I was to meet a very well reviewed provider in the area this weekend.  It was to be our first meeting and she had lots of time to screen me, was happy with what she found, told me how much she was looking forward to it and we set a day and time a couple days out.  No rushing, no last minute stuff, a full hour, no QV stuff.  Should go smoothly.  She knew from the texts that I was driving in from an hour away to see her.  

I've seen several of these types of threads over on the general board and essentially it comes down to 3 options from your end of the shit treatment.  I will say one thing for her based on what you've said here.  Her willingness to tell you the truth about the situation rather than make something up gives you some additional insight into how she runs her business and her consideration of potential new friends.  What is it?  New friends are not relevant and courtesy is not extended as a general rule.    

...to call her out here. It's understandable if you're concerned about blowback from her; your choice. The sad fact of the game is that it's not uncommon for an appointment to get blown off for a better offer.

Both times were with well know women on this board.  

I hate this happened to you.  It is inexcusable given the details and your flexibility and going the extra mile to accommodate her requests.  I don't think she ever had any intention of meeting with you and I find it poor taste and a total lack of respect on her part to treat anyone this way.  Especially after you agreed to back the appointment up.  Wasting three to four hours of your time, the fact that you had to travel, and the extreme lack of courtesy warrant that you simply post who it was with so the rest of us know the situation and to be aware.   I have had the same happen to me before and it is not funny.  It is not complaining on your part.  It is simply stating the facts.  And using the excuse of an appointment running over is lame.  It shows she had no respect for your time and effort and appointment.  She could have easily told her current client she had another appointment and asked that he leave instead (assuming that was true) she chose to crap on you.

But if guys would finally start calling them out publicly on their BS then maybe they'd stop doing it... As often at least lol.

I'd back channel this one. The WK's and several others would try to fuck you over to no end. Several of her "good" reviewers would call Bullshit and you could end up on a couple provider DNS lists (maybe) it's not worth the headache. Back channel works just as well as putting her on "Blast" on the board without all the blowback.  

Lurking about the Carolina Board ?
You thinking about heading this way for some grits & sweet tea ?

Sorry ya got stood up, my VIP is out you have my hobby email if you want to share privately. Haven't heard from you in a while guessing my aggressive fix took care of your hvac problems.

She should not have treated you that way, and there is no good excuse for it.   I would feel just as bad and upset as you do, and probably wouldn't try to go back.  Knowing that a girl will keep an appointment, is number one for me.

Yup, everything fine in the HVAC stuff, you stand behind your work.  Haven't been hobbying the past year or so, been with a civvie exploring the kink world.  Fun stuff, developed a real love for rope.  Pretty young rope bottoms really do it for me.  There are some interesting things to discover in the real world, too.  But I'm hobbying again, just searching slowly for a regular, sampling the gorgeous women in the Carolinas, trying to find that perfect combination.

I don't like drama and don't intend to call out the provider publicly on this.  I know that there isn't any way to "make it up", as one poster said, how would that session go?  I'm just going to cross her off my "Want to See" list and write it off.

Protein shakes? Didn't you read about how she DOESENT swallow😎😎?  

Most guys know that this kind of shit has real  consequences in the business world, but a young provider who never had a job and has the attitude that guys will always be there with cash stuffed envelopes ... Not so much.

....who stood me up twice recently here in Florida?  She travels between the two areas.  Well reviewed and I had a date with her one-time doubles partner so she knows I am "legitimate."

Sucks.  Happens.  Worst part is that if it was reversed and YOU stood HER up in that fashion, your name would be on a black list in record time.  Nothing you can do but move on.  Good news is...you have that money in your pocket.  Add a little more to it and go even bigger and better with the next provider on your to do list.  While that was a hobbying disappointment, I'm betting your next dream girl date will make up for it, big time.

Game over!

It's like getting robbed and instead of going to the police telling yourself "Well, they know what they did and now they have to live with it"  

i have also had the same thing happen to me from a high end provider in the Raleigh area. We did a meet up and talked for so time, set up a evening date with her. texted a couple of times. Set the date and time, and as of today have not heard a word from her. I just wished that some of the providers were up front and just tell us if you are not interested. But it all worked out as I found a Great provider. that's not her

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Don't whine and complain unless you are going to do something constructive about it.

The deck is stacked.  I call her out in public and get blacklisted.  Is that worth it?  I don't think so.  Maybe the thought of how much back channel communication is going on might give her pause to not do it again so lightly.

Congratulations, you have now graduated into becoming a BSU.

I mean afterall, we only have his side of the story to go on. What if he isn't just a coward, but a liar as well and she canceled for a VERY different reason that what he claims here?

Very nice point of view!  

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