The Truth Is People Want To Hear The Dirt
And hear about other peoples experiences and fantasies anything less just does not have the same impact.

Although it does seem odd to share such intimate details of the encounter I feel that it important to provide some level of detail so other hobbyists can see what the provider has to offer and determine if they wish to see her.  If the details are to vague it may be difficult to make such a decision on the provider.

I've had similar thoughts. But I write truth and stream of conscious. I actually sent my last review to the girl before posting to see if she thought there was anything I should remove. Nope, well uncensored detail it is.

You do not have to be graphic. In fact just as the men read the reviews, the women also read the reviews. I read a gentlemen reviews now to determine, what is the highest score he gives to the girls he sees, does he explain graphically where it need not be described, is he respectful in how he writes the reviews.

I have turned down guys since I stopped offering half hour sessions to determine if they will be fair, in what they write.

The more you write the more you put yourself out their to possibly not see a provider you really want to see.  

I evaluate each guy based on what they have written. I am more likely to see a guy who doesn't review or write reviews than see one who does.

This is my take... many have disagreed with me before... it wont be the last time....

i love the juicy details..i read such an erotic and well written review the other day..it made me want to see that particular provider..that in a nutshell..is what TER is all about..explicit and juicy reviews that help the client make up his mind on whether or not to see a particular lady..

I do like that you include a more complete description of the whole experience-ie, the setting, her personality, etc, etc. The rest can be written as a general gloss over without the intense detail, if you prefer. Many, if not most of my own reviews are written in that matter, and I prefer it.

As for those always yelling about "giving back to the community," or demanding graphic detail, well, there's a hell of a lot of boys out there looking for free wank material. If you would like to help a new lady out (one who has none, or less than 10-20 reviews), then sure, I suppose I can see the value. Beyond that, how many reviews in a month are really necessary for a woman? Your most recent visit had 4 other reviews in the same month alone. Where do we move from "giving back" to sheer silliness? And then there's this whole "community" BS to deal with-do you experience Yelpers or Open Table users getting up your butt about "giving back to the community"? When you visit a restaurant whose reviews you glanced at prior, do you feel like you're a part of a "community" that you need to participate in by sharing your meal with the world? If they do a good job, would you give back by way of a review...or a tip?  

The straight dope-just as in any other venue, your level of participation in this venue is entirely at your discretion-this ranges from how you research, the type of lady you see, your preferred encounter, to how you handle the aftermath. Men are always going on about "personal preference" with regards to shapes and colors, but get absurdly bent out of shape with regards to review stats. In truth, most men don't review, and that's honestly ok with the majority of women (and since I assume you're planning on spending time with the ladies of the forum and not the gentlemen, that's the group who matters ). In fact, there's even quite a few gentlemen who don't even know of TER. Finally, For the claims that reviews boost business-my last review was way back in January of this year, and then July '12 prior to that, and I assure you that I do just fine.

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I can for sure see both sides of the story on this one.  I enjoy writing erotica, and have shared some with a provider I have a very tight (stop thinking dirty) trust with.  My rule of thumb is this.  I will write a review if:

The provider has a limited amount and is building a client base.
The provider requests I give one.
The provider absolutely blows ( you are thinking dirty again) my socks off.  

I will provide general details and my own feelings during the encounter.  After reading this thread I am going to change my style a bit, refrain from descriptions like "I could feel the walls of her love tunnel throbbing against my member", to " we engaged in multiple positions resulting in a fantastic orgasm".  I am also going to include the disclaimer YMV.

What I think is ridiculous are the reviews in which a client claims to orgasm 3 or 4 times in an hour.  Give me a break.  I recently read a work of fiction in which the provider was with the client for a 12 hour session and the guy came at least 7 to 8 times.  A review like this looses all credibility.  

When I read a review the most important things to me are:

Logistics for verification and meeting.

Quality of the in-call location.

Level of ease the provider gives to set "the mood".

The sex Olympic stuff, not so much.  

Just my two cents.

So … the issue is raised.

When aeropro is sure where he's going to come out on this one, no doubt we will hear something definitive.

Meanwhile, my hunch is that the comments of littlecheddar53 and macdaddy1944, each in their own way, capture the thinking of most of the customer base here.  People want to know what they are likely to, um, get into.

Aside from that, the purpose —and the utility— of TER reviews is … what?

YOURE RIGHT. I BELIEVE REVIEWS should be that explicit.

Well said.

To add to your initial post, you won't find reviews on way more essential things than a hobby like let's say public and private schools for the kids that would have an attempt to be as descriptive as the reviews that are expected to be about providers. Don't we care less about schools where the kids go and the quality of the education they're getting on the hourly or at least daily basis?? (e. g. what the teachers do and say in the class, what the students respond and how they accomplish their tasks, what everyone liked and disliked, etc.). Intimate experience between the client and the provider is their property and their privacy.

I understand the feeling of keeping private things private. I have been asked in the past if someone shared too many details - it doesn't bother me- but if it bothers you, just be more coy about it. I have a mixed bag of reviews some of them are very detailed- and some are very vague. Whatever you are comfortable with is fine with me! There are many ways that you can explain what you did without doing a blow by blow.

Though to each his own. Xoxo