It is due to the flu season...   It will pass...  Things will return to normal soon...

change?

not for the vets..these newbies like it bland and cold..i like mine hot and juicy..

For me, if no DFK, then no visit. It's that simple.

DFK and BBBJ (and at least CIM)  is a must or I'm not interested. NQNS is the ultimate.

dfk and bbbj are a must.  i am more than happy to also daty - what's good for the goose, etc etc

Which to me means a BBBJ and some level of kissing.  I'm not paying standard market rates for a CBJ, regardless of other services offered.  For a lower priced, non-GFE session I may accept CBJ, but lately I've been playing above that level.  DFK is not necessary, but I do expect the provider to kiss me and not act like she's disgusted by it.  Actually soft sensual kissing and LFK is more preferred over DFK.

I get gfe at home.

I just hobby to escape a little bit and get a little bit of variety not particularly for the sex. Im also pretty happy with my actual relationship and dont want to jeopardize it so for me I like bringing any risk variable down as much as possible.

I used to get bbbj but then for a week or month later I would be full of worry wondering what if this what if that and it ruined the experience a little bit .

I have now recently  started to request cbj just for my own peace of mind .even though catching anything oral wise is considered low risk in the absence of sores or lesions I simply dont want that risk running around my head getting my anxiety up.

So for me the thrill comes from meeting someone new who I find hot and spending an hour away from the daily grind. cbj will do the trick for me.  I guess its just more of the experience and excitement then the act itself.... I get off by the thrill of the meet I guess.  May sound odd but thats just how I am.

Simply said, it is worse than no BJ at all.