I just got on with Ashalees and plan on setting up an outcall to my place with one of their beautiful models. As this will be my first time, I didn't know wether to play some music during my session or not to. Also should I keep the lights on or off? It'll be during the day. (3:00pm) Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance

Something soft in the backround, and for lighting, something soft is alway a pleasure.  So go with soft like i would hope you are. jmho

You will enjoy it more and she will too. Soft music and soft light is always a good choicein my book, day or night!

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Playing softly in the background. And Roadie is right, soft lighting. Maybe a few candles. If you can, turn off the lights and leave the blinds cracked, so there is some natural lighting. Just dont make it too dark. That might freak her out

and Katy is right, a little mood lighting is great.  Just enough lighting as she said.

Good luck

Thank you to everyone, all excellent advice. Soft music and low natural lighting it is!!!!!! :]]

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!

makes you feel comfortable. I'm sure as long as your a gentleman everything will go fine once you break the ice. Speaking of music, I just checked in a hotel in Charlotte tonight and I'm waiting forever for this guy to check in and then the rest of his buddies (the band) come in. There's some band called LA Guns here! I don't know them but I have heard of them, I believe they're hard rock.

When you pick out the lady you want to see, consider her age, and then ask Ashlee for some suggestions about the music the lady would like. I'm assuming she doesn't let the clients communicate with the lady of choice before the date. She probably will ask the lady of your choice what kind of music she likes to listen to during "romance time" and get back to you.

If you are allowed to communicate with your choice directly, then you can ask her yourself what kind of music she likes to listen to.

Ashlee wants your business, she wants you to come back again if you are a nice guy, so I can't imagine she wouldn't want help you out on your first big date in this world.

The only challenge will be picking out music BOTH of you like, but take the first really simple step-just ask!

For things like lighting, buy some nice candles for the luv room,leave the door open, to let the natural light in and have the candles lit as well. This effect should give you enough light to see what you want to see, but not be so stark. Try the lighting thing out before she gets there to make sure YOU like it. when you retire to luv room ask her if it's enough light for her. She'll probably say yes because in her mind she's there for you most of all.

Again, don't overthink this, I know how important it is to you to have a wonderul time, but if you overthink your first time you won't be able to relax. I think any lady will appreciate that you've done some things to make it nice for both of you.

Also if it's your first time, an hour goes by REAL fast. You may want to book 1.5 or 2 hrs so you can get in the swing of things and not feel rushed. The last thing you want to happen is to not have enough time to do everything you what to do. And with most agencies an hour is 60 minutes on the dot, and a call or text will come at 55 minutes to remind her to start getting ready for her departure.

Hope this help and you have a great experience!

xoxo,

Steph

just for her about her you are sharing with all the folks you know
and humming it all the time thinking about her. hehe

Woo her, be romanitc!

Then play this for her.

You can thank me later.

I Concur!

Shifterp OUT!

....I like soft, sexy music.

Thank you so much Steph!!! This really helped me out, and truly appreciate you taking the time to reply with such great depth. You're a lifesaver love.

Yes,  I love light music in the background.. lights down just a little bit..

Sets the mood for connections on many levels ...  I'd say..

Good luck!

Kara

great music, thanks