... who felt like a failure if they got a B?  

 
(I was, kinda, so I can relate.)

 
I just clicked over to have a quick look at your reviews. That's Chemistry 4.35 out of 5, young lady, and Location 3.85, i.e. just a shade under 4. *And* overall rating of 8:42. *And* reviews that consistently say things like "Will repeat" and "This is one hell of a sexy woman. Don't miss her."

 
I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you, but clearly you aren't doing too shabbily. A lot of clients and providers have expressed dissatisfaction with TER's rating system, and speaking personally, I don't even pay too much attention to the numbers; the review itself is what gives me a sense of what an encounter with a provider might be like.

 
Looks to me as if you are very far from "kinda sad." As I sometimes say to my kids (and sometimes to myself), don't overthink these things.