, her rep, and her OUTSTANDING reviews.....please Sir remember you get what you pay for.....you probably WILL NOT find anyone who is as kinky, almost as kinky, or anywhere close to her level without forking over some serious cash. You are asking a provider to do a whole lot of specialized services for a very small fee.
I can't vouch for the thread starter, but I'm familiar with the search tools. You're correct that it's not impossible to ferret some of this information out, it's just not very easy. Very few reviewers write about BDSM. So the implication that if the OP just used the search function he'd be able to find what he was looking for was off a bit IMO.
Regarding your point of trust being a huge issue with any lady who enjoys adding a bit of submissive kink to a session, you are of course 110% correct. And in no way was I suggesting BeBe was not worth whatever she chooses to charge for time spent with her. She's clearly a legend, and what she provides seems to be unique. It just unfortunately is a bit more than I personally am comfortable spending, so I have to look for other options.
And the main reason is that the issue of trust is paramount in this scene. You could find a Mistress that way..but you would be really hard pressed to find a sub that way (at least using the TER search engine). And in many cases, that type of a review may very well not exist (as those ladies who would have an interest may/may not want this info out there) for a gal who has done, or does offer this type of service (at least in my experiences thus far).
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