Hi Chicagoans! I'm just curious to know from men and woman, how true is it that there is a direct correlation between weight of a provider and the number of dates she gets.

I'm not quite a lesbian, but I'm not at all attracted to the stick thin type of woman. Maybe my ebony heritage has something to do with that, but I'm really curious to know how strong of an impact this is. Guys, don't you like to see a little giggle or have something to soften the crash after you pass out from cumming?

Basically, I'm trying to determine if eliminating french fries is enough....or if I should eliminate everything except whole grains, green veggies and fish lol.

Hope everyone had a good weekend Please don't send darts in your responses! I'm really just curious to know how much it matters or not.

Protein, fruits & veggies ONLY and walk briskly
3.5 miles for an hour faithfully every day, drink water or crystal light at least 96 oz. and whenever you start to feel hungry, try for 30 days starting tomorrow  and You will lose LBS,

I lost 84lbs sticking to this program for 11 months, regained only 4 lbs , when I had to
decrease walking to 3days a week due to a knee injury

Good luck !!!

All things equal I imagine a woman who is size 6 will be able to charge more and get more dates than a woman who is size 22.

Speaking for myself I prefer women somewhere between size 8-14.  Everyone is different though.  I wouldn't recommend you losing weight for the sake of getting more dates.  Plenty of men should find you attractive.

Obviously, this is all dependent upon personal preference.  

My preference:  Not BBW but not stick thin either... A little jiggle is a lot of fun in my book.  And from my experience, unnaturally endowed does not jiggle, so I'm an all natural kind of guy...

There are guys attracted to all different body types from thin to obese.  If you are comfortable with you body and you market yourself right you shouldn't have any trouble getting clients.  If you are genuine, clean, attentive and provide memorable experiences you will keep them coming back.  Personally I like some womanly curves and based on your pictures think you look great.  Eating healthier will definitely make you feel better overall.  As for losing weight, thats a personal choice, and should be done only if you are not comfortable with your current body.

Heed Seekers advice, its well taken...besides I saw your pics...if they are anywhere near accurate...Well, weight's not your problem...certainly not from my perspective anyway...lack of your own website...and an absence of reviews...seem to be more important issues...

Look at the reviews, not everyone is enamored with the spinner type. Big girls need and GET LOVE TOO..

For me, I'm not a fan of stick skinny or BBW. But everything in-between catches my eye.

If you want more dates, run an occasional special. That might get someone who likes your pics to pick up the phone.

You look awesome don't worry about it. A sexy naughty attitude and a genuine smile is more important!

I have seen your pictures and unless they are all false, you are anything but an overweight lady. I am sure you have never had anything but compliments from the men who have seen you in person.

When you have had enough reviews, the calls will keep coming. Heck, I thought your pictures were hot enough to give you info I haven't given out in a couple years.

The bottom line is are you sexy. There are many very thin women that just aren't sexy. Since I have seen your pictures and still think you are thin, I would also state that your sex appeal comes through the pictures. In this business, sexy is what we are looking for.

Haven't read the responses yet, but judging by the pm's I received, I've been insulted and now look like the insecure girl. Come on now! Is Chicago in high school?

Really, my thoughts were that Chicago has little to nothing except advertisements and I was HOPING this would turn into lively conversation. especially since Monday is a huge advertising day.

I want to get to know everyone and talking about weight is a sure way to spark conversation since weight loss is a huge craze in America.

I'm low volume and always will be, so I'm fine where I'm at (in terms of attracting dates). now my own personal goal is to lose 10lbs. That's been my goal for years lol!!!!

I'm not really concerned about number of dates yet. I manage well, especially now that I have one review. After all, this is a "word of mouth" business. Just wanted to spark the interesting conversation I enjoy on the general board.

There was MUCH less drama in HS

I was pre-warned that this isn't the best place to have discussion. I'm a hard head though and I still have faith!  I'm new, but soon enough everyone will be able to sense when I'm speaking in general rather than literally.

I.e. me being chewed out for asking about 2hr dates. Yikes! Lol. Wasn't asking for them, was asking how often they occur....but I got cyber spanked. It's funny looking back on it!

jordan,

well i appreciate your effort!  keep up the cheery disposition!

ciao ciao for now

If you want discussions in generality list your question in generality. When you infuse yourself in the discussion, responses will be to you.

and cyber spanking is no fun. Now come here and get the real thing...

When you find a good place to have a discussion, let me know. I really miss train-wreck Tuesday...

I read your initial post, then like others have noted above, I looked at your photos and came away with scalded eyeballs. You're hot, hot, hot.

Now, it seems you aren't following the discussion you started; instead, you are responding to IM's that we haven't a clue about and that have you pissed off. That's not good, because what we've read above, is people saying wonderful things about you. Your chastisement seems out of place, you see.