Again, choose wisely on where you are hosting, where the apartment is in vicinity to other apartments, etc.
So let's talk money. If you have an incall, and aren't getting hotels last minute, you are able to budget and plan way better with no surprises. Seriously, life is so much easier that way. And as Erin said, having all your supplies and decorations in one place saves so much time in transportation to hotel, parking, packing and carrying your stuff, running out to buy something you forgot at more expensive rates, (I have to do that all the time lol,) no forgotten make up bags or blow dryers, No check in, check out, no asking where the ice machine is, etc etc.
It really is so much nicer. And yeah, you can personalize it and own it. Create your own little seductive personality that surrounds you and him. Music, lighting all set up, a little bar, all your candles...
Ok now I'm fantasizing lol
xoxo