Yes, when you burn the candle at both ends, one end seems to burn faster than the other creating a mismatch of when they meet
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The ladies have their lodging, travel, etc. needs, and we guys have our work, families(not me anymore), etc. that we have to consider, and, of course, we have to open our check books to see if there is any hobby $ available for her time, soooooooo, it is a wonder that we meet in the middle at all sometimes
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AND, if we guys miss watching the boards for a couple of days, the ladies pass us like ships in the night, and we go "Damp It!" Missed her again
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After I win millions of $ in the lotto tomorrow night, I'm gonna have a safe house with 10 bedrooms and I'm gonna Velcro the ladies to the furniture therein so that I don't miss them when they come to town. Hmmmm, wonder how long those millions will last when all 10 show up at the same time, and for lengthy stays
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