I had an appointment to meet a girl Sunday at 8am. Saturday I called to confirm and got a weird message, so I thought she had blocked me.
I looked at Backpage and near the top was a beautiful girl who had a good review on TER (327086).
65% ask what your profession is. So I was surprised that she did not want to know anything. But she had a good review, so it did not bother me.
She also gave me the price over the phone, but quite a few girls will do that.
It was a very reasonable price considering how young and beautiful the pictures are. But living costs here are lower than in big cities. She gave me the approximate location, which was 30 min away. Next morning I called before I left. No answer, but I thought she might be sleeping, so drove there. When I got the vicinity, I called again, no answer. Minor shopping. Still no answer. I drove home. I called her in the afternoon and she hung up. I could totally understand if she did not want to meet me for any reason. But she she should tell me that instead of just not answering. She is advertising again now, same phone, different name.
I am wondering if it some some sort of LE sting, and the LE checked my phone number and decided they would not bust me because I was not young, or not black . Does TER have a way of preventing fake reviews by LE ? After I got home, I found another girl on BP, had a good meeting with her. Then the original girl sent me a message saying her phone got disconnected because of a billing mix up. So I met her the next day and had a good session with her.
What is curious was that only the "stood me up" girl had a TER review. One girl had a backpage ad and her own website, the other had only a Backpage ad. Nothing is full-proof.
that are full-proof. Your imagination is really running away with you!!
LE is NOT posting reviews on TER.. Just think about that statement!
I do know that YOU are going down a path of danger by seeing ladies that are not reviewed by reputable
hobbiests here on TER... just because a lady has ONE review does not make her good to go in my book..she is just getting started. I want to see 5 or 6 GOOD reviews before I would even consider seeing her..Every time that you contact a lady on BP with no reviews you are rolling the dice..so dangerous!! You may have had only good experiences so far..If that is the case then you are extremely lucky!!
You never know when you are going to call the wrong one..when you get to that location and you are robbed or there is a pimp waiting on you there with a gun in his hand.. or it is a bait and switch.. Wow! those pictures looked great!! I wonder what happened to the girl in the pics?? You sir are living very dangerously and you really need to think about this..
How is LE prevented from posting reviews on TER ?
How would TER staff, or any member, know that a review was part of a LE operation ?
They have all they need with BP if they suspected something was going on down at the Motel 6 ..
These BP ads are posted on a public forum..easily accessible.These BP ladies are low hanging fruit..
Way more than enough to keep LE busy!!
Before it's too late. All these ladies right here on TER yet some of you just can't help yourselves. Just have to go the Backpage route.
Know what's going to eventually happen to you Brian? That cheap $120 session isn't going to be so cheap anymore when you're either robbed or arrested. Because that's what is going to happen.
You're either going to robbed by the girl, robbed by her pimp/boyfriend or caught in a sting. Just a matter of time. You've been warned.
If the girl doesn't doesn't care who you are, that should be a RED FLAG. Asking you on the phone if you're a cop doesnt mean shit. Neither does the old "LE check". If the girl doesn't care who shows up you need to ask yourself WHY.
I've gotten attitude numerous times over my screening, but guess What? I don't frankly care. In 9 years I've never been robbed, shorted any large amount, assaulted, empty envelope all together, had to force someone out, etc etc.
So again- if you keep the route you're taking, it's eventually going to end badly for you Brian. Still to well reviewed ladies. One review doesn't count. See ladies that DO care who you are. You're much less likely to walk into something bad. Do you really want to end up arrested or robbed or worse to save a few bucks down at the Motel 6?
For one thing, a girl does not start out with lots of reviews. She has to start with 0, then accumulate them. So someone has to take a chance on her.
I've met a number of girls here multiple times. I 've asked several of them to white list me, they all say they will, but so far none of them has---they just forget about it. Once you are out the door, they get busy with other things. Some of the girls with reviews don't actually use TER, they don't want the monthly cost, they depend on regulars and word of mouth, so it's extra effort for them to white list me.
I have a strong feeling they didn't white list you for other reasons. I can tell you just from reading your posts I wouldn't want to see you....or recommend you
to be that guy that takes that chance?? I have already been down this road Brian.
Have you ever been robbed before Brian? I can tell you that it is NOT a pleasant experience.
The barrel of that pistol felt really cold on my neck!! But you just keep doing what you are doing..
The money that you think that you are saving by " bargain hunting" is NOT worth it!!
"I am wondering if it some some sort of LE sting, and the LE checked my phone number and decided they would not bust me because I was not young, or not black ."
I feel this statement alone says a whole hell of a lot about Brian our OP
Hey Brian, if you really feel this way about law enforcement, don't call 911 next time you need the police. Lets see how you make out
Do you think the legal system is completely fair?
Is it fair to providers ?
targets young people and black people in the hobby? Give an example? Back up your statement?
Fair to providers???? What is that supposed to mean?
Blacks are treated differently by police on a number of levels.
Maybe it is only black males, not black females, that are mistreated.
It would be surprising to me if black men visiting providers would be treated more fairly than black
men driving cars.
Lets stay on topic....Where have cops targeted blacks and young people in the hobby?
There are plenty of reviewed ladies with established reputations at most price points...So why try to look for that cheap "diamond in the rough" like it's a treasure hunt when you will most likely end up with coal? Backpage isn't a thrift store.
The last things you are ever likely to find on BP are good bargains and value. It likely happens from time to time, but it is not particularly likely. There are some things you simply do not do 'on the cheap'.
It was not about saving money.
The last time I tried to contact a TER girl, she was not able to contact any of my
references, several of whom said they would vouch for me. But if they don't answer the phone,
what good is that.
If you are scheduling with a provider the day of your references won't always get back to her in time. Try scheduling in advance or see someone with flexible screening.
Brian
Sometimes you just need to listen.
Obviously you've a lot to learn. Most here have been attempting to respectfully help you.
I don't think there's anything wrong with worrying about LE and that's all I'll say about that,on the other topic I agree a girl has to start somewhere! I'm new here and I don't have a review yet and it def doesn't mean I'm a scam or that you won't enjoy a session with me.it jst simply means that I'm a provider that's new to this forum. Eventually a guy will review me and that doesn't change who I am or the magnitude of a good time you will have with me because of a review....js