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Why give them your Ter handle?
Axxel 15 Reviews 1051 reads
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I just don't get its, why do you guys give girls your ter handle?  What good can come of it?  The only way I see it would benefit you is if you are a suck ass and give every girl a 10/10 and they know they can just show up and get that from you.  Ive seen dozens of tales of woe over giving girls your handle and no stories I can remember where it benefited the hobbiest at all.    When I wrote reviews I always waited a length of time before writing a review and tried  my best to keep them from identifying me from the review.

I've been one of the guys that out of ignorance, has given it up.  Boy did it come back an haunt me.  But you guys seem to forget that all of us, (ME), are not as knowledgeable about the proper procedures that can help us.  So, if you got a better way, than share it, and also, pretend I'm a 6 year old and talk slowly to me.

Just send them your verification info w/o including your handle name.  How hard can that be?!?

...if a client is skittish about verification but has been white-listed by other providers that I can contact. I honestly don't read the reviews that clients gave written beforehand. I deliver the same level of service regardless of the client's past reviews.

I so agree!! Some Hobbyists are very skittish and it makes us nervous. I do not look at the reviews. Just make sure they are legit.

Love,
Zana

Posted By: MissErinBlack
...if a client is skittish about verification but has been white-listed by other providers that I can contact. I honestly don't read the reviews that clients gave written beforehand. I deliver the same level of service regardless of the client's past reviews.

.......I posted on a regional board asking if any ladies were avail, setting forth my preferences, and fully admitting that I was busy and traveling, etc etc

I got a pm from a provider saying that I shouldn't see anyone there because I review too low.

it is amazing how much bullshit one puts up with just to get laid!

To be: screened, also so I can get an idea of what you like and are into so your session is custom made and not a template experience. Also to see if we would get on well since many of you can't be bothered to read our websites even if the gal, like me, keeps it to a three sentence paragraph.
For instance someone asked me for a session, I read his reviews and saw that he was ALL about the anal.
I lean in the polar opposite direction. He would have wasted his money and my time. Then I get a bad review because you're a tard? NO THANKS :D If all your reviews are suck ass mean, guess what? The problem is you and I don't want to be bothered.

 

Or not to be :If you are such a scum bag fucktard creepo  that you can't claim your ter persona than yup, glad I didn't see you and never will. Eeew. just fucking eew. All the talk about going this route because you don't need drama then this bitch made shit about sneaking around and and keeping her from knowing your handle… You're already in a us vs them mentality. I don't nee that immature low key misogynistic shit envelope be damned.  

This isn't every girl you wanted to fuck in high school against every unibrowed nerd who never got any. This is (or should be) two respectful adults who decide to spend a little time between the sheets (or on top…heynow) Seems some of you here are more concerned about bros than hoes.  

"I wait and try not be identified in my review?" (paraphrasing)  

Why bro? Pull your skirt down your man clit is exposed.

Wait I see…nothing above a 7 since 2009!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Holy shit. Sure it has nothing to do with that sneaky weirdo personality you have on display right now. EEEEEwwwwwdryinnnnthepusssyyyuuuuuup.

No soup for any of you.

-- Modified on 3/15/2014 12:15:11 PM

Oh my god Sophia that was awesome!

And guys, I'm kinda in her camp on this.

Thanks for the wake up call. I'll probably be requesting those when I go to NYC next week. One I particularly want to steer clear of. ;)

A 2yr old would be easier to deal with, than this immature/time wasting/Moron!!.

You research US, we reasearch YOU!!....Plain, and simple!....Fair is fair!.

Still LAUGHING..........................

Kayla K.

HAHA!  I love the attitude and I got a great laugh out of your post, but if I can just present a more reasonable "or not to be" reply it would go something like this...... and this is coming from someone who shares my TER handle if requested........

1) It's not to avoid BSC girls as some have stated in the past. While I'm sure they exist (I have yet to encounter), keeping most information private is just an extra way of keeping safe in the hobby. I'm sure you would balk at the request of writing down your yelp user name before visiting a restaurant.

2) It's not that we don't trust you, but it's just a game of odds that something might happen to the (confidential) information we provide. How secure is your e-mail? Do you keep the "save my password" checked on your laptop? How do you store my name in your phone? If a site hacked or if a provider laptop is stolen, now I have my full name linked with my TER handle with detailed reviews that might be shared with the world.

I can keep writing. For example, peer pressure when writing reviews is very real. But I just wanted to present those two points. It's not an "us vs them" mentality. It's not about hiding behind a TER handle and posting sub-standard scores. For me, it's just about limiting the amount of information that will be floating in the world forever. If it can be avoided, sharing less is always the safest route. If the service suffers a little because the provider doesn't know a few of my kinks and preferences, so be it. The most important thing for most of us is remaining anonymous. Please don't take it as a offense.

If a client says he is a member of TER and they are using that as a reference then they NEED to PM our agency from that TER handle in order to get verified.

There was a few people in LA that said they had TER references and were quoting TER handles....this was a scam and some ladies we know got ripped off

So using your TER handle to verify that you are in fact a good TER client and in good standing is important

DollyHaze381 reads

Then you probably shouldn't use TER as a screening method!

After 8 years here, this is my only screening method.

I give mine out and many of my "dates" have used them to see what I like, I have had some real mind blowing times because I did. I researched them so turnabout is fair play...  

Sorry if anyone disagrees but... works for me

I agree with you srs.  I have has a few ladies that have read my reviews beforehand and have used them to help identify what I like and don't like.  This has always paid off for both me and the provider.

puzzling indeed besides most girls do not take whitelists and still require all other info

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