Thanks, Baby, and the rest of you that support me and have written e-mails expressing same.
You guys should contact me personally instead of posting this on the boards. First, you aren't finding how from me the situations where I make exceptions to my policy. I would NEVER post that on a board or on my site and risk getting busted or robbed. THREE girls were robbed last month in New York City -- see TBD New York City board about two weeks back and a post by Shivana -- guy goes to room, then says he's a cop, handcuffs them and searches the room and steals all their money. Luckily it wasn't like the guy in San Francisco about a year ago who tied up the girl, beat her up and then robbed her. It is VERY dangerous to accept cash when you're traveling (which I never do but I do have other ways that I sometimes allow reputable, verified clients to use). I also give really nice discounts to people that contact me via my e-mail address and express a desire to see me when I visit. Also naughty pictures that are totally improper for these nice boards!
And of course I would refund any money if I couldn't make a trip. I refund money if someone isn't happy with me. (I have not clicked in the past with three clients and offered them their money back. One took it (BG) but the other two insisted it was great and no way.) How in the world do you think I have such a good reputation and good reviews? All I would have to do is screw (well, I do that all the time!!!!) one guy and I would be out of here.
But, seriously, the prepay benefits the guys as well -- (this is long, so bear with me) -- this is what guys have told me (of course, everyone is a little scared at first to send all that money in advance but, I guarantee you, I keep in contact with them via e-mail and do everything to assuage their pangs and then, when I see them, I assuage other pangs -- 1) didn't have to worry about getting cash right before meeting me, particularly if they are cumming at lunchtime or right after work (2) didn't have to worry about getting robbed themselves by someone on their way to see me (3) didn't have to worry about losing the money (4) didn't have to worry about their wife/girlfriend/child seeing the money that they got the day before so they could cum directly from work and then the wife demanding wanting an explanation.....the list goes on and on -- oh, and that it was more like going to visit a girlfriend psychologically because you didn't have to worry about that.....and they didn't have to worry about my being a cop and setting them up.
I know this is asking a lot but I do always get it and I always get booked. I have already had a number of guys in Chicago write and say that they wanted to see me and that prepay was not a problem so I will be planning a trip there very soon. For me, the reasons for prepay are immense (1) I get all the money to pay for my travel expenses in advance (2) I cannot get robbed while I travel (I even get prepay at home as well, though, as the guys all like it once they do it) (3) no money changes hands (4) I never get cancellations -- BG. Because I limit the number of clients I see each day to ensure I'm eager for YOU, if I lose one appointment, it can make a trip not really worth it for me. Additionally, I don't guarantee this, but I often will not take any other appointments if the first one booked on a day is at least a four-hour date. That way, when I'm visiting, it gives me time to go sightseeing and enjoy the city instead of just staying a same-old hotel room. And sometimes I spend the day "getting pretty" for my date that evening. So if I lost that one appointment, I certainly would have a serious problem.
In the past, I did refund deposits if someone had to cancel but then realized, what is the point of the deposit? It is not a fishing expedition to reserve my time "in case you want to see me when I get there." I got so many lame excuses and downright lies that I had to change that policy. Guys that cancel out on providers are the ones that you guys should be furious with -- and providers who are not honest and steal your money. It's unfair to us, the ladies who are honest and aboveboard and do everything to make our clients happy and maintain a good reputation. For a long time, I also allowed 1/2 the amount for a deposit but most guys just wanted to send the entire amount and be done with it and, after reading all the horror stories on the boards about girls getting robbed, I have reconsidered and I get the entire amount now. Now if you don't want to do this, I don't really see why it's necessary to tell the world. If the point is to try to discourage other people from seeing me, I guess that might be a way to do so but I really don't see any other point to it. My post did NOT ask for people to respond to me on here. It asked for you guys to contact me via e-mail.
Again, I will be visiting Chicago probably in May and I will post that as soon as I get those dates confirmed. Is the weather nice then? What is the best area to stay in for "this"? (Please contact me via e-mail with the answers as I rarely read the boards or post -- someone told me about this thread and the negatism.)
Love, Me