I've been having this debate and would appreciate any thoughts / experiences ! Do the gals really enjoy this hobby ( even to the point of getting turned on ) or do they pretend and stay in control because it's just work ? Inquiring minds want to know !

I don't think you can be successful long in this hobby if you do not truly enjoy what you do. I love it, even the administrative side of it. I hate when clients ask me "are you working today?!" I'm like, "wtf? Working on what?"  I started this years ago because the money was good (paid for school and such)  Now I do it for the some of the same reasons many of the gentlemen do. Regular dating sucks but I LOVE to f***! Thankfully with good screening you have a good idea of who your meeting with!

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I acknowledge my constraints. I completely understand ladies enjoying this because they like the physicality (fucking) of this profession. I, seem to be beating myself up, because I so want to bang away but some parts of me don't seem to want to play. So, ladies, if you come across a gentleman that can't satisfy you physically, is it still an enjoyable session?... OK, I know I can DATY, or play with her. And I do notice that a good wet pussy as I play with her does allow me to get a little more than limp noodle. Which is why I say, these sessions are all about ME...  

Recently had a session with a provider I have used in the past that was strictly a BR/HJ provider. Then noticed she was offering an increased menu, so visited her because I do so love BBBJ and really wanted one from her. But found she would never BBBJ and didn't like the taste of condoms, so BJ was entirely off the menu... Well, for me that was it with the advanced menu, although I would have loved DATY, I was not willing to pay her upcharge just so I could taste her.

To quit babbling, do providers also enjoy the less physical encounters?

I WANT to share  and I truly love giving  
AND receiving

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LOVE giving pleasure too! Whatever way they prefer. And hey, if they get pleasure from pain, I"d do that for them too! LOL

Thank you for your enlightening response ! 😘

IMHO and experience the top notch Providers tend to allow themselves to enjoy the session along with the lucky gent.
Of course the dudes conduct should be such to allow mutual enjoyment .

Plus, the very best ladies seem to understand that it ain't just about the sex !

"Love giving pleasure, too! Whatever way they prefer."  I(ME) like the "pain" of having my wrists velcroed to the sides of the soft office chair and being "forced" to look into the eyes of a lil lady kneeling between my nekked trembling legs on a soft pillow, of course)

I can tell that I am in the clutches of a lil devil, or angel, hard to tell, as I know I have to go through hell(teasing) to get to heaven(happy ending);P~~~

No sensation-killing, pinchy guy cover for me, during this torture, and for those ladies who are hesitant to get a mouth full of "candy", I suggest reading BBBJ101 that I have posted before) Soft music, porn playing with sound on, with all the sloppy sounds of a lil lady who enjoys the pleasurable feel of her man's thang between her uncovered  lips, causing her to drool;P~~~ O.K. back to scardee cats for BBBJ101---Use the big, evil eyes, soft hands all over his junk, talking dirty(very important), cooing, going mmmmmm, and using that lil slippery tongue to tickle the boys, and MOST important doing HARD upward licks on his hard member) The candy will go away from the lil tongue this way. What in the world is the difference between holding a dry, except for girl drool, between her lips, and where the lil lady plunges her nekked tongue between a cuties sugar walls, where she will get more candy on her tongue than with the guy thang therein?

Of course this can be done in reward for him(ME!, ME!) torturing the lil lady until she wiggles and giggles, uh, several times)
Off to lunch, getting "hungry" here)

And that is why we men love you.

you are definitely a giver...

Hope to see you soon!

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I am hands down a nympho, and I love playing both sweet and kinky.
I enjoy meeting new people and spending as much time as possible.
This is all about fun, joy, and happiness.

 Squirts and Kisses,
Kassie Kink