I had a session with a provider that has 7+ pages of reviews.  Personnaly, my experience was not that good.  I posted my review from MY VIEWPOINT.  I tried to balance why I didn't like it against what others may have wanted.  I felt it was a fair representation of my experience.  5 days later the "woman" called my house, yelling and cussing, and THREATENING to make my real name public.  Scared me to death.  I contacted the TER admin and explained what had happened.  Their best advice was to remove the review.  The worst they could do would be to de-list her.  I have her on my voicemail stating she was going to put my real name up on some website.  Even if I were to send TER a copy, the nice person with TER did suggest that if I tried to have her de-listed, she might be enraged more and make the problem worse.  I caved in.

Her last call to me was almost answered by my daughter.  I will DO WHATEVER I HAVE TO PROTECT MY FAMILY!  I asked the TER admin to remove the review.  If this can happen once, it may happen again.  So, if my review cannot be MY review, there is no point in doing any more of them.  I now question the validity of her other reviews.  If she is able to go PSYCHO this time, she has probably done it before.

Im so sorry that this is happening to you.
Fair is Fair..The thing I have always felt is if you get a not so good review or bad review it just proves to you that not everyone is made to click with each other right off. I dont sweat the possibility of a bad review I just know that we are all human and one day it might come to where I dont get along with someone. But the only thing is if it is going bad with me then you should always stop the session and gracefully back out.

There is no since in being rude or making threats to someone that didnt like you.Because you cant make everyone like you..I feel if you are going to do a bad review on a lady you should explain why you felt this way. Be graceful about it and  I feel you should allow everyone to know why YMMV.. But my mom always said if you dont have something good to say about someone then just dont go back around them and keep your mouth shut.. But this is a business and we have to realize that we are going to be reviewed about our services. Thats why no matter why I treat all of my clients equal and provide good services to all. But if I see we dont click or things just arent going right then I will ask the client if he would like to just end it.. Thank God I haven't had to do this yet. Im sorry for the both of you..

No matter what we all will go to great measures to protect our loved ones. It's a shame that a review on someones services is threaten that.

Like I said Fair is Fair.. We do get paid and paid well to provide a service. Although..
You have to remember that just because you read a review and someone said they got a certain service from a girl doesn't mean its going to be the same for you. All sessions are different. Some ladies will provide one thing for a gent and not feel comfortable providing it to another. So if you are or were expecting something from a lady please ask before you assume because Assuming things gets alot of people in trouble. Always ask what to expect before the session.

I hope it gets better for you. Jeana Paige

I am so sorry that happened to you also. I agree with Jeanna. Not everyone will always click. Everyone is different, has different expectations, likes and dislikes. It would be impossible to make everyone you meet like you. Individualality and our different personalities are what make us unique and seperate us from all being the same, which would be boreing. My advice would be the same as Jeanna's.

Thanks. I could go point to point to answer what you say, but I have decided to move on.  I no longer have faith in the review system and just wont participate in.  I have had my home number changed and taken other personal safety steps.

YMMV and getting a call from a PSYCHO are two very different things...

I editted to add this. I was not dismissing your posts. Both of you make great points.  I just wasn't going to go down the list.  I never assume anything from the Ladies I see.  Each Lady is different and I try to treat each that way. I just think that my review should be MY REVIEW.  It is my take on my experience. I try (not always successfull) to say this is why I liked/disliked from my POV but that others would be YMMV.  

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myself.

Just had a similar experience.  Plenty of reviews at 8/9, but when I arrived I thought her mother had shown up.   I like older providers, but she must have 20 years olders than the 30-something pics on her website.

Reviewed as a 9 rated performer, she frankly had to be instructed in some pretty basic stuff.

I understand some Difference of opinion in the 6&7 ranges, but 20 years older and frankly clueless could in no way equal a 9.

Will I review her? Nope, and your experience is why, but frankly I don't put much stock in any reviews now.

Obviously there are people lurking around just parroting what they read from someone else.  It makes the entire system useless.

I get a lot of emails from female providers who are pissed off that I don't screen like them....they brag that no one can give them a bad review b/c they can blackmail a man's family....

I ask them and others...
what stops anyone from going to a public internet cafe and using that computer to flame a provider or place false reviews for them if they are your best friend?

Even wireless networks have cards that can be bought and sold, changing the IP address and most hotels have dsl so if a woman travels from city to city, her ip addy will keep changing

wannarideher,  that is an excellent point.  Just to draw a paralell to what you are talking about,  I would compare to the Cold War.  The term was M.A.D. Mutually Assured Destruction.

They launch, we launch.  Everybody looses.  

Personally, I hope it is over.  I think by removing the review, I have given the suffucent offering to the "gods" and she may well leave me alone now.  Even still, I have changed some numbers and taken personal safety steps.   I am also taking a break from the hobby.