There are definitely parallels between the two "industries", however, being that in "this" world, the relationship and experience is much more intimate, "faking" I like being with someone that I can't stand is practically impossible.
The difference is (I have found) that my client does not have to be "Adonis" to please me. I have discovered that I am attracted to many subtle characteristics in a man, such as his intelligence, ability to laugh with me, his desire for me and communication of those desires, not to forget his overall cleanliness & attention to hygiene make for an incredible (and I hope, repeated) session.
I have a motto that describes this:
"It's the envelope that gets me there, but not the envelope that brings me back."
Meaning, there must be a connection on another level for us to meet again...If I truly did not enjoy myself, there is no way that I can "look forward" to seeing him again.
The biggest compliment a client can pay me is a repeat visit..Likewise, it's a compliment to him as well that I would love to see him again too.
With so many ladies and so many men available, there is no doubt one can find those with whom they have chemistry.
Fortunately, I have met such fine gentlemen that I don't have a DNS list of clients...My business model is a bit different as I travel alot and have to make plans in advance, so I get a good "feel" for those I do get to meet.
So, to answer your questions, I do go out of my way to make my date feel special, whether they repeat or not is up to them, but if I truly enjoy myself, I'd love to! I don't know what it is specifically about them that causes me to put forth the effort-call it chemistry? And, yes, many have contacted me again and the experience was even more incredible...
xxx
Jinni
Posted By: OlderGrayNotSoWiseGuy
Years ago I was a V.P. for marketing at a major firm in New York. I have long since retired but have just come back from a training seminar for young sales representatives at my former employer.
Something struck me as I was giving my presentation. For years I taught sales reps that their best customers were the ones that thought they were truly cared about even if that was the farthest thing from the truth. To be honest it is totally Marketing 101.
Most of the things on this site are pure marketing but do any of you providers go out of your way to make select gentlemen feel like they are special just to ensure a repeat customer? What is it about those men that make you put forth that effort? Assuming you have done this, has it paid off for you in repeat business?
I know some of this could be sensitive information and you may not wish to share details. That is perfectly understandable. But if you dare give us your honest input.
