If I were hobbyist paying a lady $300 and up, she better treat me like I'm Johnny Depp or Bradley Cooper. Sure, some clients are more attractive than others but I treat them all the same. In fact, my ATFs are average looking guys. I have "hot" clients as well but looks alone doesn't make one an ATF. I'm sure you agree.
As for a client showing up and me not feeling it, If I don't feel like it - I won't agree to meet the guy - period. I've heard of providers having an "Off day" but $300 is a lot of money to gamble with. Don't you agree? While I enjoy my vocation, I also make it a habit to take a vacation to avoid burnout so when it's playtime - I bring my A game.
I always wonder if women in the hobby really love sex or if you do it a lot it gets boring? I know it is an individual thing but DAMN the gals I have been lucky enough to visit really seem to love sex, not just a job going through the motions! Much respect and appreciation!
Kera, I am on the other end of the spectrum, would love MORE!!!!!!! Then again it is always great cause I am very picky in my choices, cause Yes 300 bucks is no joke!
Anyway, thanks for your thoughtful answer.
Always doing all I can to understand the fairer sex.
By the way, the gals I have met in the hobby have made me feel like Johnny Depp and Bradley Cooper all rolled into one. I have said many times I feel like the luckiest fella in the world cause of the gals I have gotten to spend time with here in the Carolinas and the memories I have.
Worst experince I had was in Vegas and the highest donation I have donated! No need to go into details but it was pretty awful.
Anyway, any gal I have met if you are reading this you have no idea how appreciative I am and hope I have always treated with with as much respect as passion.
Just deeply grateful and always have a smile on my face!
Sex is always better when there is some sort of chemistry/connection. Fact is, No one wants to spend time with an asshole. A good/positive attitude will put a provider at ease and make the session more enjoyable. I'm sure that's why you've had nothing but great experiences (with the exception of the chick in Vegas). Does sex get boring? Sex is never boring. There is good sex and there is bad sex. Bad sex to me is when the gentleman is unwilling to take direction. Will I tell the client that the sex was bad? No. If I'm paying you $300 plus to spend time with me, you better tell me I was the best fuck ever. Of course - this is a ymmv situation. Some guys want to know the truth - others don't.
What a thoughtful and intelligent answer. I have seen ladies that were in it for Ben, and other that enjoyed it. We fellas are a bit egotistical and like to think we rocked the ladies world. But deep down we know we arent all that and a bag of chips. The real question is did she rock ours? And when all is said and down , it is all about companionship. I have seen some ladies that just being face to face was worth the price of admission. Then there is the fantasy. Let me just say you are special. Beautiful, intelligent, and sweet, not the only one in the Carolinas but one of the few special ladies that I like to call a "companion".
Another great answer Kera. 3 likes, 38 reads, seems you are making sense to other folks besides me! You go girl!
What I always hope for, and I mention this cause this has worked best for me over the years. Maybe I ought to say I aspire to this over the years Works, hoping so.
Men are different and I am more of a giver than a taker. So when I get to spend time with a woman I am hoping to enjoy mutual pleasure as much as possible instead of just donating for a gal to bang ME.
I can take direction and if there is a bit of a connection then whether I get this or not what I really want to know is what do you like, what do I need to know and do next time to get your toes curling and your eyes roling in the back of your head?
So my idea and whether it is complete fantasy or not it it still my story and I am sticking to it! I am looking for a mutually off the charts time for both and the lady gets her donation as as I leave she is smiling.
She is smiling and saying to herself, Oh how great is this hobby thing! I just got completely satisfied AND got a donation on top of that!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope he calls on me again!
So that Kera is my Mt Everest type goal when I get together with women in the hobby.
I think I have been successful a time or two!
I sincerely love and adore and respect women. They are so great(Flounder Animal House reference)
Thanks again for your insight.
Shifterp OUT! ps I do not want to hear I am the best fuck ever, I want the ladies to tell me what I can do that I know that from the non-verbal responses I know to look for that that is happening without them telling me. If they want to verbalize it for me that is ok too, verbal confirmation is cool.
His instant awkward vibe (I just uh could tell instantly he was going to be weird and maybe even hard to please and I was right) from the moment I opened the door. Wasn't a bad appt but he killed my own happy vibe and I did because he didn't smile AT ALL like not once that I recall and I a few cracked jokes during "intermission" and he just kind of looked at me (I know i'm funny damnit or least not totally corny! lol)....he had a great time according to his review and rated me good enough but tbh I dunno if i'd see him again if he requested....just an awkward awkward guy he was like stone. No "connection". It was not an NC gent though (had to throw that out there).
I've never been so horrified of someone's looks that I wanted to kick them out though. This isn't match.com lol
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